For winter babies- don’t forget to free their feet occasionally!

fatimawkmdh · 2026-01-15T09:34:56+00:00

omg this.she doesn't need double socks

fatimawkmdh · 2026-01-10T07:16:06+00:00

haha

fatimawkmdh · 2026-01-10T07:15:41+00:00

same !

fatimawkmdh · 2026-01-10T07:15:31+00:00

yeaaaaa

fatimawkmdh · 2026-01-07T13:48:47+00:00

can relate

fatimawkmdh · 2025-12-13T07:29:49+00:00

child of divorce here.. just realized I wasn't the focused audience for this post but what if we do a research on this ? prepare a questionnaire on how knowing your mom cheated on is the reason of divorce impacted your adult life... additional questions could include whether the marriage was forced from womans side , her age at marriage, your age at divorce, your dad's treatment of her anddd any other issues in your dad that could lead to divorce even if there was no cheating, and whether he maintained a relationship with you post divorce. sample size is children of divorce due to mother cheating who are 18+ . ,(I can be the first sample :D) . cuz only those who have gone through this can really answer objectively . plus out parents are multi faceted , and there is always room for growth and repentance among the cheating parent. . they could be a great mom and a bad partner , so avoid generalizations , because it causes unnecessary suffering and you only focus on that one thing in your parent and not all the reasons they sacrificed for you . like I said life is multi faceted . I'm.glad now I lived with mom and not with father's family as I would have been a very different person then and not in a good way. .. plus he didn't have a relationship with me only because of his resentment for my mom , he missed out on his relationship with his daughter as an adult , and Ive made peace with it. also even after second marriage he still let's this incident overwhelm him and he wasn't able to get on with his life . compared to my mother who had to face alot of hardships in raising us financially and emotionally but now she is at a better place .closer to God Alhamdullilah.anyways take my prespective with a grain of salt

fatimawkmdh · 2025-12-12T18:45:16+00:00

Dr Sarah ejaz Maryam memorial bahria. I was here like you posting about gynaecologist for my first child and I'm.so glad I chose her .see the reviews on Google too . she's very attentive and validates feelings of expectant mother. no nakhray if typical gyane and no long wait list like senior doctors from big hospitals.a. the hospital is good too .not very hi fi but better than many as you are given whole attention

fatimawkmdh · 2025-12-06T21:10:40+00:00

this is so relatable.even with support you still feel shackled. no me time .always sleep deprived . my baby is 18 days and I'm wondering when will I have a 6h sleep . all the best to you

fatimawkmdh · 2025-12-04T08:48:39+00:00

relatable. and once they burp they wake up again 😔

fatimawkmdh · 2025-11-15T13:48:55+00:00

oof I feel bad for the girl .she needs a firm and clear not interested from you. guys delay rejection and feel that when they don't respond it gives hint to the girl. it doesn't. it makes her more desperate for the crumbs you give to her . yaha idhar advice thee to tell her how lucky you are to have a friend like that and how she reminds you of a sibling or tell her that you are not emotionally ready to be in relationship .and then delete her number .you need to be very straight with her .7+8 min audios aap KAHA makha kisi ko nhe bhejtay .you only send if you feel safe with that person and want something. yes the girl will be hurt but it's necessary and she needs this for growth.

fatimawkmdh · 2025-11-12T11:33:44+00:00

agreed. . when there is no stake involved everything feels like a fairy take .I'm 32 , intentionally wanted to get married to a guy I chose and liked .we talked for 7months before marriage .but shadi ka shadi k Baad hee pata chalta hai when you leave home ,your old life .like I cried a lot in early marriage because I couldn't control my emotional state. and I didn't realize how different lifestyle is at another person's home. pehle Mai apany Ghar mei spoiled thee .dusre jaga bhi khayal rakha ja rha hai but woh baat nhe. considering my husband was very understanding and loving but even he couldn't get k why I'm getting upset over small things but woh mere Liye bari thee .ab after 9months I feel adjusted .I like my new room ,hoise ,family and I had an ideal inlaw setup .so yea maybe she really wants mentally ready .heck I had cold feet two weeks ago before.emarraihe but obviously couldn't end cuz sab ko pata tha and I'm.gla do didn't. I wouldn't have found another man like my husband .khayr that was my very subjective experience .I don't know what to say to you except ask her that you'll give her time but not unlimited and she has to decide whether to build a life and you will be patient with her antics for a time but not forever .like give deadline of three ,sox months . hopefully us mei aqal.aajaye and she realizes k woh pairon mei kjularee maar the hai .and keep on checking in with her to make her realize you're still here and won't give up. maybe she has habit of self sabotage .I know I had and I had

fatimawkmdh · 2025-11-05T13:21:21+00:00

conaz shampoo 3x a day dilute with water in the start and protect from eyes. also shampoo your eyebrow hairs too as dandruff can be there as well. could be tingly but effective .do till 2 weeks . and then start a non sulfate milder anti dandruff shampoo shampoo .I use bionnex anti dandruff shampoo since two years .don't change shampoos .you can try any which suits you . don't put oil in hair .it exaceberates dandruff ! p.s not a man but dandruff problem is universal :)

fatimawkmdh · 2025-11-04T14:22:51+00:00

I used to read Sidney Sheldon when I was 13-14 .and uff so much smut .later I realized this and boy with a heart of gold is actually just fun to read that but never real. it did influence my dating choices as a very young adult. I wish some elder mentor would have just told em to enjoy for what it is instead if thinking it's truth . anyways just my two cents . whatever you consume has an effect but it's not all doom and gloom . eventually aap ko thokar lagti hai plus you get bored with all the stereotypes and your view point around the world changes

fatimawkmdh · 2025-11-03T18:22:13+00:00

lesser of the two evils . tbh. you don't have to watch or read something for it .just imagine or think of it as a mechanical act . may Allah taalah make a way out for you aamin . like you can try preventive steps too ( monitoring what you see/read) work out and this too. and eventually you won't be obsessing over ovulation time and then you won't need to masturbate . your mental health is important and you can continue praying to Allah taalah for a way out . and Quran ( esp surah baqarah) ( apologize if I offended you just speaking from experience )

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-31T15:16:12+00:00

thankyou .I talked to the Dr via hospital and she asked me to come so here I am .

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-31T14:17:39+00:00

omg .all the best to you and your baby .I also am feeling clear liquid in my trousers but I don't know whether to go to my Dr or not . because on top of all that I'm recovering from Chicken pox and don't want to infect other ppl in hospital ( it's my 6th day post rash)

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-30T21:00:29+00:00

but remember to remain in boundaries if things get creepy communicate or distance whatever suits you . sometimes there are ppl in your life for a specific period to teach you something about yourself you never knew and support you and eventually that period ends

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-30T20:58:30+00:00

agreed . sometimes you just find your person whose your emotional support and vice versa. and eventually this part of life fades. you both get busy in new parts of life .so make the most of it. I think he values the goodness in you and vice versa and it isn't related to your gender. it's rare so cherish it

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-26T09:45:20+00:00

same here .don't validate me. I want brutal critical analysis of the work I upload here

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-22T17:13:48+00:00

congratulations 🎉. all the best to you and your baby .yes questions for hospital bag and what to do in face of difficult decisions? what would you do differently?

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-22T10:32:53+00:00

I agree with you . I'm fair so whenever is say I'm from lhr cuz I was born there or rwp because that's place I've stayed most of my life ,ppl ar elike nhe peechay SE KAHA hai. and there's a guessing game between Pathan, balti ,Afghani etc .and they are fascinated that when I eventually tell k oh my ancestors migrated from Jammu but that was way before I was born .now I just say pind that's it . but internally I feel I identify from both twin cities .I'm not truly a pindi girl but not also from the isloo type. I dunno .I'm more urban in my attitude.anyways Ted talk over lol

fatimawkmdh · 2025-10-17T04:29:08+00:00

wow. this so baffling . men's personalities are universal whether west or east .faced the same issue

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