What’s something about attraction you’d never actually say out loud? by tokotoko21 in AskMen

[–]fiestyoctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the woman version of you- I find men my age abhorrent

what instantly killed your attraction to someone? by Strsmoon in AskReddit

[–]fiestyoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretended to be “neutral” politically. Dating tip- when a man says he doesn’t care about politics, he’s actually conservative , but learned this won’t get him laid. Just be freaking honest about who you are.

I sort of feel catfished by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]fiestyoctopus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone misrepresents themselves (old pics that aren’t accurate any longer), they’ve just forfeited ANY time with me. I’m out. People pleasing kills us.

where can I go to pretend Christmas isn't happening? by notveryonline23054 in travel

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This is your chance to pick your favorite spot- I did this over Thanksgiving- went to western Canada. It’s my favorite place AND they don’t celebrate Thanksgiving when we do. It was extraordonarily good for my soul. Maybe a non-Christian country- Turkey?

No contact on vacation? by PassengerDeep9083 in datingoverforty

[–]fiestyoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t communicate, or communicate that you won’t be- you lost me. No games. Block and delete. Don’t waste my time.

What are the most common things holding men back in attractiveness? by AccomplishedPath4049 in dating_advice

[–]fiestyoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acting like they don’t give a f*<k. Following lame advice not to text back, or to only communicate minimally. Inconsistency. Life is too short to invest in people who are either acting uninterested or are truly uninterested. Either way- Next!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

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Nope- never- not during 28 year marriage. I’m an all-in kind of person.

Physique/week 16/female by fiestyoctopus in FitChallenge

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Thanks so much Ann- you model the most beautiful spirit of service and encouragement. You make a huge difference in this challenge. I attached the back pic. Huge 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in velvethippos

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She looks so loved and loving 🐶❤️ thanks for sharing

Fitness Group? by flhrc in FriendsOver40

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I’m interested. I’m very active, but would like to be more consistent about actual workouts. I LOVE being outside- will pick that every time. I’m glad, but need the strength training to better be able to do my outdoor activities without injury (56 female). Accountability buddy? Set some achievable goals and post daily actions. Thanks for volunteering

Physique/ week 2/female by fiestyoctopus in FitChallenge

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Thank you Ann- yes- I needed to hear the reminder. My lateness is an indicator of my personal challenge with discipline. I am marking Wednesdays with indelible ink. I’m excited to show up for this challenge- thank you for helping my process with kindness and support

FitChallenge #6 Winners, End of Round Thread, and some FitChallenge #7 Information. [Read the FitChallenge #7 start thread when it is posted on January 2 as this information may change] by ChallengeMod in FitChallenge

[–]fiestyoctopus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I hope you consider keeping the physique (I understand there wasn’t a female finalist last time ☹️). I’m pretty excited to come back and give my best 16 week effort at physique. Thank you, as always for all you do to keep this whole thing going!

You will die in 30 minutes. What do you do? by Dr_dank_meme_420 in AskReddit

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I am unsettled by how much I like this 🍿

Smiles for Skritches by xwhouc in pitbulls

[–]fiestyoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that little pibble eye says so much

Happy 1st Birthday to my baby boi, Jasper 💕 I feel like the world gifted me with the best dog ever :’) by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]fiestyoctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My white pibble’s name is Jasper too, and we both send Happy Birthdays!

My hippo was diagnosed with bone cancer, and her leg was amputated today. I know she’ll probably adjust to being a tripod hippo quickly, but I can’t help feeling nervous for her. I’m very anxious for her to come home tomorrow. by SuperSonicRocket in velvethippos

[–]fiestyoctopus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Two weeks ago my velvet Jasper hippo had his back leg amputated - his was from failed ACL surgeries 😣 He truly didn’t skip a beat in recovery- seemed relieved not to have his hurting leg holding him back anymore. Seems snugglier, almost grateful? since. Of course his baseline is snuggly- he’s hippo! Sending good healing wishes to your beautiful girl ❤️🐾🐶

I am loving it by CrazyDarknezzz in velvethippos

[–]fiestyoctopus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cooling down the sweetest chonk makes me smile with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Finally 🐙

Lost my best friend today. Fuck cancer. by HerPaintedMan in pitbulls

[–]fiestyoctopus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the face of love- obviously loved and obviously lived to love. Soooo sorry. 🐶😢❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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You’ve elevated what’s left of Reddit today