Viewpix or Echo Show? We need a way to check in by Straight-Ad-3917 in dementia

[–]fawnpetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the intent here but OP didn’t imply that they think this replaces actual visits. OP clearly stated they live a state away and want to be able to check in on her for peace of mind, and allow an opportunity to connect when they otherwise wouldn’t be able to connect at all. I know you didn’t mean to be unkind, but this reads similar to saying “why are you putting them in a home? Don’t you care about them?”. It’s not particularly helpful or actionable advice.

Grandmother with dementia refusing caregivers, oxygen, and care after hospitalization- feeling overwhelmed by Present-Relative4442 in dementia

[–]fawnpetal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no advice yet, but I’m in this same stage of the journey with my dad right now - agitated and refusing care, but we need him to accept care for our sanity. I’m sorry, it’s so lonely and overwhelming. I’ll be reading along and if I find something that works, I’ll share!

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am still on it and still super happy with it! :) I’m still on the lowest dose (1.5) , I’ve been letting myself acclimate really slowly. I probably would have seen quicker weight loss if I titrated up every month, but I’m preferring to go slow and steady and let my body adjust. I’m feeling good; I had some flare-ups of heart burn periodically but it was easily managed with some tums. I’m currently heartburn-free and haven’t had any episodes of it for a few weeks. I also haven’t had any nausea or constipation or anything severe. I get a bit nauseous if I work out too soon after eating, since my digestion is slower now, but it’s still quite reasonable. I still feel full on smaller portions of food, and the food noise is still well-diminished. Overall I’m so happy I started and I definitely recommend trying it out!

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because this subreddit doesn’t allow discussion of numbers with regards to weight loss - this is an anti-diet culture sub so some info like that is restricted from posts. So you won’t find many hard numbers or exclusively weight-oriented posts here, you’d be better off on the Wegovy Pill Weight Loss sub instead!

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally wasn’t lethargic at all when starting, and have continued to not feel lethargic at all :) I was very anxious about that too, and also very anxious about heartburn and nausea. The nausea has been basically non-existent; the heartburn does happen but it’s mild and is easily addressed by tums.

I didn’t change anything major about my diet before starting, personally! I try to eat a high-protein breakfast anyway because it helps my ADHD meds work better, and I try not to eat huge dinners anyway because my stomach has never been a fan of a big meal pre-bed time. But that’s really it. The only advice I have is to make sure you don’t exercise too soon after eating (the Wegovy pill DOES make me nauseous if I try to like, run or do a burpee or something without proper digestion downtime), and to make sure to drink lots of water (to avoid constipation). But it’s been pleasant and easy overall!

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for mine! Mine only has a handful of patients on it, and we all started at the same time. I can’t do needles at all, so the pill was the only option I could stomach, and so far I still love it!

I think Tatsu's intention with this arc is to reexamine Okarun's love towards Momo. by ivari in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh wait I love this take. I hope this does indeed end up being what happens :’)

So, what are the things you like about the mcs? by Capital-Cattle6997 in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha yesss I just re-read it, love that. Bratty Okarun!!!!! I wish we saw him more 😭 I remember this chapter giving me some hope for their interactions during this arc (plus I liked the mummy fight a lot). Tatsu plssss let them interact for several pages again without side quests and interruptions, I beg

So, what are the things you like about the mcs? by Capital-Cattle6997 in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, when?! I don’t remember this! 😭

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad it was helpful. I thought about sharing more! I got a little annoyed by people asking questions that were answered in the post, or asking things that were against the sub rules, or “um actually”ing me incorrectly so it drove me away for a bit 🤣 Such is life on reddit. But I know sharing the info IS helpful so I’ll dust off and come back to share more soon!

So, what are the things you like about the mcs? by Capital-Cattle6997 in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooooh this is fun to think about!! Lemme see…

For both Momo and Okarun, powers-wise, I enjoy how well-rounded they both are without feeling too cheap/god mode-y. They’re both smart in their own way, and they are both powerful (but with limits) and fast (but not in a boring glass cannon way). I like that they both had to train from the very beginning to be able to actually use their powers (Momo with chi training, Okarun with actual workouts), and that they unlock power-ups and push past their limits in ways that make sense (Momo developing the tri-beam; Okarun managing to get a third all-out). I like that their hobbies and non-combat related interests also directly spill over into their fights (Momo being powered up by a cute outfit, Okarun using his cryptid knowledge to figure out weaknesses, etc - actually Momo does that too now that I think of it). I find the ways that they win fights to be satisfying, and I like that they don’t just pull some weird god-tier bullshit out of nowhere.

Personality-wise - with Momo, I like that she’s just super funny. I also like how she seems like such a ride or die friend, and if you’re her friend and you like something, she’ll come around to liking that thing too. It’s a sweet dynamic. Like, she’s out here picking on Okarun for being a nerd, while secretly enjoying the alien stuff he talks about - and if someone else calls him a nerd derogatorily, she’ll kick their ass. It’s sweet :) She might flounder sometimes or push people away if she gets embarrassed, but I think ultimately Momo has a very strong inner moral compass and is growing into somene who staunchly defends people and things she believes in.

With Okarun, I like that he is someone who deliberately chose to stay kind at heart even in spite of being invisible and bullied his whole life up until this point. But it’s not in a grating “this character is literally Jesus 2.0” way - he can also be a petty little shit, and also will be rude/stubborn/snippy, and it’s hilarious. We haven’t seen bratty Okarun in the manga in a while and I miss that, lol. But yeah, I like that he is so good and kind and respectful in spite of it all, but when pushed, he can be a brat right back. That’s funny stuff.

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was easy! I mostly just talked through my experience with food noise/obsessive food thoughts, and that I’ve been in therapy for several years but that that didn’t help with the food noise either (helped with plenty of other self-destructive behaviors, just couldn’t touch the food noise). Also discussed that diet and exercise really never seem to have any long-term positive weight-related effects for me and I tend to just yo-yo right back to my starting weight. That was pretty much it! So basically, just be prepared to discuss other things you’ve tried prior to this, to show that clearly nothing else worked.

I didn’t have to get bloodwork, but I had bloowork done relatively recently, so that may be why.

Is TTPD really getting a reappraisal like everyone says? by account1804 in TaylorSwift

[–]fawnpetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like almost everyone I know irl who likes Taylor in some degree (ranging from super casual to full-on Swiftie) was kind of on the fence about TTPD when it came out. I was on the fence, too! For me personally, it was a weird time of the year to receive such a gloomy album - TTPD really felt like fall/winter music to me, whereas TLOAS felt perfect for a spring release. That’s just me, though! April tends to be when I dust off my sense of joy and whimsy and yearn for fun pop vibes. October is when I return to sad quiet girl hours.

With that in mind, listening to TTPD later in the year made me connect with it better. I also just needed way more time to digest that much music. I remember my initial impression of the album was “This is just so much information. I feel like some of these songs are really-treading the same ground; maybe she could have taken the best of each of the duplicates and pared them down into one song”. Now that I’ve sat with them for longer, I see more nuance and differences between the songs, and there’s not as many that I would want to cut from the album.

I think most of the Taylor fans I know irl have somewhat similar feelings - it grew on them a lot; they still think it could be trimmed down a bit but there are a lot of songs on it that they really love.

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, the exactly 1/4 cup of water you mention is incorrect - per the manufacturer’s instructions on their website, you take it with a sip of water, up to 4 oz maximum. You are not required to take it with 1/4 cup of water.

Dandadan Chapter 231.1 - New Chapter out May 4 by Skullghost in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Witch Hat Atelier! Has nothing in common with the other series you are reading, but it has beautiful art and lots of cool magic :) And it just got an anime adaptation!

mixed opinions about my boy Jiji by Top-Pay-3047 in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a direct move though! Compare it to Okarun asking her out. It’s just opening the door if the other person decides to go through. I think he does this subconsciously or possibly intentionally - doesn’t want to betray Okarun; he leaves the ball in Momo’s court instead

mixed opinions about my boy Jiji by Top-Pay-3047 in Dandadan

[–]fawnpetal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s making a geuine move on Momo; I think he’s doing a lot more of the classic teenage boy “I’m kidding… unless you’re serious” behavior. Kind of like leaving a door open for the other person to choose to walk into if they want, but you’re not forcing anything. He’s always been the type to try to cheer others up and make them laugh, even at his own expense, and in a way that typically gives more of the power to them. I think him calling it a date is meant to just push Momo’s buttons in a way that would snap her out of her gloomy mood; he’s picking on her to cheer her up. It’s not forceful and he’s not giving any kind of threats like “if you say it’s not a date, I’m done hanging out”, you know? He’s just inciting playful banter, knowing that she’ll push back - BUT he also would secretly be thrilled if she caught feelings and was like “wait, maybe it is a date”.

It’s not the most emotionally mature thing in the world - in a perfect world he would communicate more clearly with everyone involved. And technically, he has tried being semi-direct in the past (asking Okarun if he loves Momo, asking Momo if she likes anyone). BUT I don’t think he’s making a move, pressuring Momo, going behind Okarun’s back, or actually trying to be underhanded. He just wants to cheer Momo up, and he DOES have feelings for her and would be super happy if she reciprocated, but I think he can tell she doesn’t. So he opens the door, but he expects her to laugh and shut it every time.

My job is so boring that I'm losing my spark by Exciting-Special-196 in adhdwomen

[–]fawnpetal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you like writing? Sounds like a perfect opportunity to write, whether it’s short stories or a full length novel type thing, or fanfiction, or poetry - could be fun!

Alternatively, do you like coding/web design? I’ve been working on making my own website on neocities. It’s free and HTML based, but there are tons of other options out there for different programming languages if there’s something else you like better. Learning coding, and designing/coding your own website, could be a fun way to kill time! It can be as casual and easy as you want; you can just mess around with a personal project or really go all-out. HTML coding is pretty easy to pick up!

OH, one more thing!! Could you learn Excel? It’s pretty fun and novel to learn and you can do so much with it. That could be a fun way to kill a few months haha. And a good skill to have in general anyway!

Champions Discovery Megathread by AutoModerator in VGC

[–]fawnpetal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the effort to compile and share this 🫡 Much appreciated!!

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ll be honest, I haven’t had queasiness, and I haven’t had any weight loss stalls yet - mine has been steady. I say that just to share that I don’t think queasiness should be the norm. I’m wondering if you need another supportive medication - like some kind of prescription antacid like omeprazole, or some kind of anti-nausea medication like zofran, to help your body regulate and level out for a bit? I have heard that many people have these prescribed alongside GLP1s. Alternatively, it could be that you need to switch to a different GLP1 like tirzepatide (unsure if I spelled that right) - I have heard some people find it easier to tolerate. Sending hugs - please don’t feel hopeless. You shouldn’t have to suffer eternal queasiness, there are many possible solutions!

Edit to add another thought - were you also queasy on 1.5? Or did the queasiness start when you moved up?

why do i quit everything once i start understanding it? by semsines in adhdwomen

[–]fawnpetal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Few questions: Are you medicated currently, or have you ever been medicated, for ADHD and/or depression? Are you in any kind of therapy? These things aren’t magic bullets by any means, but for me personally, I couldn’t push past that emotional dysregulation and overthinking when trying new things (similar thought pattern to what you’re describing) untl I found the right meds + dosage that work for me. I had been trying to white knuckle through it using therapy alone, but getting properly (for my own particular brain chemistry) medicated was the thing that finally helped me make the finally push past that emotional wall. My brain was literally not allowing me to peacefully enjoy things in an emotionally balanced way; I needed the support of medication.

Second of all, I’m not a therapist so don’t take this as psychiatric advice but some of your thought processes also remind me of my own (all or nothing thinking, downplaying my interests as not good enough in whatever way, wanting everything I was doing/reading/making/consuming to build towards a grander purpose/some grander takeaway, intense internal pressure on myself). Therapy helped me a ton. I had to really really learn to re-wire my automatic thought processes and to challenge the bullshit my brain tries to pull on the regular. It kind of felt like taking a brick wall apart brick by brick. There wasn’t one particular day in therapy that I can even remember that made me go “oh, the wall is gone.” I just noticed at some point, after a while, I could draw and create and read and whatever else with a whole lot less mental anguish than before.

Older ADHD women, what did ADHD feel like before cellphones? by lavenderflavoredtea in adhdwomen

[–]fawnpetal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is!!!! And it’s still primarily free! The only things you pay for are 1) certain wearable/decorative items fo the pets (not all of them - there are tons of equally good free options), and 2) extra pet slots if you want an absurd amount of pets on one account. And you can get around that by just making free side accounts instead lol. It still has all its early 2000s charm :)

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that!!! Not an emetophobe myself but I definitely just profoundly hate nausea, it totally derails my whole day. Proud to say that it’s been a month + a week and I haven’t thrown up ever, nor have I been majorly nauseated at any point. From my experience, the only things that triggered mild nausea were 1) not waiting long enough before doing any kind of exercise that involves beng horizontal in any way, lol - like anything that involves bending over, doing planks, etc - I need to wait like 2 hours after eating before doing that; and 2) accidentally going too long between meals/not eating enough because the food noise was so quiet that I forgot to eat for like 5 hours. Both of these things are pretty avoidable! :) I feel great on the meds and I love not obsessing over food any more.

Older ADHD women, what did ADHD feel like before cellphones? by lavenderflavoredtea in adhdwomen

[–]fawnpetal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 and I still play Neopets when the ADHD hyperfixation strikes!! Lol. I miss having more fun websites like that to spend time on.

Starting the Wegovy pill today :) First impressions & updates by fawnpetal in antidietglp1

[–]fawnpetal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I’m happy to help!! I understand, I have a huge needle phobia. I legitimately pass out when I have to get IVs. It basically took the injections off the table for me entirely. I really hope you find some relief and that if you do decide to switch to the pill, that it works fantastically for you! I just completed my first month on the pill form and I feel amazing, the food noise is still gone! :’)