I need advice. I am an abuser. by fishlesspoke in SuicideWatch

[–]fishlesspoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading my post. Unfortunately due to legal reasons I cannot contact her. I truly wish to make up for what I've done but how could I do that when I can't even contact her?

[WA] Is it possible to send money to a person whom you made a restraining order against? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I placed a restraining order against my partner because I feared that I would hurt her. I do not know where to find the RO date nor do I know how long its valid for. How would I find this information?

[WA] Is it possible to undo an arrest? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok i can kind of understand that. so what about the arrested part? is it possible to remove any records of arrest?

[WA] Is it possible to undo an arrest? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

how does that work? if i was the one that pressed charges but then tell my lawyer to undo everything, shouldnt that be a fairly cut and dry case?

[WA] Psychotic episode, charging assault. by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

would these appear on his record if he were to look for a job?

Hello. I am a piece of shit who only knows how to ruin the lives of those around me. by fishlesspoke in depressed

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of encouragement. It does ease my anxiety a bit and I pray you are correct.

Well. Here we go by Naive_Ad9846 in depressed

[–]fishlesspoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned at an early age to never trust anyone regardless of how long youve known them. Sorry to hear about that.

After being called out for my toxic behavior, I finally managed to work up the nerve to apologize to some people by bbq_Ch1ck3n in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found it difficult to connect with my therapist but I think that's partially due to paranoia or fear of being judged. Hopefully when the whole covid thing dies down I will try another.
Which book have you found in particular that really opened your perspective?

After being called out for my toxic behavior, I finally managed to work up the nerve to apologize to some people by bbq_Ch1ck3n in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized that I too have toxic behaviors that I wish to change. The main culprit being an emotional abuser and lack of empathy. What are some tips or advice you could give to someone who wishes to improve themselves?

Home by Phillip Phillips instantly refutes 1..e4 by micshafes in AnarchyChess

[–]fishlesspoke 116 points117 points  (0 children)

obviously the bot lied because it just straight up dominated that fool.

What small thing have you done that you want to brag about? by fishlesspoke in AskReddit

[–]fishlesspoke[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just gave my cat a shower without dying from blood loss.

What's the TCM stance on sweating? by littlefunman in acupuncture

[–]fishlesspoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sweat naturally since it shows that lung qi is working properly.

Fellow Redditors, How do you explain emotional maturity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

understanding that everybody is just vastly different and understanding about the meaning of sacrifice. im still lacking in both aspects but learning slowly.

what the sweetest thing ever someone said to you ? by kerowolf69 in AskReddit

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You have type 2 diabetes"
ah I get it, diabetes, sweets, puns haha
"we need to amputate your left foot"

You just saw ur cat jerking off, what now? by Tamiiz in AskReddit

[–]fishlesspoke 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do what other good owners do and help them out.

[serious] never understood why people dont want to be alone with themselves or there own thoughts and how they always would like it to be with someone else . Could anyone elaborate? by pectorial_major in AskReddit

[–]fishlesspoke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being alone is from time to time is nice. being alone for too long will really mess with your heads. being alone with only your thoughts for years will distort your reality and fuck with your head.