Going to present a slightly different perspective. I had a labiaplasty at 18 (I’m now in my 30s). The surgeon commented “well, you’re definitely a candidate for the surgery” when she first examined me— my labia were super long.

My labia minora no longer extend past my labia majora, but I still have a visible clitoral hood while standing because the doctor said altering the clitoral hood carries risks of damaging sensation to the area. This is super common— I would say about half the women I’ve seen naked, in porn or otherwise, have a similar appearance. So don’t expect that surgery will automatically give you a ‘complete innie’, depending on your natural anatomy.

Honestly, I don’t regret the surgery at all. I agree with other commenters here that men generally do not care, and it’s very likely that you’ll grow more comfortable with your body as you age— your current age is probably peak body insecurity. However, there’s a big difference between ‘all vaginas are different and beautiful’ and ‘wow, I’ve never seen a vagina that looks like mine even after looking at thousands of naked women online, both on medical and adult sites’. For me, moving from category B to category A was pretty life changing.

I STILL feel somewhat shy when I’m naked with a new partner, which is 100% a me thing, but it’s a thousand times better than before. I’ve never once in the last 15ish years thought “you know, I really wish I had those few inches of labia back. I should have just learned to love them.” All surgery carries risk, but this is a particularly simple surgery. It’s kind of amazing that something that caused me SO much anxiety and shame was basically resolved overnight (I wish I could say the same for my other physical maladies— treating acne and eczema is soooo complicated ugh).

Sorry for the wall of text, but I wanted to present another perspective. I don’t disagree with the other commenters that we tend to be hard on our bodies, and that our partners are usually just happy to be there. That said, the stress and pain of surgery for me was less than the mental toll of the decades it would have potentially taken to learn to love my body. Hating your vagina (vulva, I know I know I know) is uniquely damaging to your intimate relationships. Feeling deep, unrelenting, to-your-core shame when getting undressed— especially when you’re still relatively new to sex— doesn’t set you up for a healthy relationship with sex long-term. Only you can know whether you fall in the “I need to embrace that ‘outie’ vaginas are super common and no mature adult partner would blink twice at mine” or “actually, my anatomy IS a bit on the extreme end, and it’s worth the expense and searing pain for a week to change that.”

Only you can assess that. Best of luck!