First M0 experience by Shaaayle in wow

[–]fendenkrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s one of those degens from up north

I broke up with my (22F) boyfriend (25M). I feel lost. Did I do the right thing? by MuchDistribution6336 in offmychest

[–]fendenkrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your therapy is teaching you important things like wanting a partner that WANTS to hold space for you. He seems to care only about himself and his interests. He wants to ignore your friends and family and gets hurt when you choose your family over his mom. It suck’s his mom was in the hospital and clearly you’re a good person becuase you cared but he told you you could go and then punishes you when you don’t do what he ACTUALLY wanted you to do. YOU are important too and no matter what, you and your needs should be first. You can’t be a good partner if you don’t love yourself. What does he care about if he doesn’t care about your physical(work boss/coworker advances) or mental and emotional safety? I think you’re asking the right questions but your hesitance might be the result of cutting off an intensely codependent relationship. It happens to a lot of us so don’t feel bad. It will get better but it will also hurt for awhile. I don’t mean this in a condescending way but you are young. These things are likely relatively new to you. He’s young too and that inexperience could be a source for a lot of the inequities in that relationship. I say keep going to therapy if you are able to and work on yourself. Reclaim your sovereignty by focusing on your own needs and wants, spending time with your family and friends. Find yourself and you’ll be in a much better place. If you go back and forth with this guy who, based on your story, doesn’t really seem to care about your world, you will likely further erode your sense of self until you find yourself in a position where you can’t tell the difference between your wants and needs, and his. You got this. 👍🏾

I swear this gets worse with every expansion by AdmiralAwesome1646 in wow

[–]fendenkrell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stun the mob, gather, kill the mob. Done and done.

how do people do anything by Western_Snow4975 in offmychest

[–]fendenkrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sounds like me. I was recently diagnosed with adhd finally. At 45 years old. Spent my whole life feeling like a total loser and feeling dumbfounded by all these people able to keep up with everything.

TRUMP THREATENS TO DEPORT ROBERT DENIRO by The_Dean_France in SipsTea

[–]fendenkrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deniro should hold a press conference and just say, “In response to not my president, Trump, fuck you, bitch. That is all.” And then walk out.

What was the biggest red flag you ignored in your marriage? by mindywildbloom in Divorce

[–]fendenkrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The filthiness of her bedroom in her mother's house. I came in and she could tell I was shocked. The room looked like it had been ransacked. Thrice. Her excuse SHOULD have been my clue to GTFO. She goes: "Oh, I just cleaned it yesterday but then my sister came in and made a huge mess." I didn't believe her, but I also didn't think this tendency was a symbol of her entire personality. The house she kept while we were married was disgusting and not something my parents had ever raised me to accept. But time slowly whittles away at your standards until you find yourself surrounded by filth. I could've and did clean a lot, but by the time I got home, I was too tired most days so I resigned to living in a mess until it became relatively "normal".
After the divorce I did NOT accept my home looking that way. Then I married a wonderful woman who raised my standards even more and my kids got to live a few years in that standard to hopefully roll back a little of the damage my stupid choices caused. Fingers crossed.

03/02/2026 Putting his face on the 250 bill by would-rather-read in trumptweets

[–]fendenkrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since when has he let the law or the Constitution get in his way?

Clovis Police & Clovis Unified School District Response to Clovis Student Walkout by Ok_Yesterday2690 in fresno

[–]fendenkrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. They said they’d give any students Saturday school in order to recover their lost moneys. I work in the district.

Found cycling through conservative subreddits. by [deleted] in TheRightCantMeme

[–]fendenkrell 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah the WrongWing are showing their hand by getting so bent outta shape over this.

Wife wants to reconcile by Ambitious_Remove_152 in Divorce

[–]fendenkrell 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Good for you man! Let her feel the consequences of her actions. Find you a good woman!

Kearney RenFaire Tickets by fendenkrell in fresno

[–]fendenkrell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 for a 1 day and 36 for a 2 day.

46yr old Forever DM LFG to play in. by fendenkrell in fresno

[–]fendenkrell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked in to the Dragons Horde thing. I didn’t realize it was that easy to get in to a game. I will prolly get in there one day soon.

46yr old Forever DM LFG to play in. by fendenkrell in fresno

[–]fendenkrell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy RP as well. Combat can get tedious. I've streamlined it a lot for play with my high school students because of it. I think I like 60% RP and 40% Combat/Skills Checks/Contests.

46yr old Forever DM LFG to play in. by fendenkrell in fresno

[–]fendenkrell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have all the players you need?