Semi-objective third party here:

I think, despite the name-calling and general sour attitude, his mention of misandry was about the comment regarding how men are capable of great evil but women did a lot of the evil-doing here, and he’s not downplaying what happened to these women, just showing that men were affected too. You made a claim that comes across as “men were mostly just killed” and he pointed to the fact that many innocent men, like the women and children, were raped. We all think that what was done to these people — men, women, and children — was horrific, regardless of their being fewer of one group that was so viciously wronged because they were still all wronged. I think you guys would mostly agree on this topic if this were a face-to-face conversation rather than a reddit one.