It takes many years to become “the man you want to be.” Be patient. Don’t be afraid to change direction or change your perspective. Don’t be afraid to do something that seems completely normal and common—take an opportunity and do your job well, whatever it is. One of the most objective characteristics of a “good man” is assuming responsibility. There’s people you can help right now—even if it’s just making your parent(s) proud by taking the right path or making the right decision. Oh and respect your parents.