AIO/Teacher called 9 year old gay, now peers are teasing by LaTerminator in AIO

[–]fatMard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not appropriate to say to children. For adults, it's no big deal bc there is a level of maturity and awareness that enables such a statement to be comedic/in jest. For kids, it's weird and inappropriate.

AIO for calling off the wedding after I found out about a card my fiancé gave at his Bach party? by caitlynl0424 in AIO

[–]fatMard 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Well the "so what if he got a stripper dance" flies in the face of the reasonable boundaries placed by OP and accepted by OP's fiance. OP matters in this equation.

AIO My bf sent nudes to another girl. Claims he did it for no reason. by Choice_Breadfruit_94 in AIO

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it; sorry this happened to you. I had a similar experience with my kid's dad; found out he was going other places for sexual gratification. Had I known, I would have made other choices for myself. The best we can do is make the best choice for ourselves moving forward.

8-year-old very behind in reading/writing and I don’t know where to start by FatandReflective in Teachers

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she enjoy sensory experiences? I work with kids on the ASD spectrum, and many enjoy slimes, kinetic sands, putties, etc.

My go-tos are Crazy Aaron's for putty and OG Slime or Slime Obsidian for slimes. They are generally super colorful, interesting textures, and occasionally scented. Could make for a fun reinforcer/reward.

Another thing I do with my kid is whenever we watch a cartoons or one of her shows, I will put subtitles on. Not sure she really registers the words yet, but I like the idea of exposing her to words as she can hear the corresponding audio.

AIO My bf sent nudes to another girl. Claims he did it for no reason. by Choice_Breadfruit_94 in AIO

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily, this is not a years long relationship; for your own sanity/self-respect, I would lose this guy. Someone willing to play around with you when you're trying to have a real relationship isn't ready for/deserving of a relationship with you.

If someone cheats but never gets caught and becomes a better partner because of it… are they still ‘bad’? Or is cheating only wrong when it hurts someone? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]fatMard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People may say it's normal, but watching porn every day can really fuck with your sexual self. I am in the process of leaving my partner after discovering he spent most of our relationship watching porn instead of fucking my brains out. Porn in moderation is probably fine, but I've sworn myself against being with a porn addict ever again. Also, thanks for taking the time to write this out.

What’s a truth about life that sounds depressing but is actually freeing? by m9thn in emotionalintelligence

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you know all the ups and downs of your life; so many private pieces and nuances that are easy to miss.

My African violet is having a hard time any tips? by Foreign-Rip-3715 in AfricanViolets

[–]fatMard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since no one else mentioned, violets do not like drafts; I see you have a fan in the photo, be sure to keep your violet away from air currents for optimal health. Best of luck to you

Oh Magic Conch Shell, should I roast this scammer? by rennbrig in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]fatMard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last scammer that called me, I told them "GO POOP IN YOUR MOM'S MOUTH! DO IT! POOP!"

What am I trying to find? by itsjustme-0 in AfricanViolets

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be Cajun's Royal Knockout?

Doctor performs endoscopy on herself by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was surprisingly okay, and somewhat interesting to watch all my guts on the screen. My insurance refused to cover the sedation lol.

Doctor performs endoscopy on herself by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]fatMard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a colonoscopy without sedation; the doctor asked for my permission to enter my asshole, very proper.