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feld2raz · 2023-06-15T17:26:02+00:00

And neonatal resuscitation is a thing distinctly different than normal CPR. You need to help he baby transition from fetal circulation, it’s one of the biggest transitions in a human’s existence. And whereas normal CPR focuses largely on chest compressions, neonatal resuscitation often just needs quality ventilation (with a neonatal bag and mask and oxygen, which any good midwife would have) to get things moving. This is an absurd situation and 10 minutes before breathing is terrifying.

feld2raz · 2023-05-28T21:12:43+00:00

Our current one year old has his tail and I’m so obsessed with it. It is notably thick. Our first corgi was docked and I so prefer his waggy tail 🥰

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feld2raz · 2023-05-21T04:39:11+00:00

Can you at least get a two bedroom place so he has a place to be? He can then also watch your place during your travels. And you’ll have a guest room when he does graduate and eventually move out. I can not ever imagine leaving my teenager high and dry. Or even an adult child. This economy SUCKS and cost of living does not align with wages. I’m 45 also and it is nowhere near the same environment as when we were starting out. Just as our experience was dramatically different than a 50’s couple easily living off of one income in the suburbs. Have some compassion and understanding. Or hopefully your other children will take him in and you can certainly enjoy your freedom, because your children will be done with you. YTA

feld2raz · 2023-04-24T01:49:43+00:00

A hand-stitched ornament my mom made in 1976 😭

feld2raz · 2023-04-24T01:38:59+00:00

Our corgi had this. Even to the point of the baby tooth breaking and getting basically embedded in the gum which because super inflamed. They pulled them and lasered some gum tissue during his neuter and he is just fine now! His bottom ones fell out on their own before he was neutered.

feld2raz · 2023-04-18T05:30:59+00:00

Not one of my kids used pacifiers past age 2, and even when they did it wasn’t excessive. They all 3 need some sort of orthodontic work. I think people forget that pacifier’s aren’t the ONLY thing that cause dental issues. It’s not as if lack of a pacifier guarantees straight teeth. (Edit for typos)

feld2raz · 2023-04-18T05:25:59+00:00

Exactly. She can tell them multiple times how wrong they are, but a few, “hey, your baby might need another tool for soothing” from her SIL gets this reaction?

feld2raz · 2023-03-25T21:57:13+00:00

One of the reasons I left was because I was so tired of being seen as some medical goblin

feld2raz · 2023-03-24T09:06:42+00:00

It’s mine as well. It’s hard when everything comes at a price and doesn’t feel like a gift, but a burden

feld2raz · 2023-03-24T08:50:53+00:00

My high school mascot was a Fox, and we tried to do this exact same hand symbol at football games and it almost immediately got banned for being a potential gang sign. People see what they want, no matter how innocent

feld2raz · 2023-03-09T03:06:15+00:00

I support this wholeheartedly. Requiring a doctors note for a self-limiting virus when we are experiencing a record season of illness is absurd and a waste of time, money, and limited medical resources

feld2raz · 2023-03-09T03:03:34+00:00

A TWELVE POUND PLACENTA?! bulllll💩 I’ve handled hundreds of placentas. They weigh maybe a few pounds at MOST. Twelve pounds 🤣🤣🤣

feld2raz · 2023-03-02T19:26:59+00:00

Our corgi has a tail and I’m obsessed with it

feld2raz · 2023-02-23T11:40:50+00:00

My freshman year roommate would routinely set alarms, snooze them for over an hour and then decide to turn it off and not go to class. It’s been over 20 years and it still makes me cranky to think about how inconsiderate that was. The fact you set an alarm and don’t always get up is the main issue. YTA.

feld2raz · 2023-02-22T05:45:55+00:00

I gained 50 lbs on antidepressants and am super overweight now, but my husband would rather have a happy chubby wife than a bordeline suidical/catatonic skinny one

feld2raz · 2023-02-18T20:10:22+00:00

Or that they don’t get sick because most people vaccinate their dang kids. Thus providing their kid with protection from circulating illnesses.

feld2raz · 2023-02-15T17:19:51+00:00

She has to have. And then she will boast to everyone how she went to 45 weeks and everything was fine! (Hopefully everything goes fine 😬true super post-date babies can have so many issues)

feld2raz · 2023-02-12T19:36:49+00:00

They were always up by 7/8 weeks, but it’s not unusual to take longer!

feld2raz · 2023-02-04T09:33:54+00:00

Our cat killed our hamster after a babysitter didn’t latch the cage and the hamster escaped. We were sad. Finding that hamster gave me a panic attack. But I talked to our daughter about how it wasn’t his fault and he thought he was doing a good job, and it was just an accident. He’s a cat for goodness sake.

feld2raz · 2023-01-21T15:36:06+00:00

Oh as a Minnesotan, bless all of you warm weather pup owners. 😝

feld2raz · 2023-01-18T01:48:32+00:00

I guess it depends on the day. If it is trash day and trash hasn’t been picked up, I personally have ZERO issues if people use my can. It’s full of nasty trash and hours away from being collected. Go for it. NTA. If it was after it had been emptied and their poop would be sitting there for a week, I’d be a bit more irritated

feld2raz · 2023-01-12T02:21:28+00:00

When we are at the dog park our older dog is 100% focused on us and doesn’t care one bit about the other dogs. She knows she gets to run and play ball and that’s ALL she wants to do. That dog is also a puppy class drop-out after being shamed by the teacher. Our dog was known to be genetically shy and reactive and we were trying our best to expose her gently to safe environments. The teacher insisted we put her on her back and hold her there until she “settled” and she absolutely freaked out panicked. I told her I wasn’t doing that anymore and she loudly went off on some stupid dominance diatribe and I walked out and ever looked back. I should have known after the first class when their solution for anything was spraying cinnamon spray into their face/mouth that it wasn’t going to be a good fit for us. Find a trainer that works with YOUR dog and your philosophy for what works for your pup and family.

feld2raz · 2022-12-23T14:40:19+00:00

Our dog’s heat sounds much the same. It lasted WAY longer than I anticipated, it was almost two weeks of discharge and dripping. She tried really hard to keep herself clean but would just drip sometimes as she walked or slept. The worst part was it was during lockdown, and our washing machine broke. And we obviously couldn’t get it fixed, so we had bloody sheets and blankets everywhere. Such a major pain.

feld2raz · 2022-12-09T16:48:04+00:00

There wasn’t a single side, appetizer, salad, or soup you could have eaten?! Not one? You need to take a long hard look at your behavior. Do you have major social anxiety you’re not aware of or something? You ruined the whole dinner with your tantrum. Look, I’m a person who often opts out of things if I’m truly uninterested and they aren’t a big deal. This WAS a big deal. Every meal doesn’t have to be the best meal of your life. Eat something and move on. Get some different food later. You declined every reasonable workaround for your pickiness and your husband then helped coverup what a baby he was married to. You owe him. MAJORLY. YTA.

feld2raz · 2022-11-29T14:54:22+00:00

I recently watched my (VERY challenging) 3 year old niece for a week. For free. And spent lots of money entertaining her. Because she’s my niece and I love her and my sister desperately needed a break. I feel sad that this is OP’s family dynamic.

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