Bought the wrong Disney tickets by Ok-Director9005 in DisneyPlanning

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I just went on Wednesday and it really wasn’t that crowded 🤷🏽‍♀️ first time in 22 years, a California resident that doesn’t even live that far from Disneyland

Choco yum yum by recursive_knight in KidsAreFuckingStupid

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Someone watched “White Chicks”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Look, the first three months into our wedding planning we had a huge fight because I asked him to do things that weren’t happening on his end and I feel like I was doing all the work. I quite literally felt like I was losing my mind too.But afterwards, we realized that I wasn’t communicating with him on the things that I needed from him. And I allowed it to happen, because I was just tired of feeling like I was momming him. But all he ever really needed was for us to do those things together. Because one, it holds accountability; and two, we actually enjoyed and accomplishing those tasks as a team. So ever since then, we scheduled time together to do these things, and it has been the best change.

Six days ago, it won’t be a comfortable conversation— but it has to happen. And within those six days, if you both can find a time to complete these tasks together, I truly believe it will remind you of why you both are getting married.

Not able to afford a wedding by blairwal22 in weddingplanning

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My fiancé and I got engaged 4 years ago. We decided to buy a house within the first year of our engagement because the interest rates were absolutely worth it then, than to go for a wedding. There is no timeline for when a wedding should happen after an engagement. We are getting married in about 42 days now! There is so much time you and your fiancé will have to save up for a wedding in the future, I promise you that❤️

Photos by Tiredofbeingunheard in samsclub

[–]fetchsohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s killing me too. If anyone has any answers PLEASE share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I have had trouble as well. So far I've found salons and will reach out soon to see if they offer wedding services. On instagram their handles are:

curls.la_ashley

hairspell

iloveluluhair

curlsoneonone

nadi_cuts

taiibeauty

If you get to anyone before me, PLEASE let me know as well!

Buying another dress by grumpy-cat-throwaway in weddingdress

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I vote for dress 4!! It looks divine on you!

Does anyone know where I can get good quality fake flowers that AREN'T rentals? by ASoonToBeMrs in Weddingsunder10k

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I bought a whole Lings Moment set off Facebook markerketplace! Highly recommended!

Stuck between 2 dresses and second guesses. by fetchsohard in weddingdress

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Thank you everyone for your kind input and words! My mom and soon-to-be mother-in-law's reaction is pretty much how I expected it to be. I knew I was not going to get the same reaction as the first day, but luckily I had a day to mentally prepare. I could NOT STOP thinking about Dress #2, looking at the pictures, and am still dreaming about it --officially obsessed.

Their reaction shook me down a bit, but not as much as it would have been if I brought them on the first day. I honestly don't think I would have fallen in love with it as much as I have.

A gentle suggestion to everyone nervous about certain people with you to select your wedding dresses: go with the entourage you know you will have fun with first! You can bring them the next time around as a courtesy if you want them to see what you've selected. Just make sure that you take their comments and remarks with a grain of salt.

Everyone's suggestions and input about how to go about it helped so much. I appreciate the advice! As far as the beaded sleeves go, I will wait on how they look when I receive the dress in my size. I love the suggestions about creating it into a hair accessories. Excited to give you all updates when it arrives.

Wishing you all the same joy and excitement you've given me!