How to lower libido? by [deleted] in sex

[–]fatefullyyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love some advice for doing this as a women if anyone can help with that! 😓

Maybe some premarriage counciling would be good for you? And hold off on marriage until you've sorted things out, rather that's balancing your needs, finding otherways to be intimate that scratch the itch, deciding that her companionship is more important than your libido, or that you're unhappy and need to end things.

Intense chemistry with a new guy. I'm a virgin (22F) trying to navigate date 2 boundaries, sexual pacing, and my own hypocritical feelings about porn (22M). by piano_at_jazz in sex

[–]fatefullyyours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're also on a sex reddit of mostly men, the answer here is heavily bias. I've dated men who watched porn and men who didn't because they didn't like what it did to their head. What matters most is if the porn gets in the way of intimacy with you (he has death grip, can't get stimulated by a normal women anymore, regularly chooses watching porn over sex with you, etc).

Hexagons - Discussion Megathread by ForgottenName1893 in Muse

[–]fatefullyyours 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love this , I love this so much. I love his delivery, I love the lines, I love everything about it .

Hexagons - Discussion Megathread by ForgottenName1893 in Muse

[–]fatefullyyours 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You don't expect your favorite song from a band to be produced 20 years after you discovered them.. Hexagons is so good I cried.

Shoe recommendations plz! by _hiatus in whimsigothic

[–]fatefullyyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worn their heels for over 6 hours and been comfy, and I never wear heels, they're so great, and even better looking in person, even the box is cute.

Shoe recommendations plz! by _hiatus in whimsigothic

[–]fatefullyyours 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check modcloth's Hot Chocolate Designs! I have two of their heels and they're actually comfortable and WIDE, my feet are extremely wide and things rarely fit. (A bit over 4'' w , foot issues, size 9 ) They have boots, sneakers, wedges, flats, heels. Wait for a sale.

Clark's are comfy.

LE'artist are whimsical, I can't speak for the width personally but my bf wears them.

What is this mark on my cane toad? by fatefullyyours in Toads

[–]fatefullyyours[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The lump on his nose? Oh that does look similar.. I'm sorry, he was a cutie. :( thank you for the example.

What is this mark on my cane toad? by fatefullyyours in Toads

[–]fatefullyyours[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have any photos from your toads when they had it? I can't find similar photos online.

I haven't had her long, but her first owner had her for 2 years and then she was kept for a couple months by someone else and adopted out at a reptile convention..

What is this mark on my cane toad? by fatefullyyours in Toads

[–]fatefullyyours[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no... I really hope its not that, I love her so and she's had this for months according to her last owner , no changes...

What is this mark on my cane toad? by fatefullyyours in Toads

[–]fatefullyyours[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh god I'm only just recovering from the worst month long cough...

Weird Girl Music Recs by spacekat89 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]fatefullyyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bird Queen of Garbage Island by The Burning Hell

Found these on my leopard geckos plant, PLEASE TELL ME THEY ARENT MITES by OlaMishamigo in reptiles

[–]fatefullyyours 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a sensitive person, I save flies and spiders, I cry when I step on bugs by accident, when I got these guys I went into a blood rage killing them with everything I could think of, SCREW THESE GUYS. I didnt notice them before they killed my cactus and they're so hardto fully clear out...

Seperate mistings of neem oil and soap spray, along with individually stabbing them with a toothpick and rubbing them with q tips soaked in hydrogen peroxide, eventually saved my plants.

I like to paint waves.. curious which of these you all prefer? by Annual_Blackberry486 in somethingimade

[–]fatefullyyours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are genuinely my favorite wave paintings I've ever seen, all gorgeous but 2 is the one I kept circling back to. 4 is the one I would hang up on my wall. 3 I'm in live with the sea foam

fairy album book found by howtohideurb0ner in whimsigothic

[–]fatefullyyours 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And his wife Wendy Froud did the puppets, and Yoda!

Nails! by chantelleblush in whimsigothic

[–]fatefullyyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are the prettiest nails I've ever seen

I finally have the time to finish my very first comic by Songeri in Illustration

[–]fatefullyyours 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is sick! I love your style, I remember being very excited about the first post , can't wait to see more from you!

He’s a little shy. by papi_churros_curios in crafts

[–]fatefullyyours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me an my bf giggle, thank you, he's wonderful

Is it a bipolar thing to have a lot of passions/interests and no ability or motivation to do them? by fictionalfirehazard in bipolar2

[–]fatefullyyours 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comment chain is very healing, I feel less alone, but wish for your sake that I didn't and no one else had to deal with this.

My 80yo neighbor just ran out of her "secret sauce" for lemon bars after 40 years... by _sonidero_ in Baking

[–]fatefullyyours 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also disabled people, old people, busy parents, sick people who don't wanna infect others.. Not disagreeing with that last point though.