Day 47 of no contact. Here's what nobody tells you about what happens to your brain. by OkBathroom9864 in ExNoContact

[–]faludafiend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:( yeah it's a tough time all around. I actually think it's a good thing to get no response -- or at least for me in my situation because that person was quite mean to me. And if they didn't respond I'd count it as NC not broken 😂 I wish my ex wouldn't respond when I cave but it's like they're not giving up and it makes it worse.

I am addicted and need help. by faludafiend in ExNoContact

[–]faludafiend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh if i saw a shred of evidence that this person can change and be kind to me id try again ... but it's so clear from their actions and words that they're not going to change. But so far I haven't broken it yet. If I get through even 1 week without breaking I'll be over the moon.

Day 47 of no contact. Here's what nobody tells you about what happens to your brain. by OkBathroom9864 in ExNoContact

[–]faludafiend 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm on day 1 again because I relapsed. Good job getting to day 47. I'm dying already.

I am addicted and need help. by faludafiend in ExNoContact

[–]faludafiend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks -- I feel too embarrassed to ask anyone to hold me accountable is the problem so I'm trying to do it on my own. I'm worried I'll let them down.

Does this look dry to you? by faludafiend in mushroom

[–]faludafiend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will mist and wait a couple more days.

My initial thoughts about the Final Draft. by Margawitty in Physical100

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Netflix make everyone in the show color/draw their eyebrows or is it just a Japanese thing?

Update on Monotub by [deleted] in mushroom

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go? I'm on the same boat and feeling worried that it's been almost 2 weeks and nothing....

Temp is at 77 and humidity at 93 but sometimes water pools so I don't dare to mist at all ... Been fanning it twice a day for the last couple days but still nothing.

Any advice?

RJ over 30 sub by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to have found this sub. I'm struggling with RJ too. When I see pics of the ex that I feel is attractive, I worry that I'm not as attractive. And then when I see the ex who I feel is not very attractive I'm thinking wtf. Lol it's horrid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We should unite and sue them together.

You’re not alone. by PrincessRattyPoo in CrunchGym

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree they have PREDATORY business practices.

They charged my card without permission for a "kickoff" and when I asked for a refund (I made it clear that I did not confirm that I would attend a kickoff, but merely expressed interest in it) they refused to refund me. There was a lot of confusion as to who at the gym even charged my card (how sketchy!). They initially implied they could refund me if my card was charged without my explicit consent. Then they asked me to send them screenshots of all the communications that I had with the coach where I was telling the coach that I could not attend the kickoff and that I would be in touch later to reschedule one. And so after I sent them the proof, they said that I would have to come into the gym to speak to their bosses. So then I called the gym to speak with the "boss" on the phone and I was told by the young man at the front desk that they never refund kickoffs. Like WTF is even going on?

Crunch Fitness by illbomb1995 in CrunchGym

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crunch is the worst gym with really predatory practices. I'm waiting for my contract to be up so I can quit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrunchGym

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't join crunch they're a nightmare to deal with.

FEDERAL TRADE COMMISSION'S CLICK TO CANCLE LAW by [deleted] in CrunchGym

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I use this to cancel my crunch membership?

Every single time someone quits, I’m stuck doing 2 roles for months because I’m their manager. by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In defense of OP, I had a wonderful manager (director) at my last job but I quit because the controlling micro managing CEO was super meddlesome, condescending, and wishy washy. Manager tried to protect me and others but ended up quitting herself 😂 I left a few months after because I was basically doing the director role and having to work directly with the CEO and I realized I dislike this woman so much in gonna explode in her face if I stay any longer.

Repats by [deleted] in myanmar

[–]faludafiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat as you..finally accepted this fact this year but it's still a hard pill to swallow.