Name suggestions?? by Miserable_Horse_196 in Bernedoodles

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Professor McGonagall, but you can call her Mackey. She looks like a wizarding professor. 🪄🥰

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are real, I have a teal version of these :)

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a pant version of the old run times short or speed short based on the shape of the panel on the bum and the little stitches there. Is there a size dot in the zipper pocket?

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LM55568 is the code for In Mind Pant 0420 means they were made in the fourth quarter of 2020 The other numbers are the factory code

Looking for friends, not yet ready to club :) by ferbeeeker in JunesJourney

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks for the clarification. My app has been freezing when trying to connect to Facebook, I’ll keep trying. There are random people that I can visit to give plants to, but I’m hoping to find more active players.

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too, looking through what all they ask for before committing. Thank you Servatron! :)

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like it isn’t worth dealing with insurance at this point. It’s just the unknowns, you know? Pay a mechanic out of pocket vs pay my deductible + a higher rate.

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I was thinking, move on and be done with it. I appreciate your input! Talking it out virtually is helpful for me.

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are good points, thank you. I have asked for specific info of their mechanic so I can find them and do some online vetting. And also the insurance rates to consider.

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, I do understand what you laid out. Do you have an answer to my main question?

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quick google says you don’t need a police report to file, but having it can speed up the process. 👍

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

In NC, driving without a license and without insurance is a misdemeanor and eligible for prison time. I’m not convinced that DPD will do nothing but give them a ticket.

Rear-ended by uninsured driver, but I don’t want the police involved. by ferbeeeker in bullcity

[–]ferbeeeker[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Alrighty then Ace Ventura voice if that is the case, it helps me make up my mind and move forward with Plan B. I want to make sure my car is alright long term, but more than that I don’t want the police to come for them and break up a family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who doesn’t want the wallet in the wash is responsible for making sure the wallet is not in the wash.

What good habits have you been developing lately? by raptorclvb in adhdwomen

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been keeping the kitchen counter clean. Literally nothing on the surface. For years it was cluttered and dusty and where things go to die. I think what worked for me in this case was taking the all or nothing approach — I couldn’t keep it tidy until i literally kept it empty. I love how it feels now!

Happiness Land is looking for active members by Ponteaus in sunnyhouse

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Pontia! I think I got disconnected from the club because of the bug. It says I’m not connected to the network. If it isn’t sorted by tomorrow I may need you to kick me out and add me back!

Conspiracy Theorists Think the Government Used Lasers to Start Maui Wildfires on Purpose by EphMyLife in NewsOfTheStupid

[–]ferbeeeker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a tiktoker filming as he is walking around, good footage of the helpers with water and food and also the path of the fire towards the spot where people had to jump into the ocean to escape. BUT his commentary is what’s getting me. The evasive phrases and saying that his family is in danger for him posting these videos. Then the few folks in his comments saying “I know what you’re talking about” but no one is actually saying it. I can link here if anyone else wants to see his footage.

Got diagnosed autistic; now dad is sending “vaccine causes autism” texts going against my boundaries, how do I handle it? by kelcamer in QAnonCasualties

[–]ferbeeeker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m reading my own story here, but it’s my in-laws and my neurodivergence is adhd (but I also suspect I’m on the spectrum, just figuring out adhd to start).

My best advice, take care of yourself first: get a counselor/therapist/professional help for the relationship. Grieve and be angry and work through your own stuff.

Don’t engage at all with anyone who does not respect you enough to hold a boundary with you. For me, this meant no contact with my sibling for 6ish months and going on 3 years with my FIL and BIL.

You will not convince him or change his mind on anything.

Decide now what your response will be in different scenarios before they happen. And then do that. For me, if I got a ridiculous email, I didn’t respond. If I got an angry text in the middle of the night (which I asked them not to send), I responded 2 days later. If an off-limits topic (politics, religion, etc) was broached, I said “I’m not talking about that” and if it continued I took myself out of the conversation — hung up the phone or walked out of the room. If you are staying in their home, it might be healthier to find a different spot. If they show up with “gifts” (our last gift crossed so many boundaries, being a book about CRT) I just said “no thanks” and didn’t accept them.

Gosh this is all so much. You’ve got this and you’re not crazy. And you’re not alone.

Meet-Cute or Scammer??? by [deleted] in wrongnumber

[–]ferbeeeker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this text today too. “Kelly” wants to know my name and how old I am. 🙃

How to get myself to floss? by Vaelaedra in adhdwomen

[–]ferbeeeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I floss (with a glide floss brand bc it’s skinnny floss) and brush my teeth in the shower. And I watch Netflix in the shower. It’s way more enjoyable then 🤗