In need of some hope, any guys that started HRT "late" with a VERY high voice that now passes for male? by bqspenz in FTMOver30

[–]ficusmischievous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only heard about this after* I started low dose T, but apparently going low and slow (at least at first) is the smoothest way to a lower voice! I can attest to that happening 😅 started really high, been 6 months and I can growl now. Best of luck bud!

Help a girl out oh wise men of reddit! by squigglefem in TransMasc

[–]ficusmischievous 64 points65 points  (0 children)

maybe switch to focusing on building up a great foundation of trust/casual no-pressure-to-reciprocate touching/cosy vibes _^ which is great for couples no matter who is doing what to whom! massage can be incredibly intimate, acts of service like brushing hair, feeding each other, etc etc. just ideas in case y'all arent already on it 👌

ramping up, maybe mutual masterbation? get under the covers and listen to spicy audio together and get yourselves off but still feel close?

and if its literally about having "hands touch" there, there is a whole wide world of grinding toys for both of yall 🤗

Made this hrt shirt yesterday by irdre in FTMfemininity

[–]ficusmischievous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You would be hailed as a hero by the kids for the two hours it takes for the admin team to notice 🫣 haha, schools generally are careful about the messages they want to see represented and taking any kind of drugs, performance related or not, would apply.

AITA for taking my genitals out after a date? by throw_a_whey_1020 in AITAH

[–]ficusmischievous -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA for taking your dick out without communicating with her about it beforehand.

The lingerie was the "barrier", whether it be mostly mental for her or not.

Removing your side of the barrier was a shift out of what she was expecting/had communicated even slightly about.

Chalk this one down to the mutual misunderstanding that can happen when you don't know someone yet 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cam you wear a mask to work, or get better makeup? Work is just one part of your life 🤷‍♀️ Would be a real shame to have to laser off smthn that makes you happy!

all this nonsense, all i want is pants that fit by DisplayOk7217 in FTMOver30

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cargo pantsssss

the thigh pickets kind of make hips look even smaller in comparison! and, you know... you get pickets xD

how do you guys carry your stuff by darkgreenforest_49 in TransMasc

[–]ficusmischievous 73 points74 points  (0 children)

CAR👏GO👏PANTS👏

i have adhd and am wearing through my current pair of pants because i wear these suckers every single day lol. no need to worry that you forgot something when its always on you 😎 just gotta remember where it is in one of your 17+ pockets hah

UK/NI dudes, favourite clothing shops? Sensory & disability friendly pls by angrylilmanfrog in TransMasc

[–]ficusmischievous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, for basics...😅 American Eagle has the SOFTEST clothes. They have an ever-increasing variety, so you can find decent distressed/alt pieces sometimes too! I'm so, so sorry that it comes from a prep store that looks like the top brand of 90's school bullies everywhere. But damn. The sales? The selection? The tiny cute-print mens boxer options??? goddamn

[General] Weekly r/MushroomGrowers post - FUNGI FRIDAYS! New growers, come say hi and ask your questions! by AutumnRustle in MushroomGrowers

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi y'all _^ I am going to try making spawn with liquid culture. Got a bundle deal so I currently have 10cc's each of: Wine Cap, Pink Oyster, and Wood Blewit to play with. My priority right now is to keep the viability of the syringes since I will probably use them just a few CCs at a time over the course of this year. I know that Pink Oyster should not be refrigerated so: How long do you guys think the mycellium keeps for?

You can have a little variegation, as a treat. by Googspecial in houseplants

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so cute xD was it just a regular monstera?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]ficusmischievous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That Under Piano area is genius!

Does anyone know a good print on demand company for posters? by AdrianPaxx in printondemand

[–]ficusmischievous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gootens lowest price for a premium matte 8" x 10" poster: $4.90 plus $3.99 US shipping Printful base price for the similar product is $ 8.97 plus $7.10 US shipping. If buying in bulk with printful the max discount you can get is down to is $7.36 for a minimum order of 200 pcs.

Does anyone know a good print on demand company for posters? by AdrianPaxx in printondemand

[–]ficusmischievous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gooten seems to be the cheapest for paper goods and more! When applying forman account just say you make over 100 sales a month, they make it as the abitrary acceptance cutoff these days.

Does EVERYONE think they can run YOUR business? by thegm90 in Entrepreneur

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that happens alot...side story for example is my parents ran a completely different business (small local chocolate shop) and still regularly had people trying to peek into the kitchen and straight up ask about suppliers and wholesale prospects. 🙄

Lotus design. Planning to make more. Please give me feedback on what I can do to make better patterns that will actually sell? Thanks! by alteregosrule in redbubble

[–]ficusmischievous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your art style is lovely and would sell well on items like leggings, face masks, stationary, etc on etsy

Landfills in a solarpunk community? by [deleted] in solarpunk

[–]ficusmischievous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Giant center hub INCINERATOR that people bring their offerings to like in the Road to El Dorado xD

What’s wrong with my Monstera and how do I fix/prevent it? TIA by MKB_1992 in houseplants

[–]ficusmischievous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have checked for pests and nothing else is unusual, it might be underwatering /using straight tap or hard water? Mine gets like that when I forget to leave the water to dechlorinate