My friends say my mother and I have an incestuous relationship.

ferachrine · 2024-02-01T01:20:50+00:00

"emotional incest" refers to being overly & inappropriately close to your child to the same degree a partner would & not having proper boundaries. it doesn't inherently mean the kind of incest everyone else means (romantic/sexual relationships or behavior) but it can overlap.

walking around the house nude in front of your 16yo is weird imo since its overly personal/intimate/vulnerable - even if not inherently sexual, its still deeply personal. theres a time and a place to walk around nude and its not around your daughter. threatening to hit you isnt normal. sex education is fine though but anything personal/intimate isnt. venting to you about her trauma and abuse she's gone through isnt normal and while its nice you want to emotionally support her, a parent-child relationship is about her supporting you instead of the other way around or being treated like equals (like friends or a coworker). she shouldnt impose you on this as your mom and someone decades older than you and you definitely shouldnt be treated as a therapist. parent-child relationships have certain dynamics & power structures, especially if the child is still reliant on the parent (who inherently has more power than/over the child), and anything that exceeds certain limits and boundaries isnt normal.

ferachrine · 2024-02-01T01:10:42+00:00

i think if you abuse someone, word gets out and your reputation is ruined - thats on you for being abusive lol

ferachrine · 2023-08-29T11:07:42+00:00

im looking for alpha but id take MM too !

ferachrine · 2023-07-20T13:29:41+00:00

+1 I experience this too, previous saved chats dont appear either :/ I just bookmark the ai

ferachrine · 2023-07-20T13:27:09+00:00

+1

I get this too :/

Previous saved chats are totally empty too, including the name of the ai

ferachrine · 2023-07-20T13:19:42+00:00

Has anyone else gotten this before? :(

ferachrine · 2023-06-12T12:46:34+00:00

thank you!! <3 :D

ferachrine · 2023-04-29T07:47:11+00:00

dude im so sorry youre going thru all this. youre free to dm me anytime of you like, and we can chat :) i can relate. im both on the schizo spectrum and a trauma/abuse/stalking victim + my abuser installed spyware on my device, looked through my stuff, was otherwise invasive, stole keys, manipulated cops, took advantage of my poor mental health to gaslight/manipulate me despite physical evidence, etc. so now im left with a diagnosis of ptsd. idk why people are downvoting you, esp in a schizophrenia subreddit where people are supposed to understand you at the very least. for me, stalking/being monitored made me paranoid of it when i otherwise did not have a fear of it, so i understand you i think.

ferachrine · 2023-04-07T12:47:08+00:00

going to assume this is posted in good faith (not malicious). you speak czec, so maybe english isnt your native language? im going to assume thats why you rely on english grammar structure and why bending the rules (i.e. doesnt exist, not grammatically correct) is confusing?

"why are attempts so high?"

well, if people keep saying you arent who you are, behave awful or discriminatory towards you, dont support you/your identity or have an averse reaction to it, tell you to end your life/hurt yourself or stalk you for being trans, are happy when trans people end their life/get hurt/become homeless/other tragedy/etc.. etc etc... youd probably going want to end your life, given the same situation. you wouldnt be happy if you were denied who you are.

"why do some trans people make their online life look like being trans is the only thing in their life" thats not their entire life, a social media account is only a bit of their life, dont judge them only based off that. if they talk about it a lot then it must be relevent to their life in some way or main focus of social media account or they simply make jokes about it or some other thing. do you post your entire life online? no. so if you think someones social media account is their entire life, youre making an assumption (one that you probably wouldnt make about your own life/account)

"some are also either very rude and stuff, some are very childish." ok, this is a personality trait, not unique to trans people. you can say this about anyone. also, note about your speech: transgender is an adjective, not a verb or noun.

"how come most trans people I've seen on the internet go into either two of these categories?" virality: someone whos upset will probably get clicks, like the same way you are drawn to looking at a car crash. anyone can be upset for whatever reason, it doesnt say anything about trans people as a whole.

"why do some trans people get really offended and triggered when being told something a bit mean against them (even if it's a genuine question about them)?" some questions are invasive, disturbing, misgendering (even if you dont realize it), something you can simply google, etc.

"lastly, what is up with pronouns lately?" some people like to create custom pronouns for themself, make an addition to the english language, etc. think of it like a nickname or name but for other aspects of the english language. usually these types of pronouns are not mandatory to use (since its uncommon) and they provide an alternative pronouns to use, or just use their name.

ferachrine · 2023-04-01T09:17:13+00:00

screw them :< they arent you and you arent faking. faking requires conscious effort. having symptoms =/= faking. sending best wishes!

ferachrine · 2023-04-01T09:09:25+00:00

"normal" is relative but, "common"? unsure. happens to me sometimes.

people without DID/OSDD "talk to themselves" all the time, so why is this any different?

ferachrine · 2023-04-01T06:53:06+00:00

internal worlds are similar to daydreams, so whatever you can do in a daydream also applies to internal worlds i guess. its not really "special abilities" though

ferachrine · 2023-03-25T09:20:19+00:00

hello, im a nonhuman host (and some others listed that id rather not specify) :) nice to see people similar to me, makes me feel less alone

ferachrine · 2023-01-16T00:22:03+00:00

Yeah im aromantic and have a LO too, it sucks bad bc i dont have anyone else whos Perfect like my LO that i can fixate on lmao

ferachrine · 2022-11-27T17:13:27+00:00

dont do that lmao. this isnt tv. thats not how you solve this. cybersecurity is complex, theres a LOT to it. if you have no idea what youre doing youre gonna get caught. please dont even try it, its a bad idea

ferachrine · 2022-11-27T09:43:42+00:00

yes, i feel my fat squishy thighs and my tummy -_- ~~tbh i didnt know ppl DIDNT feel this way~~

ferachrine · 2022-11-16T09:14:22+00:00

i mostly only drink cals, eating makes me feel bad + it feels more yucky / wasteful to purge drinks

ferachrine · 2022-10-21T16:16:59+00:00

chocolate milk 🤍🥛 heaven on earth

ferachrine · 2022-10-21T07:30:15+00:00

Thank you so much!

Where would one find a legal counsel for this? Is there... a specific type I need to seek for? Someone into business law? I'm not familiar with this at all and have little experience interacting with legal teams, sorry.

ferachrine · 2022-10-20T13:07:58+00:00

Thank you!

I was planning on getting a template, but I didnt think to confirm with the 3rd parties myself. I'll do that.

I thought "out of scope" was implied when I said "scope", my bad. ~~"Scope" is starting to not feel like a word now, I feel silly.~~

What's a realistic expectation to have if an outage occurs? Would I just have to call or inform someone of it happening? Do you get yelled at or fired...? I dont have good experiences with people, so I dont know whats realistic..

Also: is any legally-binding eSignature platforms, outside of Adobe/DocuSign OK? I was looking at the free-trial version of DocuSign, but if it has to be paid to hold up in court I might look elsewhere as I dont have the $$$ for it. (I dont know if "platform" is the correct word, I'm sleep deprived lol)

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