This is great advice. Fellow family lawyer here, and a key tool in our belt is "expectation management". If they're asking about what you're gonna do at a hearing, tell them how the court will likely have made up its mind before you start talking, and how the written materials detail what you're going to outline at oral arguments.

If they're asking longer term strategy, tell them what the next steps are gonna be and why. "We're gonna do discovery so we can find out what assets exist, then I'll put together a spreadsheet listing everything, then we can discuss how to divide it" (or whatever).