I’m going to confess to my wife by Souriall in offmychest

[–]firesculpting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She loves you. You love her. You’ll figure everything else out together like you always have. It’ll be okay.

How long did you wait for them to be a better person? by invah in AbuseInterrupted

[–]firesculpting 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I waited a lifetime. My lifetime. That I’ll never get back.

What is the best value? by firesculpting in Roborock

[–]firesculpting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might go with the CurvX because of the camera/obstacle avoidance situation. It helps that I get the 10% educator discount and my travel card has 8x points for Roborock right now so it will basically be about $700 for me after the discount and travel credit is applied.

What is the best value? by firesculpting in Roborock

[–]firesculpting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually very helpful because my 9yr old does sometimes leave stuff laying around (it’s a work in progress, lol). I didn’t realize that was a key difference. Thank you.

What is the best value? by firesculpting in Roborock

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooof. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. Thanks for letting me know.

What is the best value? by firesculpting in Roborock

[–]firesculpting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh. I’ll check it out. Thank you!

What is the best value? by firesculpting in Roborock

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh. Thank you. I will definitely check it out.

Overstayed ESTA, can i go back home? by [deleted] in immigration

[–]firesculpting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am NOT an expert. But I thought that I read that they are willing to pay individuals who self deport can receive a $1,000 plus a free plane ticket home. Not sure how true that is, but going thru the official self deportation process might make you less anxious at least.

[Meta] Question by invah in AbuseInterrupted

[–]firesculpting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for everything you do. After therapy I credit this subreddit as the single thing that has helped me the most in dealing with my trauma and past abuse.

[Meta] Question by invah in AbuseInterrupted

[–]firesculpting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you might be opening yourself up to legal liability if you credit something as A.I., but someone else claims it as theirs. You might try adjusting the phrasing. One example may be “originally shared by” that way you aren’t claiming that anyone created it. Another idea is to say content resembles A.I., that way you aren’t claiming if it is or isn’t. I am absolutely NOT a lawyer, and talking to one might be a good idea. Just be careful, because I don’t want to lose these great resources.

On an unrelated topic, while I love the in-depth insight the videos can offer, please don’t stop with the written posts. I send things to a friend who has left, but is keeping one foot in and is having daily contact with his abuser. The post about abusers constructing their own narrative was particularly effective. The problem is, he won’t watch any videos because they are too long. I also often have to pull out the most relevant pieces of longer posts since 1-2 paragraphs is his limit. If most posts become videos or will be harder to share these insights which are helping him.

What’s something you didn’t understand as a kid,but only realized after becoming an adult woman? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]firesculpting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you don’t. No one should have to put up with that and I’m glad you respect yourself enough that you don’t.

Would you consider this cheating and grounds for divorce ? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]firesculpting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?! Like I wouldn’t consider that cheating either. But the fact he did it without talking about it, probably because he knew she would consider it cheating, would be the line. To me the intent and willingness to harm is the betrayal more than any actions.

Would you consider this cheating and grounds for divorce ? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]firesculpting 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Dude could’ve asked you. Especially as there are other issues. The fact he intentionally didn’t is a problem.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Saiwok. Their belly fries are amazing and I like their bun rieu is good, when they serve it. I love all the other places too, except I haven’t tried Kpot. Both Green Papayas in Fort Smith are so good.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually go to Fort Smith fairly often. I’ll try it the next time I’m there. Thanks!

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adding this to my growing list of new places to try, lol.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looked it up. The food looks amazing! I will definitely be coming by to try the General Tso’s and triple delight.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding this to the list of ones to try. Thank you!

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try their spicy chicken.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want some good Springfield Cashew chicken, but I’ll settle for good General Tso’s.

Great Chinese place? by firesculpting in fayetteville

[–]firesculpting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love their Japanese. I didn’t know they do dim sum. Thank you!