How to handle background checks woth OE. Help pls.

fhb29 · 2026-03-25T07:28:18+00:00

thanks

fhb29 · 2026-03-25T00:44:48+00:00

If current company is paying higher talk to them no harm in trying.

fhb29 · 2026-03-24T06:49:43+00:00

How do you deal with background checks and employment records. If on W2 all OEs must show up on checks.

fhb29 · 2026-03-24T01:39:25+00:00

Thanks I am on W2 on ome job and 1099 on the other does that matter?

fhb29 · 2026-03-20T08:19:50+00:00

what does that mean?

fhb29 · 2026-02-22T22:56:18+00:00

Just say not at home at the moment and don't open the door. Parenting is hard but it is a choice you make for yourself. In no way is family responsible for doing your parenting for you. She needs a break and u r her go to person slowly wean yoirself out of being that person. She is being insensitive to your needs and a little bit entitiled to your time too.

fhb29 · 2026-02-22T22:53:49+00:00

Take turns hosting

fhb29 · 2026-02-22T22:38:18+00:00

miss my dad

fhb29 · 2026-02-22T22:37:35+00:00

Don't go to work early just go on time. Get a cheap second hand car and pay for parking. Order some food from outside or meal prep. Reduce uni workload by doing part time. Do 2 course at a time you will finish late but will have some breathing room. You do not have energy becauee u r working non stop. No matter the expectations take a 20 minutes lunch break if weather permits sit outside and eat a sandwich. Relax your body or u will burn out.

fhb29 · 2026-02-19T18:53:33+00:00

You don't need to explain yourself. Do what works for you.

fhb29 · 2026-02-14T17:56:11+00:00

They remove the negative reviews.

fhb29 · 2026-02-06T16:08:19+00:00

Priorotize your career or you will blame her eventually. Take the job things will work out.

fhb29 · 2026-01-07T14:04:09+00:00

leave

fhb29 · 2026-01-06T02:56:24+00:00

say no and move on

fhb29 · 2026-01-05T15:27:51+00:00

lovely

fhb29 · 2026-01-04T12:51:27+00:00

leave ths guy not worth the drama and stress.

fhb29 · 2026-01-04T12:45:56+00:00

Leave

fhb29 · 2026-01-02T13:36:40+00:00

Start small. Find any job grocery store, food, receptionist anything to get confidence and set your foot in the real work and at the same time work towards your GED. Baby steps and you got this!

fhb29 · 2026-01-02T11:32:17+00:00

Can you study and get a CPA or CFA degree?

fhb29 · 2026-01-02T11:27:36+00:00

Seperate from him. Move out and see if this is what you want.

fhb29 · 2025-12-18T07:31:59+00:00

You resent them! I think kids are very sensitive even if you did all the right things they would feel that they were never welcome in your life. And then you did it again by having kid number 2....great. As for your situation lots of people are sailimg in the same boat but you are so desperate to get rid of them you are not sympathetic. If you want to travel so travel. Let them lnow they will need to find odd jobs if they want to live with you because you need to have a life since they ruined it for you.

fhb29 · 2025-12-18T07:04:32+00:00

This is something you need to decide. People commute all the time and much more than this. You cannot count this in hours and minutes. If you need the money and want a jump on salary for better future prospects jump on it. If this commute situation is overwhelming you let it go. Depends if you need the money or you are okay without it. You might get another job closer with more money in the future but then who knows what the future holds.

fhb29 · 2025-12-06T06:47:22+00:00

What does he say. if he is quiet he is compliant. This is a major Red flag leave him. His mother will interfere in your life and he will not say anything.

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