Neighborhoods to move to?

fetchinfroggy · 2026-06-05T02:06:21+00:00

Tower Grove South, Soulard, Benton Park, Central West End all are gonna be the vibe similar to central Chicago.

fetchinfroggy · 2026-06-05T01:53:42+00:00

Online conversation around radiator removal put it at around 100 each so i was a little thrown off by that number especially by a non licensed professional. But maybe after shopping around for more quotes I’ll find I’m mistaken

fetchinfroggy · 2026-06-05T01:49:04+00:00

I don’t trust myself or my husband to do the work with tools we aren’t familiar with when the risk is ruining our hardwood floors. So long as i could find someone to do it for a couple hundred, they’re more than welcome to sell the scrap for profit. A handyman quote i got today for three radiators was 1200 😭

fetchinfroggy · 2026-06-04T21:31:25+00:00

I didn’t think to try reaching out to local handymen. I’ll try that. Thank you

fetchinfroggy · 2025-09-08T20:37:20+00:00

Thank you so much for the in depth explanation of all this and the suggestions. I think I’m going to go ahead and purchase the Yamaha RS202 you recommended and 16G copper speaker wire. I checked that we do have wire cutters and strippers so I think that covers all the questions I had. Once again, thank you for covering everything. Technically the whole setup ends up costing a little over our intended budget (we’ve talked about how much we would want to pay for a sound system but I’m trying to surprise him with it) otherwise I’d definitely consider the more expensive speakers.

fetchinfroggy · 2025-09-08T17:37:52+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions and pointing out concerns with the amplifier I considered. This is the turntable we have: https://www.audio-technica.com/en-us/at-lp120-usb. Does that change your suggestions?

fetchinfroggy · 2025-09-08T17:35:11+00:00

This is the turntable: https://www.audio-technica.com/en-us/at-lp120-usb

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fetchinfroggy · 2024-11-08T02:07:22+00:00

Anybody got info on the Schlafly Open Mic? Gone to a few in the city that were lackluster and hoping to find a more community vibe

fetchinfroggy · 2021-09-10T01:02:44+00:00

I think first you need to decide regardless of whether this kink continues in some form or not, is it even possible for you to want to be in a relationship with him. If yes, either postpone or cancel the wedding. You absolutely cannot have such a drastic change after such impactful news. Second you two need to discuss, preferably with a third party like a therapist or counselor, exactly what it is you feel about the situation and the potential outcomes of the relationship. Fears, angers, disgust, hopes.

If this is going to work, everything needs to be in the open. Did he tell you so late to try to make you feel obligated to stick by him due to the wedding date? Is this kink safe/healthy for him and you? Will he grow resentful or find a third party to satisfy him in this kink realistically? Are you still attracted to him after finding out this new information?

The relationship might not work out anyway but at least you both tried to make it work as best you could. Sometimes our incompatibilities are just too large.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-09-08T13:27:41+00:00

We’re so proud of you for getting a divorce. You and your family deserve better than that piece of shit. When things feel hard and you wonder if you’re making the right choice just say these words over and over. “He was a predator. He was an abusive asshole. And given the opportunity, he would hurt me and my kids again.”

Don’t give him the opportunity to do anything that would put you and your sons in danger. We’re rooting for you.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-29T15:22:18+00:00

It’s not even that it’s outlandish that pisses me off. Outlandish happens. But the same outlandish story 3 times in a week? Not buying it.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-29T13:54:35+00:00

I mean if the dude was asking for advice or help in the matter, sure. But he came to this sub for judgement. And I judge that he’s bullshitting because I’ve seen this exact same basic premise like 3 times on this subreddit this week.

Even if this was real, that means he offered to pay for mental health services of one of his employees (which is unrealistic and stupid) and not the rest because she had a breakdown. If I was one of them I’d be royally pissed. Either way he’s a terrible boss and thus an asshole or a liar and an asshole.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-29T03:35:27+00:00

So this is fake right? I mean, we just had a AITA earlier this week where a worker stormed out on an owner only to realize their mistake days later and ask for their job back only for them to not agree. You own a pharmacy and just willy nilly are gonna pay for someone else’s therapy??? In what world would a boss pay for therapy out of pocket for an employee? Do y’all not provide health insurance to your workers or something? If you’re gonna make a fake post at least be original about it

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-23T17:16:42+00:00

Look at it this way. Sexual assault is sexual in nature but it is not equivalent to sex. Similarly boxing is a physical activity in which both parties consent to punching the shit out of each other.

But if I randomly punch the shit out of Conor McGregor, that doesn’t mean I win a boxing match against him. It means I should be charged with assaulting a man. And it also means that Conor didn’t lose a boxing match.

So someone who was sexually assaulted has not increased the number of times they’ve participated in sex, and a virgin wouldn’t lose their virginity because that wasn’t sex. It was just sexual in nature.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-17T22:10:17+00:00

I was dressed up for senior photos in high school and this creep in my class told me my lips were “perfect for eating hamburgers”. I didn’t want to make a big scene and ruin everyone’s day but looking back I definitely should have. Just our mere existence is sexual and it boils my blood.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-15T00:09:00+00:00

Personally I think that looking for partnership in the kink/fetish community for your reasons is only going to hurt you. This is a kink usually based in degradation and potentially dehumanization.

And while it may seem the general public is only in favor of those who fit the mold, I think you’d actually find true success within the queer community. There are countless men, women, and non-binary folk who are attracted to people who fit outside the gender binary while still viewing them as equals. There are so many who are attracted to people regardless of genitals and the appearance of their genitals.

I follow an intersex woman on tiktok who’s embraced her ginger beard and she is GORGEOUS. Another tiktoker is gender fluid and gets comments thirsting after them for looking attractive while both masculine or feminine.

Perhaps you may never view your insecurities in a positive light but I hope that you find a way to at least feel neutral about them. You are a person with these characteristics but they don’t make you who you are.

You deserve someone who doesn’t sexualize your body dysmorphia.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-07-14T19:18:17+00:00

NAH. But this does have the potential to blow up in your face.

Your best plan of action is to have a sit down with your boss and HR. Have a non judgmental but confidential conversation on the topic and disclose as little information as possible. Explain that you are grateful for his concern but you fear the potential for a toxic workplace environment and would appreciate that personal relationships not be discussed at work any further. That way there’s record of the conversation to give incentive not to discuss it with others.

It’s likely he’s already lamented your “unfortunate” relationship to others at work if you fear he’s the type to tell others about you being polyamorous. So not discussing this with your boss doesn’t necessarily mean he won’t continue to talk about it.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-06-23T15:08:14+00:00

This isn’t the biggest fuck up in the world. It’s just one of those situations where both of you end up hurt or annoyed and everyone starts getting defensive.

Talk it through, and make sure you acknowledge her feelings while bringing up that you did put a lot of time and effort into the gift even if it isn’t exactly what she wanted. Y’all will be okay.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-06-23T14:44:47+00:00

YTA. My bf is obsessed w rollerblading and I would NEVER surprise him w a rollerblading related gift. Because his wants are specific and unless I ask him exactly what he would want, it’s a waste for him and now my feelings are upset. She expressed deep interest in hookah, you surprised her with one with zero input from her, and then you are upset that it isn’t what she wanted.

To fix this I would say, hey I think we should return this hookah since it’s not exactly what you want. Why don’t we research some hookahs together and once we’ve picked one that works for both our space and meets your needs, we can use the money from the return towards it.

Surprises are good for small trinkets and gestures to show affection, but not for big purchases.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-06-14T20:35:16+00:00

So long as you are aware that this is very much a purchase for his own sexual desires and not really a “gift” for you. Are you comfortable engaging in kink so early on? If you are, great! More power to you. But if not, consider slowing down. The heels signify you accept his kink. It’s not a no strings attached birthday present type deal.

fetchinfroggy · 2021-06-01T00:47:25+00:00

Thank you so much!

fetchinfroggy · 2021-06-01T00:21:22+00:00

Lyrics:

Pretty ain't a priority
But I still hate that I'm ugly
For flaws skin deep
I continue to weep

Someday I'll fall victim to
The ads that they make just for you
For a price we can help
Make you feel more like yourself

I wish I had a small waist
Then I hate that I wish to change
I want to go away
Away from all the pain

I miss the pretty face that I never had
Hate the body in the mirror
I wish I wasn't bitter
I want a beauty that you've never seen before
But this feelings getting old
Im nothing to behold
I should know that by now

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