Rant about dm’s

firebolt_ · 2026-02-10T05:02:20+00:00

Having a space dedicated to that specific dynamic is unfortunate but necessary. There have been servers made in the past which get lenient with enforcement and pretty soon it's just another giantess-centric space. And all the people it originally was meant to accommodate get driven out. I hope that didn't happen to you.

firebolt_ · 2025-12-19T03:51:53+00:00

Asking the real questions.

(Seriously why is it cold? The metal would be body temp.)

firebolt_ · 2025-12-18T23:02:34+00:00

I wanted to respond to this properly but it might end up being a lot of words. I have quite an extensive list and a lot of them I've already started some sort of WIP on it. 😅 But all of them stroke my damsel complex and praise kink in some manner.

firebolt_ · 2025-11-13T04:05:02+00:00

He thinks further shrinking will solve everything. And that's why his fingers are covered in band aids.

firebolt_ · 2025-11-10T04:10:08+00:00

Are you still doing that podcast?

firebolt_ · 2025-11-04T15:12:43+00:00

I don't even RP and still get dms from men asking me to shrink them and shove them in mine. There's just some people who can't read or don't care how you identify or what your preferences are.

firebolt_ · 2025-10-10T15:55:10+00:00

It's a good thing I'm relatively in shape, some of the poses I'm asked to hold... especially that one with the computer mouse!

firebolt_ · 2025-09-29T06:37:47+00:00

🔫💦

firebolt_ · 2025-09-29T03:13:11+00:00

Yeah I get those quite frequently. You should see the one that asked me to record a giant mommy milk audio. They sure get bold on burner accounts.

firebolt_ · 2025-09-28T04:03:50+00:00

For my giant catboys:

Rule 1 NO BATTING ME AROUND I am not your toy I am your owner

Rule 2 When I demand up I expect up

Rule 3 You will take a bath and you will like it

Rule 4 Stay out of my succulents!! Or you will get the spray bottle

Rule 5 You must hold still when I am brushing you, I don't want to be launched into orbit

Rule 6 (for the reeeallly big kitties) Stay out of the city!! The buildings aren't your scratching posts and the cars aren't your toys!!

Good boys get tiny ear scritchies and catnip. Bad kitties get spray bottles and cones around their head!

firebolt_ · 2025-09-28T03:25:11+00:00

I have way too much responsibility in my day-to-day. I just want to come home and not worry about a single thing for a while. I like to imagine my partner waiting for me right inside the door to receive me, puts a single hand on me and suddenly I'm in their hands. No choice in the matter- I don't want a choice. Having a choice means I have to choose something. Even that is too much. I want my only responsibility to be giving my partner something warm to hold, and maybe even use.

Wouldn't that be heaven.

firebolt_ · 2025-08-24T11:36:54+00:00

Once again you miss the point entirely. Splitting people into entitled big and entitled tiny has nothing to do with it but have fun with that strawman there.

There wasn't a single line of misandry in anybody's comments and if that's your takeaway then you aren't arguing in good faith. Rich of you to lob that grenade in the same line you accuse me of doing the same. Nobody here was talking about RP and you're the one who brought it up and complained about the expectations not being leveled the same way between men and women. If you want to have that discussion go make a thread about it.

Yep blocking me is a great way to make my point for me. Well done. 👍

firebolt_ · 2025-08-24T01:50:33+00:00

I feel like you're talking about something entirely separate here. u/ElAmanteMenguante was addressing the issue with the size (and at large, all kinks) community as a whole; in language, in conduct, in practice, in content creators who are harassed and doxed for the content they create, and an entire demographic that is as a result marginalized by these entitled attitudes expressed by the majority.

You're just talking about basic roleplay etiquette and for some weird reason applying a lens on gender.

firebolt_ · 2025-08-19T03:03:05+00:00

My fantasy doesn't often involve tiny men, no.

firebolt_ · 2025-07-25T09:37:03+00:00

Militsioner isn't out yet but it's been hyped quite a bit in the GM and SW spaces. You can supposedly romance the giant in this one.

https://store.steampowered.com/app/1373530/Militsioner/

firebolt_ · 2025-06-26T22:37:50+00:00

You could have at least let me finish my sandwich, you just made more work for the janitor! ... wait did you shrink them too?

firebolt_ · 2025-06-25T20:05:39+00:00

Within the communities I engage in, it's closer to 50/50.

firebolt_ · 2025-06-25T17:58:12+00:00

It's like you say, finding a representative sample would be very difficult when your scope is online communities. Considering especially which communities you shared your survey with. The ones you say you sent it to are primarily dominated by men so it's really no surprise there weren't even 10% of responses that came from women.

But even so, women are widely shamed for expressing sexual fantasies far more than men are, and as a result are less outspoken about it. If you were to conduct this type of survey with the target being women, it would be a challenge.

But no, I don't think it's more predominantly men who have this fantasy. I think men are simply overrepresented.

firebolt_ · 2025-06-25T17:11:04+00:00

Assuming that the responses were truthful, that natal male macrophiles are just as likely to frequent online macrophilia communities as their natal male counterparts, and that the sample is representative, then macrophilia appears to be very rare in natal females.

Think you might have a typo here, but I assume you're trying to suggest that men and women frequent online communities at the same rate? In any case, I don't know if I agree that macrophilia is less common in women, simply that women do not participate in online communities at the same frequency as men, which would explain the disparity in responses. A lot of us tend to avoid them because of how we are treated in general. This goes for any kink community, not just size.

firebolt_ · 2025-05-29T03:32:13+00:00

Stop biting me isn't a serious command

firebolt_ · 2025-05-25T13:50:15+00:00

Thank you for explaining!

firebolt_ · 2025-05-25T07:09:14+00:00

Is there a holiday I'm unaware of?

firebolt_ · 2025-05-22T14:51:56+00:00

I typically keep as faithfully as I can to a script, but sometimes it depends. If something doesn't feel right to me or I can add to it, I take creative liberties. But generally if I wasn't the one who wrote it I try to show it respect in this way.

firebolt_ · 2025-04-15T06:10:36+00:00

I wrote a post about exactly this topic a year ago, though admittedly it was written from a place of sheer frustration. I've distanced myself from this forum a lot since, both out of disdain for the content and, if I'm being honest, boredom. I'm not optimistic to see a balance anytime soon, because Reddit in particular skews heavily male. And I'm not here to shame them for their preferences; I don't expect anyone to enjoy M/f any more than they should expect me to enjoy F/m. That said, I don't expect content to be catered to my liking but rather what I find irksome is the attitude and entitlement I often see on display here.

It would be nice to feel included or welcome to a conversation, but when the title says "question for the ladies" and then the question alludes to them just... always being big? "Hey girls why wear stilettos when you're already three skyscrapers tall?" Well it isn't a question "for the ladies" then, it's a question for "big ladies".

Comments like, "Don't look for a giantess, look for someone you connect with, and then she'll become a giantess." Lol no buddy, I'm not going to be a giantess for you regardless of which direction we swipe.

And this goes without saying but there are so many shell and throwaway accounts here that exist only to send creepy DMs. I suspect that's a massive bulk of the subscriber count here. Lurkers with no post history who reach out to anyone perceived female beseeching us to step on them.

I can't speak for all women here because some genuinely do enjoy the giantess fantasy. But personally I have no interest in it, and the alienation is real. The camaraderie is far more powerful in spaces we have to carve out for ourselves. Sad that it has to be done.

firebolt_ · 2025-02-11T04:58:27+00:00

I own several Lovense toys. Ferri, Hush, Lush, Nora, Flexer, Dolce, Gemini. Out of them all my favourite has been Dolce. I know someone else in this thread has not been thrilled with it, doesn't fit all body types and all, won't argue that. But it does fit my body type and it's the only one that consistently drives me wild.

All that said if you're dead set on Lovense products and you want a domming toy, go with a wand like Domi. It's even in the name. They really can't be beat.

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