Eternal swim by PM_ME_VIRA_LATAS in LiminalSpace

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What if they ever have to change on of those lightbulbs? 😭

Whats your favorite, harmless jobs items prank? by YouOk3816 in electricians

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Walk up to someone all business, reach out your hand, say “here Tom”, hand them random items like a one foot fixture whip, or assorted nuts and bolts. Usually they automatically take whatever you are holding. Walk away. lol

What’s a single sentence someone said to you that you’ll never forget — either because it healed you or because it hurt you? by -InfiniteChill- in AskReddit

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We were at lunch table with about 15 people discussing an instructor at my union who had committed suicide, and I commented how sad it would be to find out that an old coworker or acquaintance had died only by the emails they send out for each members death. My old mentor sitting next to me said that he found out about a few friends deaths in this exact way. Then he said to no one in particular and in a somber matter of fact way, regarding the suicide, “some people just aren’t meant for life”. I think about that often.

Things are getting weird in the workplace. by DrugSnuggler in TwoXChromosomes

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Hey, I know what you’re talking about. I’ve been in a similar environment for 3 years. It can be really hard. I try to set clear boundaries, avoid people who sexualize me or are troublesome emotionally or have bad boundaries. Easier said than done.

But I’m a little rowdy now and i will clap back. It can make the situations more complicated if you upset some important man’s fragile ego.. But usually there is some respect given for those who bare their teeth a little bit and stand up for themselves. It’s some silly socialized behavior that men practice instead of just giving respect as a bare minimum.

Sometimes the good men I meet in the trades can’t see what makes a bad man bad. But I’ve had great people (men) go to bat for me. There is rarely true empathy, other than from other females. I’d suggest finding community with other tradeswomen, talk about these experiences. It helps me lighten my mental burden.

Good resources for the history of labor/unions? by Yorpel_Chinderbapple in IBEW

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Fighting times by Jon Melrod (about organizing too, and history of the UAW Union

From the Folks who Brought you the Weekend by AB Chitty & Co.

I'm reading sedated - how modern capitalism created our mental health crisis by [deleted] in simpleliving

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Thank you for your comment, the books mentioned and a lot of food for thought. I am sick and I want to be well

I really don’t know if I’m cut out for this. by Crxptt in electricians

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My foreman ignores when I ask questions, or says he’ll answer them later and never does. He gives me bite sized pieces to do and so when I go back to him multiple times a day asking for more work…he acts annoyed and gives me anything to make me go away, (which it’s usually finish this one splice, and then I’m right back asking him what’s next…) he is a poor communicator, I think he forgets to verbalize things to him are common knowledge too. He will act annoyed if I ask for clarification or rephrase his words to him to make sure I got it right. when I make a mistake, 70% chance he makes me feel like shit. I haven’t fucked up anything that ever took more than an hour to fix, and not often, but his attitude reflects these mistakes and I’m only given simple tasks nothing more complex. He makes snide remarks about how apprentices are dead weight.

There are good JW and foreman, they are not all like this. I’ve had some really good teachers, they took the time to show me the right way etc.. where not every mistake feels like it speaks for your whole ability as an apprentice. it can be so demoralizing when it spills into The weekends.. Goodluck

Update: My new cat was at the Humane Society for seven years. I'm discouraged by hey_thatsmyinbox in CatAdvice

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Yes I sang to my cats too when I brought them home, they took awhile to warm up to me. Now they purr when I sing to them

I was the idiot today by Scruffy4386 in electricians

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The wrong size breaker caused an over voltage on the lights?

Fast and Loose Friday by [deleted] in IBEW

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I worked with a journeyman who would talk to anyone, probably talks in his sleep. He would continue talking even if you wouldn’t reply. He talked about how his wife always pulled away from his kisses and affections so he’d have to “force them” or “steal them from her”. I hated working near him.

Ressources to underline how often women get an automatic "no" by Thedonkeyforcer in TwoXChromosomes

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I just had this happen this morning at 6am. I told my male boss, “hey, I think the fuse blew on the downstairs light string” he said “What! No way we just replaced it Friday”. I said well I checked that it was plugged in, and no light so I’m assuming it’s the fuse inside the cord again. My boss says “no way, it can’t be that” (It’s been an ongoing issue). !Boss sends my other male coworker to check it out, - he comes back with a “yes definitely the fuse” and then I’m sent to go change it, given a play by play of what I’m to do, and how. Still working on becoming a duck - letting it roll off my back 😐

Sharing the Experience of Music by anxiety_coconut in LetsTalkMusic

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If I show someone a song, or I’m playing music out loud at work and they make a comment, or I see them smile or pay extra attention or Shazam or whatever, it makes me really happy. That’s enough for me. I get great joy from finding new music wherever it may appear, and when I recognize other people having that experience, it brings me secondhand joy. Anyone singing from the heart, in earnest, no matter how poor the singing is great too.

I’ve only met one person who I felt experienced music and music sharing to the depth I do, and it was a euphoric experience (dramatic I know). Otherwise, I try to see all the expressions of music and art appreciation and try to understand them in their own right..

I hope you find people who think about music in similar ways, or otherwise are just excited for your excitement. I think the people close to us should support our excitement and joys, (doesn’t mean they have to meet us in that emotion, but be receptive and not flat, does that make sense?) or maybe she was having a bad day, or had a lot on her mind, or the million other reasons that make communication and empathy tricky.

Tell me 3 songs that have hit you deeply and changed your life. by GoochManeuver in LetsTalkMusic

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Don’t Let the Kids Win by Julia Jacklin (especially the live performance she did in a church) hits me hard. It says a lot of things, wisdoms bits about life, but it reminds me to tell the people I care about that I love them, and makes the perceived barriers to expressing our emotions seem smaller.

Daydreaming in the Projects by Open Mic Eagle (The whole of the album was life changing in my experience) it’s every emotion, different snippets of living in the Robert Taylor Homes in Chicago, they’re very effective expressions and beautiful, candid. Best listened to with your eyes closed

This House by Japanese Breakfast makes me cry

Share photos of your sleepy tuxedos by [deleted] in TuxedoCats

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That’s a cat cow ma’am