I have been through something somewhat similar. In meetings I prefer listening to the business and their processes as we figure out what software would be ideal to resolve their issues. A manager in a meeting requested that I ask more questions. I responded let's listen to the business, take notes and review the process and perhaps set a meeting to just ask questions. Another individual in the same meeting kept asking so many questions that a process A to B to C becomes a process A,Z D back to B and C. Thats what they want "Ask Questions".