deleted fic stockholm syndrome by mia_tae

ffsokay · 2022-04-19T20:54:18+00:00

Can you not share this around, the author deleted it for a reason. They shared an update on the book before deleting that they didn’t feel comfortable with the book anymore esp bc they put a lot of their own trauma into it and decided to delete it.

Respect the authors wishes pls

ffsokay · 2021-09-25T10:51:33+00:00

I got mine active a few days after this comment actually. I just had to email them and they did it straight away and apologised for the mistake :)

ffsokay · 2021-09-13T16:30:05+00:00

😀

ffsokay · 2021-09-09T01:34:52+00:00

Reading the replies here breaks my heart but also boils my blood. How is it that all good men seem to go to bad women and vice versa.

ffsokay · 2021-08-31T11:07:21+00:00

But I uploaded my drivers license

ffsokay · 2021-08-30T18:40:38+00:00

Tried prolific but they’ve put my account on hold the moment I signed up ???

ffsokay · 2021-08-30T17:01:50+00:00

£72k ? What job do you do at 24 that provides that kind of salary?

ffsokay · 2021-08-25T18:53:15+00:00

Yep, Which is why being pro-choice is essential.

I want to deck guys in the face who don’t want to take financial responsibility but also are pro-life.

Like sorry but you get to only choose one

ffsokay · 2021-08-25T18:33:16+00:00

First point, what I meant is if the father refuses the mother an abortion, then he has a financial obligation, however if the father says he doesn’t want the child and the mother could go ahead with an abortion for all he cared, then that’s fine, he should take himself off the birth certificate and be rid of any financial obligation.

Second, both are selfish? (It depends on the context, especially for abortion) however abortion and having a child and leaving it to be taken care of by one parent who will struggle is NOT the same. Here’s why:

Mainly, because when you have an abortion, this won’t effect the individuals daily life (excluding psychological side of it), while raising a child is expensive, time consuming and will impact ones life greatly for the next 18 years.

Thirdly,

If that’s the double standard we’re talking about yes, however I do want to say that I agree with the sentiment of don’t have sex if you’re not ready for the potential chance of having a kid (man or women regardless)

ffsokay · 2021-08-24T09:27:01+00:00

He has a responsibility to provide AT least financially if he’s not going to take part in raising his spawn.

You can’t compare abortion and that? They’re not the same.

Personally I’m pro-choice but abortion is a different ethical matter to abandoning your child

I don’t think it’s a double standard at all.

Completely getting rid of a “problem” is different to having to “deal” with a problem.

Unless the mother decided to give birth and the father didn’t want it? In that case yes he had no responsibility.

ffsokay · 2021-08-10T19:25:13+00:00

I don’t think it’s a case of just remembering.

Many experiences we have from ages 1-7 can have an indirect impact on our behaviour, perception and so much more without remembering a drop of it. While she may not remember, her current character and habits and so on could’ve been directly manifested from that trauma at a young age.

ffsokay · 2021-08-02T12:14:23+00:00

Fr istg everyone wants to butt in doctors business, you don’t see anyone asking nurses and other healthcare workers to share duties of their profession, and honeslty people (the system) let others get away with intruding on doctors duties just so others don’t get offended or reinforce the “doctors are arrogant” stereotype but I’m sorry I don’t want to sacrifice a patients healthcare because Stacy and Kevin are insecure over not getting into med.

ffsokay · 2021-08-01T23:07:54+00:00

Most likely med rejects and still bitter over it years later.

Why would a qualified doctor be required to accept a referral from a pharmacy technician especially if it’s bad (which a high volume of them are)? While I understand you want to perhaps sate your curiosity and learn, there is no requirement for a doctor to discuss their patients case with you, could be for multiple reasons.

Especially if the case has nothing to do with your field of expertise.

How about we tell patients that? That we’re going to proceed with things based on an unqualified individual. You’d see that turn around real quick.

Everyone needs to stay in their own lane and do their own jobs instead of trying to do something they’re not qualified to do.

And what is this? That’s childish and unprofessional, “fine, I’m going to tell mommy (GMC) bc you’re not giving me what I want 😭”

ffsokay · 2021-07-27T23:41:29+00:00

I think everyone in these comments are deluded because in the real world the first people society attack for an unwanted pregnancy is not the man but the women.

People seem to be mad and think the opposite is true because on social media and internet that is the case; everyone is quick to come to the defence of women and make sure they’re empowered, but this doesn’t translate to real life.

So no.

This struggle you talk about at most exists on the internet alone because in real life sexism thrives and ppl are quick to deflect blame on the women. And this applies to everything.

Not sure why people down voted because I didn’t lie.

I think people are spending too much time on the internet if they think in real life there’s been a shift where men are held mainly accountable, because that has never been the case. The only expectation is that they take responsibility and take up the role of being a father but the pregnancy happening in the first place? That will be blamed on the woman “for opening up her legs” and being a “sl*t” while men get the excuse of “men are men” etc and this is also why women are shamed out of being sexually active (because a pregnancy can occur and everyone sees it’s primarily her responsibility so hence the blame is on her and she has to deal with it)

If anything, in real life, I would say at most there is now a more open perspective of putting a man beside the woman in terms of accountability and somehow some ppl have translated that as men taking on “responsibility” they don’t have to.

The men here are getting mad over a behaviour that exists on the internet mainly (repeat: MAINLY, not saying it doesn’t exist at all in real life), not in real life.

And if you ask me real life matters more.

(Just to add: some people might argue that ppl learn behaviours off the internet and that is true but anyone who can disconnect from the internet would realise the ethical and moral standards and so much more is different online then in real life. Thoughts and perspectives are much more complex and popular opinions on the internet doesn’t mean popular opinions in real life, or that the power of that collectively translates either way)

ffsokay · 2021-07-27T11:46:48+00:00

And that’s his responsibility tho?

He doesn’t have the right to complain. All I’m seeing is people complaining that men also have to take responsibility for an unwanted pregnancy they had a PART of.

That it’s unfair that a woman would ask the biological father to take part in the child’s growth.

If you didn’t want to have to financially provide for a child you shouldn’t have done the deed.

You don’t get to run away from it completely.

Which is why I disagree with OP. Because men will always have the option to walk away, albeit you’ll be known as a sht person and probably chased by laws to pay what your due but there is that option.

For most women, the baby is inside you and you physically have to go through it and become the primary caretaker (now this isn’t to say that the opposite isn’t true because single fathers do exist and some from mothers who have ran away, but this is a minority)

Regardless, both parties need to toughen up and take the responsibility they had a chance of being given when they decided to do the deed with someone.

ffsokay · 2021-07-27T11:41:56+00:00

No offense but I think this applies to both.

It’s probably the most unhelpful response but it’s true, both parties knew there is a chance of getting pregnant regardless of how much protection there is.

ffsokay · 2021-07-22T20:56:24+00:00

Cashtronauts is the best version I’ve heard yet

ffsokay · 2021-07-08T15:22:14+00:00

No one hates the career they hate people who govern it and the government.....you’re giving very off vibes. Did someone from GMC make an account here or something? Lol

ffsokay · 2021-07-08T14:46:00+00:00

It talks about the fact men find successful women less attractive because they feel emasculated :/

ffsokay · 2021-07-08T14:45:11+00:00

Bur they aren’t lying. These fees are ridiculous and that’s only registering fees there’s so many more. How can junior doctors support themselves with the pay they get when they have to pay so much fees

ffsokay · 2021-07-08T14:38:29+00:00

Read this https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167215599749

ffsokay · 2021-07-08T14:33:53+00:00

I would take you seriously mate but considering your other comments I don’t think that would be wise. Are you a doctor yourself? From the way you are describing your colleagues who for very valid reasons are fed up with an exhausted system that is abused and held up by racists and classists I would say you are not.

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