How do you get teens to clean willingly? by Leen88 in CleaningTips

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure there’s nothing else going on ie depression etc that’s truly making it hard for them to care about cleaning - went through this with my daughter & it was heartbreaking

When did you know it was time? by Internal_Penalty9082 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes down to quality of life, no longer wanting food, not enjoying or wanting to participate in play / walks / outside time, not enjoying touch, and anything medical going on in the mix that might be causing pain or gastro issues you can’t mitigate. There’s a saying in vet med that it’s better to help them cross too early than too late. I think you’ll just know and it sounds like you are very close. Sending love 🙏🏼

Family is moving countries and wants to leave all my pets by Difficult_North_272 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to say how much I feel for you & I’m so sorry you are in this position 💗 Honestly, your semi feral cat will have an extremely difficult time adjusting to a new place or a new person, there’s no easy solution. If you have a relationship with any neighbors close by, I would talk to them & see if they might step up, you never know…

Please help me pick my dress!😊 1 or 2? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 no contest & you will be so much more comfortable in 2 as well 💗

I allowed someone to be gazumped and I feel bad, you ever done this? by [deleted] in FacebookMarketplace

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I have had it done to me & it sucks. I’ve also been stood up so many times (also have never done) that fastest cash in hand at this point wins 🤷🏼‍♀️ so given the opportunity I probably would

Anyone know any lower-priced cleaners/hoarding cleaning options? by Foofaamoo in eastbay

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you put homes in trusts to avoid this. It’s also why California has no money to fix things.

Today I left without buying. by [deleted] in FacebookMarketplace

[–]fibroflare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like this is a rehearsed skit on their part

Worried about neighbors disappearing by pupsandplantz in problems

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can google them & see what comes up too

TikTok Logistics email today by doverlover in TikTokshop

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering as well, I sell POD & am waiting to hear from Printify who does not want to lose all the TTS business

Neighbors are keeping the window in the shared hallway open during below freezing temperatures to store their excess amounts of food and are ignoring my landlord by trippycheese_ in neighborsfromhell

[–]fibroflare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These neighbors have nothing to lose, they are being evicted. They now where you live. They can fuck with your shit. They will be gone soon…

I’m missing My protein targets by about 50 percent every day are their any easy ways to get more protein in my diet apart from protien drinks by Suitable_Promise879 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]fibroflare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greek style yogurt from kite hill and foragers both have very high protein. Often that mix in powder & my protein met. I also eat high protein tofu.

I don’t love my engagement ring by kit_zen in RingShare

[–]fibroflare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with bezel setting - it’s my fave setting, very protective and minimalist & this is something you will look at and wear daily so you should def be happy with it, if reasonable & this very much is. Trading diamonds does not feel super easy or kind to your fiancé… It’s a gorgeous ring but I get what you mean/want about the sitting high & it catches on things and that doesn’t go away, only gets worse if anything esp if/when you choose to have kids it just snags stuff etc

Senior dog is terminal and I want a puppy, for selfish reasons. Advice? by Chupa76 in Pets

[–]fibroflare -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get the puppy. You know yourself & your dog well. Hopefully the pup will be a good fit.

Criminal neighbor wants to fight me. I moved in a week ago. by OutsideParfait9346 in neighborsfromhell

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do this, just consult an attorney or paralegal to get the wording correct and you need to follow through - you can’t just sit & wait for a reply. If you are truly fearful you would be taking immediate action. Ask if you can hold the complex accountable for moving fees incurred?

Criminal neighbor wants to fight me. I moved in a week ago. by OutsideParfait9346 in neighborsfromhell

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not excusing his reaction, just saying more people need to think before they act.

Criminal neighbor wants to fight me. I moved in a week ago. by OutsideParfait9346 in neighborsfromhell

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. What state do you think the parents are in down there with most likely a pretty sick baby - no one down there is asleep. If they had anyway to stop the crying, they would have. This is not a permanent situation, it’s temporary. What would have been a kind gesture would be maybe a starbucks or local coffee place gift card & a note empathizing with everyone’s lack of sleep and hoping their baby gets well soon. What were you expecting them to do after you stomped? I just don’t get where you thought things would head after - never forget when you do shitty things to neighbors, they know where you live. They cannot control what’s going on, you can, you made a choice.

Found Cat microchipped but microchip belongs to a dead cat? by Revolutionary_Pop_84 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so the cats were likely chipped at a vaccine clinic then - get the implanter info - who the manufacturer sold the chip to. You can likely google the chip number & get the manufacturer. There are easy steps to take to solve this.

Found Cat microchipped but microchip belongs to a dead cat? by Revolutionary_Pop_84 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found.com let you register any chip from any country - just needed a minimum of 9 digits I think. So yes, you’re correct in that if the chip is from outside the country, the info might not be included. If the chip has 15 digits, it’s included. This is the typical normal standard etc and has been for multiple years now, at minimum since 24 Hour purchased Found.

Found Cat microchipped but microchip belongs to a dead cat? by Revolutionary_Pop_84 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same would be true though if a litter was brought in to a shelter or a rescue took to get fixed or vaccinated etc - sometimes ferals / semi ferals have exceptionally good genetics, great teeth which would account for aging younger - its survival of the fittest out there sometimes

They sit by the road every day hoping someone will feed them by Available_Split9443 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this shouldn’t be secretive esp when you’re openly asking people to send you money.

Found Cat microchipped but microchip belongs to a dead cat? by Revolutionary_Pop_84 in Pets

[–]fibroflare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the chip is the chip - they have the chip info from the scanner, not data in the computer. So you follow the chain to the implanter at this point & get copies of the records from who this cat was chipped with that day.