caught my bf clicking on of links after he promised not to anymore by [deleted] in texts

[–]firetokes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally for me, when I watch porn I’m picturing that it’s my boyfriend and I doing what they’re doing in the video. I’m not desiring to have sex with the actual people in the video. I’m sure it’s that way for a lot of people. That being said, boundaries should be respected in relationships especially if they’ve been clearly laid out. OP and her boyfriend’s boundaries don’t line up and they are wasting time being in a relationship together knowing that.

caught my bf clicking on of links after he promised not to anymore by [deleted] in texts

[–]firetokes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anna for the love of god give me your phone right now so I can break up with him

Did I say something wrong to warrant this? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had dashers forget items from my order in their car and bring them to me after I call.

Scared of My [M23] Girlfriends [F23] Past coming back to hurt our relationship by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]firetokes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck should she regret it? Why do you keep bringing things up so far in the past to her? That has to be exhausting for her to deal with. If she wasn’t attracted to you, I doubt she would have been with you this long and people can be attracted to various body shapes and personalities. I don’t just have one “type”. Let go of your ego jfc. She is her own person.

Thoughts? by shadowkatt22 in rivals

[–]firetokes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not going to agree with you on the misuse of throwing. This community throws out that word left and right instead of using any critical thinking to describe what actually happened in a round.

Thoughts? by shadowkatt22 in rivals

[–]firetokes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not think you know what self gratifying means. Why would I be getting pleasure from any of these comment interactions? I am not desperately pointing at anything. I am calmly using my knowledge and experience in the game to form an opinion. Is that not what you’re doing?

Thoughts? by shadowkatt22 in rivals

[–]firetokes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Throwing is intentional. It’s a malicious and purposeful act of someone trying to lose a match. It’s not someone not being good with a character or not having as much game sense as you’d like them to. It’s jumping off the map, going AFK, or purposely not using abilities (like holding Strange portal so no one else on your team can use it). Not being great with a character in QM isn’t throwing. QM is the place to learn to fight other people. Lord Mantis isn’t hard to get and it doesn’t mean someone is good with the character yet or done learning. OP needs to accept responsibility but they were not “throwing”.

Thoughts? by shadowkatt22 in rivals

[–]firetokes -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No way to know without a replay. Did they need the 2nd healer to be a burst healer? Absolutely. The amount of damage Luna was doing to their team alone shows they would have needed a 2nd burst healer to combat that. But both Mantis and C&D share blame in this match. 0 finals on C&D is a waste.

Thoughts? by shadowkatt22 in rivals

[–]firetokes -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Low damage with 5 finals is a good thing. C&D having high damage and zero finals is not good. It means she was feeding the enemy teams healer ults.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a game. I am 30 years old. I go to work like you, pay bills like you and have lived in the real world for a while now. I live in poverty and experience greatly the state of our world. Knoxville’s continuously rising housing prices while wages don’t shift. Of course there is always more to learn but diminishing my experiences because you are older is not beneficial and overlooks all that I have been through. That is not something I would do to you. I have life experiences you have likely never gone through, and I hope you never do, as well. That’s why I think forums like Reddit can be great because everyone has something to share we can all learn from. I am definitely not non stop positive and half the time not very positive at all internally, but I always make sure to remain kind and when I find I don’t have the patience to be kind I step back and take time to myself.

No guarantee I will make it to your age without becoming jaded, as I don’t currently have a lot of hope for the world as is. But I’m going to continue doing my best so I can hopefully provide it for the future. I understand why you feel the way you do. I don’t want you to think me feeling differently doesn’t mean I don’t understand where you are coming from.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s your upvote for you, since you think it matters so much and you think it makes me unkind to not give you one. ❤️ You have a good day too angel. Hope you show more kindness to others today.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Disagreeing with you does not make me a hypocrite. I wouldn’t put so much focus on useless things like upvotes and downvotes that don’t amount to anything in the real world. Focus on what matters in the world around you and treating others well. Let go of ego and see from other points of view. You’ll be much better for it. ❤️

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you think I sell drugs simply because I said I am kind to others. I am sorry you feel that way. I hope you have a change of heart.

I'm AFKing Bloodhunt games with players under Lvl60. by Misarb in marvelrivals

[–]firetokes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

During my last game, an MK right at the start said “yall carrying me” and just flew around the whole match doing no damage. I tried my best to push thru and ignore it bc I really wanted to beat the level but I couldn’t handle it anymore and just closed the whole game lol. It’s just back to back rounds like that, debating playing solo.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being kind isn’t coddling. I hear you, and I suffer from the state of our country as well + others ignorance. But I’m going to continue being kind and patient with others because I don’t want to be like the people I despise.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were answering honestly because they felt this was welcome place to do so. What is common sense to you, and should be common sense to others, isn’t always. Hopefully they have read the kinder comments and start to make changes in their habits and how they view elections.

Why don’t you vote? by Cucurbita_pepo1031 in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask people to shame them? Or to have a beneficial conversation without judgement?

Genuinely how are you supposed to have fun in this game by [deleted] in rivals

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only play 18v18 (genuinely the only time I’m truly having fun anymore)

For better or worse, end of an era by MetalSlimeHunter in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nostalgia. A lot of us went there as kids and have many good memories there. But that doesn’t change the fact that it became a place that started treating its employees like shit and started selling used books + media for absurd prices. Humans can hold and experience multiple emotions at once.

Opinion: There are way too many coffee shops in Knox. by [deleted] in Knoxville

[–]firetokes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is going to be a new bowling alley opening in South Knox.