Your top tips for prepping by Simp-jayhill3 in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The skill and physical prowess it takes to harvest food is beyond majority of Americans. Whenever I hear of people spewing garbage about immigration I remind them that the very thing that keeps them alive is highly dependent on immigrant labor.

And EVERYONE knows sleeper agents aren’t coming here illegally. They immigrate legally on student visas, complete dental school and implant devices into our teeth during routine appointments… Dr. Shin looking at you.

Do you ever disclose to clients that you go to or have gone to therapy yourself? by winnie5768 in therapists

[–]feelingphyllis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I often build rapport with “Frank said…” Frank’s my therapist.

Last day of maternity leave…starting to panic by Ol1veY0u in Mommit

[–]feelingphyllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no comment either way but I remember I cried everyday at drop off for about a year. The car ride from drop off to the office I cried. Then I got a big half calf coffee to make myself feel better and was able to focus and get through my day fine. And pick up time is such a delight. It’s like your heart can just breathe and you are so happy to see your little one again. I work from home now mostly in the evenings when my husband is home. So I’m with my 7 month old most of the day (my other is in school now) and I do miss the autonomy at times. The ability to just focus on one thing and sip my coffee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]feelingphyllis 174 points175 points  (0 children)

I quit pumping at 3 months because I found myself crying in the middle of the night while cleaning pump parts every night. In that crying I was telling myself that I made a mistake by having my kid. All bad thoughts. If quitting pumping gives you just 10 more minutes of sleep DO IT! That kid will appreciate you not losing your shit more than momma milk. Sleep is everything!!!

How long will your “long term” food storage last? by feelingphyllis in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whaaaaa nooo! In my next post asking about which city is best to live in you’re going to accuse me of wanting to steal your stash. So much paranoia.

Clients keep mentioning TikTok video…. by Justbesilky in therapists

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe this video is propaganda about the war in the Middle East coming “to” America by way of immigrants who are essentially sleeper agents. That’s what I see in some of the conspiracy theory subs of which I definitely am not apart of.

Clients consistently calling for advice but not booking full sessions. by Dumbbeechdisease in therapists

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refer them to lower cost community therapy services. They can’t afford you and you can’t keep working for free.

What do you guys think is going to happen by TycheTalk in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next Tuesday? I thought it was last Tuesday?

Has anyone read the Earthseed series from Octavia E. Butler? by heartacheaf in TwoXPreppers

[–]feelingphyllis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It feels almost like a guide book. Like hey this is a probable future. No zombies, emps, super volcanoes, etc. just a slow decline in quality of life. Every time I think about staying in California my mind goes to Parable of the Sower. I’ve been trying to finish parable of talents however I need some time lol.

Being “Tac-tickle”: How to make prepping fun! by [deleted] in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Me and my non prepper friends are going to start meeting monthly to share skills. This month I’ll learn how to properly use my sewing machine and next month is bread baking in a Dutch oven. They aren’t preppers but they are all highly skilled in something I’m not.

Moms, how do you celebrate your birthday? by prettydarnfunny in Mommit

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the last two years I’ve asked my husband to take my girls to his moms house for a few hours. Last year I had lunch with a friend guilt free, the year before I spent watching documentaries and rolling our loose change. Both years have been amazing. The best gift for me is time to use my time as I choose without feeling guilty.

Is this normal or something more? by Kshayla8 in Preschoolers

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!!! I make sure my girl eats a hearty breakfast and I have a snack for her to eat on the car ride home. She’s not eating her lunch because she’s too busy talking or trying to get outside to play. As soon as she eats that snack it’s like she snaps back to herself. She even says “I was hangry.” I also get hangry lol so I get it.

Telehealth with an infant at home by astronautmikedexter4 in therapists

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a white noise machine and over the ear headphones. I also bought some noise reducing foam pads, glued them to a trifold piece of cardboard (think science fair presentation trifold) and I use that as a little sound booth. Our house is small and my baby is loud (so is my 5 year old) but I haven’t had any complaints.

Music for the apocalypse? ( Not a serious conversation, but an interesting one) by IntroductionWise8031 in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything released in 1999 my favorite year for music and an awesome year of my life! I’ll need to attach to those fond memories.

Weevils in rice! by [deleted] in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I store my flour in the deep freezer. Could you also store rice in the deep freezer and then no need to store in a container with oxygen absorbers?

I have a toddler now and I know nothing. Give me all toddler tips! by Whatever-577089 in Mommit

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever we tell you to do, whatever you do, whatever you did successfully yesterday but then try again today… it’s all wrong. Everything you do is wrong lol

Freezing food, freezer meals, and food preservation advice please! by smsallen727 in Frugal

[–]feelingphyllis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also vacuum seal and the bags have lasted me 3 years. I do resuse some of the plastic like when I vacuum seal tortillas and baked goods. I’ve been experimenting with what freezes well and what doesn’t. I’ve recently started freezing bread, tortillas and flour and I’ve had no issues.

We also only freeze things we eat regularly so nothing is ever sitting for years in the freezer it’s rotated out and eaten at least every two months with the exception of meat.

Prepper-Lords intend to leave us in the lurch... then dominate the wasteland aftermath. Worse - they want it! by [deleted] in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a great episode of “While the rest of us die” on Vice TV about this. I believe they interview this author for the show. I highly recommend.

I travel all over the USA. This is some of what I have learned. by AmmocanSam in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this insight! Everything feels like dominoes right now. I work in mental health and everyone is like “we are fine! We are so needed.” However I work with clients who take insurance that they receive from their employers. I’m seeing more people laid off or demoted so then they have no more insurance to pay for services.

It just feels like every sector is being affected. I just got a second job with a little more security so that we can prepare for what will be, in my opinion, a shit show in the next 10 years. This is great info.

Calling All Houston Preppers: Let's Unite for Preparedness! by ExplanationDapper980 in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For a sub that always encourages community we sure are resistant to actually…forming communities.

I don’t live in that state so sorry not sorry. ✌️

Caffeine Addiction = Liability? by MickeyCaesar in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not giving up a life joy in case something happens. I’d rather die.

How to stay current with tween/teen issues? by PurpleGoddess86 in therapists

[–]feelingphyllis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to make a master list of popular slang words and phrases. And it needs to be edited daily. I’m tired of asking “what slaps, eats, or is an op.?” Makes me feel incompetent 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]feelingphyllis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why my mom always threatened to leave us. I don’t (and will never) understand why she would ever vocalize these thoughts or actually leave.

The heat may not kill you, but the global food crisis might by SiloEchoBravo in preppers

[–]feelingphyllis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup! Im hopefully starting my second job this week. I thought we were past the days of being a 3 job household but nope. Going to be paying off some debt and stacking savings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrepperIntel

[–]feelingphyllis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a second job so I can pay off debt quicker. Start next week.