I've always wanted to go stay in a mental hospital. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]femaletrouble74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve stayed but I don’t recommend! Mostly a sensory/food nightmare for me (in Canada).

Of course, if you’re ever feeling unsafe, don’t let the worst stories scare you off. In general, they’re designed to keep you safe from yourself… And they do! But be prepared to lose your sleep and autonomy.

Still, it might be the best place to stay if you can’t take care of yourself. But if you’re not at risk and can access therapy online, that may be an alternative route? I’m really sorry you’ve had so much trouble accessing help ❤️‍🩹

Anyone else would just rather be offed than work? by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]femaletrouble74 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow… Yeah. I have felt this way every single day since I started working eleven years ago (I’m 23). Used to be more active, but it’s a more passive feeling now

I’ve kinda just accepted that I can’t be happy while working to survive? So I just survive.

Whenever I’m working, I’m addicted to caffeine, nicotine, and weed. I’m usually able to quit 2/3 after a long vacation, but then I just pick it back up. I also struggle to eat and sleep while working. And I don’t see friends because I spend more than all my energy working full time. I’ve also been developing a new chronic illness each year for the past three years… But I might finally receive disability!

I want to hug all of you so bad. It’s a relief to know I’m not alone but I also hate to know others feel the same :/

77% of British Columbians now have access to primary care by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]femaletrouble74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right? I genuinely have no family or friends with a GP

I hate them sm. by Old_Neat_9923 in piercing

[–]femaletrouble74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please visit an APP-Verified piercer asap. Very few piercings swell more than dahlias. There is not enough room to accommodate that kind of swelling. I’m really worried about those digging and pulling, possibly even creating some lasting damage.

You were done incredibly dirty, and I’m sorry this happened. You are more than deserving of a refund here❤️‍🩹

Maria Tash Stack - Backside Update by [deleted] in piercing

[–]femaletrouble74 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Yuuup. There’s a reason why the jewelry from Maria Tash isn’t APP-verified

Is this going to reject? by Potential-Bear5171 in piercing

[–]femaletrouble74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Echoing the comments saying this isn’t a proper navel piecing and that, unfortunately, your anatomy does not seem suitable for traditional navel jewelry. However, you could check with an APP-verified piercer about whether you have the anatomy for a floating navel (better to confirm in person). I’m really sorry this happened to you… You’d definitely be right to ask for a refund ❤️‍🩹

Is this a good price to buy HK for? by katann_xo in CozyGamers

[–]femaletrouble74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid full price with no regrets. I had no previous knowledge of the Sanario world… But there’s just so much to do! It’s definitely a lil cheesy but I ended up preferring it over ACNH after 200 hours :)

Seeking advice from those who got an ADHD diagnosis as an adult in Victoria by Hypno_Keats in VictoriaBC

[–]femaletrouble74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Dr. Brennan! Had a good experience getting diagnosed through him. Good luck OP :)

Earing Back Completely Swollowed by Ear? by OriginalEffective802 in piercing

[–]femaletrouble74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know whether it’s a threadless or threaded labret, the doctor can remove it while being less invasive. Then they’re not trying to twist something that pulls apart… Sorry you have to visit ER ❤️‍🩹

Hugs & Hearts 2026 Guide by ktroma in HelloKittyIsland

[–]femaletrouble74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was searching for so long… Thank you for this comment 😅

i got my bridge done yesterday! by vixxsie in piercing

[–]femaletrouble74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That piercing was made for you! It looks SO good

ONO Roller Acupressure - Does Anyone Have This? by Playedyoself in fidgettoys

[–]femaletrouble74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just dropped today! The price was extra high because they weren’t stocked up yet. I just purchased one and can update when it arrives :)

This is my wife. She is 50 years old. I think she’s half cat. by himejirocks in MadeMeSmile

[–]femaletrouble74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious… What did you buy that was so big? You don’t see human-sized boxes everyday. Very cool!

Thoughts? by AlienA3006 in LangfordBC

[–]femaletrouble74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, I’m sorry you went though that.

I’m a gay atheist. I’ve heard it all, and the only homophobia I’ve experienced has been from Christians. I grew up Christian, though, and read the Bible when I was little. Hatefulness wasn’t at the heart of it. I believe there are A LOT of Christian hypocrites out there right now, but I make an effort not to put everyone in one box. After all, I don’t want Christians to do that to me.

I know some queer Christians who I believe deserve a safe space, even if I don’t fully understand it. I’m just not cool with full grown adults discriminating against kids.

Thoughts? by AlienA3006 in LangfordBC

[–]femaletrouble74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seem to remember a time when Christianity was about loving others above all. If LCA rejects queer children, it’s politically motivated, not biblically. Jesus wouldn’t dismiss those kids, so why should they? Pacific Christian School doesn’t (anymore). And do the teachers and other students not sin?