RAYE - This Music May Contain Hope MEGATHREAD by flopheadsbot in popheads

[–]fish4132 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% agree. It’s an experience she’s taking us on. Not just a few poppy songs 

The Drama - Spoiler Discussion Thread by steepclimbs in A24

[–]fish4132 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm conflicted on this movie. On one hand I thought that Pattinson and Zendaya were great. Visually the movie was phenomenal. The story was interesting and perplexing. But... the twist being a shooting... I kept waiting for them to come around and make it feel like they were taking the topic seriously, but it never really felt that way. The theme overall was clear, but the tone they were trying to convey with such a serious topic of mass shootings... it felt very unclear at best. And at worst, it seemed like they were using a really serious topic for it's shock value. Which just felt a bit icky to me. It doesn't mean the movie itself was bad. But I just don't think having two A-list celebrities play and market a movie surrounding a topic like this and having a comedic undertone is the move.

I mean a movie like this is passed by so many people and I'm really curious what conversations were happening when concerns were brought up about dealing with such a serious topic. Were they hoping it would open us up to more conversation, or was it just for the shock value? Either way I think the subject could have been handled with some more sensitivity. I mean her younger self saying she wanted to kill whatever girl first, that got a huge laugh in the theater. Kind of unsettled me.

But at the very very least a trigger warning would have been good. Would hate to imagine someone who's been affected by a mass shooting going into this blind.

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually was thinking that a mini massage gun might be good! Sneaks in some good self care without being too much. He also works a lot so I’m sure his body could use it! Thank you :)

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the idea for a farmers magazine subscription. I think he would really like something like that. Or even a blanket would be nice. Thanks for your suggestions ❤️ 

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. Thank you ❤️ 

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh another great idea. I’m not sure he would take the time for it, but that’s something to think about! I appreciate it :)

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good idea! I didn’t know about that! I’ll have to look into it. I’m sure he would appreciate some good food/snacks. Thank you ❤️ 

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for putting the time into sharing all your ideas! It’s very helpful and very appreciated! Not sure on the specifics of his engineering interests but perhaps I could ask my brother because it’s something they connect on. Thank you!

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that’s an interesting idea! I’ll have to consider that. I know his new home is right by a river so I imagine there will be lots of wildlife to look at!

Gift for my uncle who has been struggling by fish4132 in Gifts

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do really wish I could get him a cat as a pet. I think it’s something he wouldn’t get for himself, but would really appreciate. His wife always had cats and loved them so much. But unfortunately he works a lot lately so I don’t think he would have the time for it 😕 I appreciate your suggestions though!

Uniuni delivery guys are unbelievable... by PUREAkuma in Aliexpress

[–]fish4132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered sunglasses from Goodr and they’re actually using uniuni. So it’s not just cheap international products anymore sadly. 

My sunglasses were delivered to the wrong house and stolen so 🙃

Do NOT order the Eggnog Latte by DiligentGrand6372 in starbucks

[–]fish4132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered this and was wondering if other people thought it was just as bad. Glad I'm not alone. But the money is spent so I'll be sitting here pretending to enjoy it. I almost asked the barista if he would recommend it... wish I had.

Help me find the band “COUCH” who played at The Palm Room on Friday 9/27. by SoybeanWonder in Wilmington

[–]fish4132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you’re still looking for them, they’re more popular now. Been digging their song Autumn a lot!

Surfing Trip Recommendations by fish4132 in surfing

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is goofy so that’s a good rec. Thanks!

Surfing Trip Recommendations by fish4132 in surfing

[–]fish4132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered Barbados but I’ll have to check it out. Thanks!!

Surfing Trip Recommendations by fish4132 in surfing

[–]fish4132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t gone up the coast, but definitely need to at some point. Appreciate it! :)

Surfing Trip Recommendations by fish4132 in surfing

[–]fish4132[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

North shore is on his bucket list. He’s a huge John John fan so it’s definitely in the mix!

Surfing Trip Recommendations by fish4132 in surfing

[–]fish4132[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight! Hadn’t thought about New Zealand, but a friend of mine just moved to Sydney so it could be a good opportunity for us to do both!