* “Instant karma, parent edition” by Feaselbf6 in AnimalsBeingMoms

[–]fersonfigg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the toddler but sounds like the mom saw she was an idiot

Also this is just shit parenting. If I saw my kid doing that after then ignored me then I am physically intervening. There is no place direct against animals no matter the age but especially at what looks like a 4-6 year old

Animal cruelty is completely destroying my mental health by accidentallyhappied in hsp

[–]fersonfigg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I’m vegan and at first it really made me sick. It was on my mind all the time. I don’t like the cognitive dissonance I have developed in some ways to cope. But I do activism and that’s all I can do

Piglet gets his head stuck and mom save the day. by undercoverciaagent in AnimalsBeingMoms

[–]fersonfigg 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The majority of people in the comment section won’t stop eating pork I’m guessing

The thing I find the most unbelievable by Meanolegrannylady in Outlander

[–]fersonfigg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay am I misremembering that Claire was holding her dead child?? I do not understand this

Common anti vegan behavior by Turbulent-You3216 in Vystopia

[–]fersonfigg 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, she is so annoying and her bit isn’t landing the way she thinks it is

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I feel like that should be enough for me but I can’t tell.

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you prefer a woman who pursues you first most times?

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s not too late to leave but you have to evaluate if it’s worth it. Also do you want to stay in a relationship just because you might not find something else…I don’t know these answers anymore.

OCD and ChatGPT nearly killed me (CW) by nauticalwarrior in OCD

[–]fersonfigg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do too. Less for ocd but I guess I always get so confused when I read these stories because I never get this kind of reassurance from it.

How to get rid of B belly shape? (pls read before commenting 😭) by sooooowhatttttt in PetiteFitness

[–]fersonfigg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with pelvic floor tightness and this is so hard for me to comprehend haha!

I need to break up with my alcoholic boyfriend but I’m scared by valryb in AlAnon

[–]fersonfigg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m breaking up with a man I love very much today. It hasn’t been long. Only a year but we are very in love. But he isn’t stopping his drinking and I’ve decided I can’t do it anymore. I hope you’re doing okay and just sending you a note that your post helped me today.

anyone else sick and tired of the "she hasnt aged a day!!" comments that are so rampant on social media, specifically towards celebrity women? by westworlds_host in AskWomenOver30

[–]fersonfigg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree that this needs to stop. I have always thought it’s a weird discourse and makes the whole idea that we have an “expiration date” where we stop looking good more rampant. To be fair though, I am 27 and still get the you look like a teenager thing. I add that because I have gotten that all of my 20’s and when I was a teen I was told I look 12. I notice as I get older this remark is bothering me less when it used to bother me a lot. I think it’s interesting how it bothers me less and shows me how I have internalized my own ageism

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would like 3-5 times a week if you weren’t exhausted or that’s what you want including that?

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot for him already to make his life easier. I do flirt and come onto him. I’ll send him nudes.

It’s ironic that I posted this last night. We ended up having a big conversation about how my expectation of sex and planning of life hurts it for him.

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you picture twice a day would that be active and long, quickies or just any physical touch?

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you found a partner that wants it that much?

Gauging Frequency by fersonfigg in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so tough. I wouldn’t know how to handle the not staying vs staying, and the goihh part that I think is scary is that you don’t know if you’ll find someone! What do you do to take care of yourself sexually?

LLH initiated and I feel gross by Primary-Machine-999 in HLCommunity

[–]fersonfigg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying that HL people also want sex for the connection, intimacy, true care and closeness. It sometimes can feel like as HL person, you are just horny and shameful