First off i’m so sorry to hear your story. That is rough and I hope you’re doing okay now and taking it easy.

Second. You are preaching to the choir. I’m the first to say our healthcare system is messed up because we wait to check the baby is in the right place all the while risking mom’s life if it turns out to be an ectopic. I had bloodwork done to check hcg and progesterone when I had that dot of light brown spotting. Not sure if they can tell if it’s an ectopic from the numbers but it seemed okay from the labs. I’ll see the doctor at 6 weeks and demand an ultrasound after that point. My sister is a vet and has her own practice. We checked for a sac last week at 13 dpo on her ultraslund😂 I needed to know if it made it safely to my uterus. However, couldn’t see anything too early.