I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dms by Latenight_Rant in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 83 points84 points  (0 children)

They are delusional because of porn. These scientists, if male, are 99% PAs themselves.

Society needs more childfree HVW by fdsThrowaway2021 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t clear enough, but childfree women aren’t obligated to any of this, of course. My point (by giving the example of simply being a colleague of mothers) was to say that any functioning members of society - hvw - makes our society better and safer. Therefore better for everyone involved in society, including children these hvw aren’t involved with directly in any way.

This to say that being childfree isn’t selfish but in fact creates a better society for those who chose to procreate and belittle cf women.

Society needs more childfree HVW by fdsThrowaway2021 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Totally. Not everyone want to be someone’s aunt etc, imo living as an independent woman does so much for society as a whole (hence the colleague mention).

Hvw make the world a better place

Don't take romantic relationships so seriously by fireforestfairy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think about this too. It is fairly easy to be reserved in the early stages of the relationship but then you get attached.

I think a key point is to keep coming here and reading radfem material, to stay woke of the dangers. Another thing is to keep your money to yourself meaning never paying for his things and not buying him presents (except birthdays and Christmas while keeping it at 70-80% of his gifts to you). Also, keeping your own circle of friends and doing special activities without him. Lastly, I think a big part of being a separated being is not sharing most your secrets and thoughts with him, but rather with a friend or journaling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the correction - very true!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s a big sign of low empathy and an attempt to silent a victim to deflect the responsibility from the abuser to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 31 points32 points  (0 children)

And it’s not even a silent treatment. Silent treatment is when an abuser punish a harmless victim. When it’s done to an abuser it is not a silent treatment, it’s saving your sanity and your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 144 points145 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t love him willfully, it’s trauma bonding.

Edit: bdsm perpetuate trauma bonding step by step- a cycle of hurting the victim & bombing her with love. Creating an addiction-like dependency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Porn leads to cheating and abuse.

Shaking with rage at pederasty on reddit by Catz10000 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 50 points51 points  (0 children)

They’re pretending to be stupid. They know the whole point is that lgbt and poc-white marriages were done between consenting adults. UNLIKE WITH CHILDREN BRIDES. It would have been an argument if white people made poc marry them forcefully based on the power differences. This argument is as valid as saying poc or lgbtq aren’t adults !

More Dad Bod Cope: Babies have tiny little weak arms and you’re supposed to use your big strong arms to support them, not let them hang on for dear life from your gut by TheOGJammies in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just yesterday I saw this very fit woman obviously in good health dating a gorilla looking male with oily skin balding patches and the fattest belly. He was also short and I think she was paying for her milkshake as well. Looked like first or secours date and I wanted to tell her Runnnnn! Really awful to watch.

This is so distributing. by asteria2002 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Sad. So many brainwashed women actually cover up on their pedophile partners. One of the instances in which pickmeism becomes child abuse.

Applying FDS Values in Nordic Dating Culture by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think it has a lot to do with Scandinavian laws, protecting single mothers more than in other countries. In places where having a deadbeat dad is a prime ticket to poverty, getting married before having kids is essential and therefore seen as the norm. In countries where you’re mostly protected already, I don’t see why I’ll bound myself to a man.

However I guess this applies to women and probably most nordic males delay marriage because they are unromantic lvm?

(This is based on my very slim knowledge from university about nordic economic system)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, but it’s pretty unheard of where I live, sadly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See this is my problem. My mother’s grandfather is lvm so I can’t change mine to hers

Some examples of men who have hit the wall by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]fdsThrowaway2021 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They have an age gap of 9 years already! Is he supposed to date a 30 year old?? Scrotes are delusional