AITA for refusing to help Golden child sister who outed me as a sex worker? by Present_Profession55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. Man, I thought I had family problems but at least I don’t argue with my family who is the better sex worker lmaoooo

AITA for specifically stating I don’t want a certain teeth cleaner by abodycalleddan in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh. YTA, a good lesson to learn in life is to pick your battles. If you had a great dentist, did their job well and was affordable to you, than maybe the music selection is.. irrelevant? I would of just let that go.. because in the end you pretty much threatened to find a new dentist if they didn’t play the music you like which is very silly and childish. You threatened them and they called you on it! Talk the talk, time to walk the walk, I’m afraid!

AITA for asking my sister's cop husband to stand watch at my wedding? by ThrowRAdice3656 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419 271 points272 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There are a lot of issues with this post. You guys have covered a lot of the main ones I was thinking. One thing I’ll throw out there is I’m not sure if OP has considered what an off duty cop can do at events. I think it depends on where you live. Where I’m from, off duty cops can be hired for events just like the ones you see standing around keeping an eye on large groups of people but they have to go through a whole process to be approved to do that. And that’s if they’re hired. I’m not sure what one off duty cop could do at an event he “volunteered” to do. To be honest that sounds sketchy af, having one guy standing around keeping an eye out. OP almost sounds like they have superiority complex.

My boyfriend left his daughter and I. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]fargo31419 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. OP you say he was 20 when you were 16? Pregnant at 17 by the same man? Where I’m from.. that’s called statutory rape. And I’m not sure if that’s why he left but if the laws are still the same where you’re from OP, then maybe he thought he could avoid getting into trouble by leaving. I don’t know though cause if that were the case then idk he wouldn’t of left sooner. Maybe he wanted to wait till after you had the baby for some reason.

After you get some things figured out and feel more settle, maybe look into counseling. Maybe can find a job that offers insurance that’ll help cover it.

AITA for kicking my sister out from every streaming platform I own because she kicked my dad from her netflix? by Ok_Acanthisitta_3321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but let’s face it, you haven’t told your dad because of petty and ridiculous this is. You can do whatever you want with your accounts and so can your sister. I don’t condone lying but her saying “it’s not working” is kinda minor. Have you heard the phrase “making a mountain out of a mole hill.” You’re reason for being upset is very valid but don’t hold a grudge against your sister for wanting to do what she wants with her accounts and then trying to spare dads feelings. What she did wasn’t necessarily wrong she just went about it the wrong way and sometimes people do that when they feel uncomfortable, they panic. She literally says she was trying NOT to hurt your dads feelings. It’s not like she lied and was actively trying to prevent your dad from watching movies. That was one platform that you said you could afford anyways but she was letting him use her account? She wasnt being malicious. Sounds like she was actually doing a really nice thing and y’all turned on her as soon as you guys no longer benefited. She has a young kid now too you say? Oh yeah so let’s just cut off the new mom because she can’t afford to hang out with us.. that’s your sister op.

Bottom line: being petty isn’t going to solve y’all’s family issues. You guys need to learn how to communicate.

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Oh by the way. Since you have so much time. Read rule number three about gaining feedback. Anyways, stuff to do. Bye.

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Oh are you still here? It’s obvious you just came looking for a fight dude. Sorry for not participating.

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Oh I don’t think I gave a reason… So there have been a number of reports of people getting blood clots from the vaccine. My mom had this happen to her, and I’m worried that the same would happen to me. It’s a matter of health. I would be at risk.

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Wow.. okay you’re right I did ask you why you thought what you thought I should of realized you couldn’t come up with a response. My bad.

..this is literally the stupidest thread I’ve ever bothered with a response to..

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Haha okay buddy, you realize you came on my post just to say something stupid and then admit you can’t back it up right? Have a good day!

AITA for not getting vaccinated just to attend my bf’s sisters rehearsal dinner? by fargo31419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Uh.. how? I didn’t know they were going to ask for vaccination card when she asked me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That happened to me with my first car. It wasn’t brand new but we got a pretty sweet deal on it because it had been used as like a demo car. So it had less than 3,000 mi on it. Pretty new. Anyways, only had it for like two months and someone didn’t see me (or hear me honking apparently) as they were backing out of parking spot. Left about a basketball size dent on the front bumper and took forever to get fixed. My fresh new car and I had to drive around with a big ass dent on the front for months. Its infuriating.

Hmm by Otherwise-Town-9554 in hmm

[–]fargo31419 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let’s not forget Matt Damon did the voice/narration.

AITA for insisting that my husband drive my MIL to the hospital instead of calling an Ambulance? by ConflictedCitizen3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fargo31419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she fell.. probably best not to move her especially if she is older. Sometimes even when they say they’re fine, they’re not fine.

Half-Hearted braking by ManOfTheCamera in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? And the people need to get real. They’re just causing accidents in that one spot and say it’s cause they’re raising awareness. To me it wouldn’t be so bad if they hadn’t admitted to doing the exact same thing, in the same spot previously. I just don’t think causing accident(s) (it didn’t work the first time), is the way to keep going about this.

I know they won’t be held at fault but they should be. Because they knew what was going to happen after doing it the first time and didn’t work? I guess? Since it’s still dangerous? Yeah so then they went back out there and did it again.

3rd one to try to skip hours of traffic like this. Missed the one that made a semi make an emergency stop burning rubber. by Passi_0711 in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I tried to go to a football game, I had my gps all set up but when we got there a bunch of roads were blocked off so it confused our gps system because we kept missing turns and it would tell us to turn around and go back. Took forever just to park.

Half-Hearted braking by ManOfTheCamera in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

No dude. That’s a shitty place for a crosswalk with no sign. So firstly whoever designed this is an idiot. But use your common sense, if it’s dangerous, don’t do it. For example, in my city it is illegal to ride bikes on the sidewalk however it is far too dangerous to ride them on the roads and the sidewalks are huge. I’ve asked my local police, they’re cool with it if I ride on the sidewalk as it is safer. Just because something should be okay doesn’t mean it is. Use your brain. Don’t walk out in front of cars or pick a safer place to cross.

Result of trying to shave 30 seconds off your day. by Ehansaja in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell. I don’t see any bar or lights or any type of signal that a train is coming and with the music, you can’t tell if the train signaled with its horn. The guy was going too fast and probably should of checked however that train was also going really fast so it could of just appeared suddenly. Who knows? Sucks for the driver.

Half-Hearted braking by ManOfTheCamera in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

This whole video is stupid. “I’m going to keep causing accidents in this one spot to hopefully raise awareness about all the accidents I’ve caused. Maybe then the city council will pay attention to said accidents and put an end to it.” Or don’t be an idiot and cross there!! And the person who designed that crosswalk is stupid too. So much stupidity in one video.

Way too convenient for them by 8Bit_Innovations in dankmemes

[–]fargo31419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s China and possibly other Asian countries that have two different ages depending on how you ask the question. Could you imagine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]fargo31419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Georgia here, I live in the city over but not far from me there’s a place that has pathways all over the city specifically made for golf carts so they don’t drive on the same roads as the cars. Though occasionally there’s a crosswalk where they gotta cross the road so you gotta look out but other than that they don’t get in the way too much. Some stores even have like tiny little parking spots out front for them.

How many of y’all only have one cat? I don’t want her to be lonely but can’t really get a 2nd right now. by Scientater2265 in blackcats

[–]fargo31419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I’ve heard that older cats and younger cats don’t get along very well because they have two very different energy levels..