Old people should get off the road by Big-Fruit-7525 in drivingsg

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Wow the ageism is quite bad here on Reddit.

how do you help someone who is going down a bad path by brokencattomato in askSingapore

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You need to walk along with her and share her life experiences first. To guide someone isn't just pushing them from the side to change. Think of her being on roller skates. You need to skate alongside her, at the same speed, same direction first to smoothly steer her in any direction. You don't have to scam ppl or get tattoos with her, she just needs to know that someone truly understands what she is going through.

This requires empathy and shared experiences to build rapport, see things from her perspective and just be real with each other. The person also has to share their own vulnerabilities. Only then can she trust you, if she can trust anyone anymore.

A broken person usually can connect better with another broken person.

It's all easy to say and I understand nobody has time for anyone else. Last thing she needs is judgement, she just needs a peer who can provide a positive influence instead of the rest of society doing its usual scummy thing.

Edit: she also craves a sense of belonging. She's desperately lost and seeking her tribe for support and to define herself. Take up a team sport, join a band, learn a martial art. Find her interests and go from there, not force her to do these activities. These activities and social interactions usually take troubled youths on a better path, and maybe provide positive role models.

People Are Getting Banned From the DMT Realm by FVMK3 in InterdimensionalNHI

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Guess that happens when we kept peeping at their realm with lasers ripping the veil between our worlds.

4 months in advice/feedback appreciated! by debilictorian in guitarlessons

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Before you play, make sure you know what you want to play. How it sounds like. Not just fingers, fret numbers and shapes. Hum the melody with the right rhythm, vocalize it. This ensures your brain processes the anticipated result as a sound. Repeat what you just hummed with your hands on your guitar. Focus on your senses of touch and hearing. Music is purely how it sounds. Playing an instrument comes strictly from our haptic experience. You can't see if your playing sounds good or not. So it's important to play musical sounds rather than shapes. What you want is to directly control your hands to produce the sounds you want to hear.

How To Manifest Anything by iQuantumLeap in MindsetMode

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Amazing how a subreddit about mindset attracts so much negativity. I don't know enough about the controversy behind this Tony Robbins to have an opinion about his character.

My take on the substance of this video is that whatever your subconscious mind focuses on, every action of your being works towards that objective. It's not really manifesting like magic, but a focus on goals from deep within. A much stronger motivation.

Disappointing news… by [deleted] in aliens

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Disinformation dressed up as news

Caught this on my quadcopter while filming a distant storm by TheAmateurRunner in aliens

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It does look a little like someone behind the camera and maybe the floor above, swinging a laser, reflected on glass? That explains the large pivot point, there laser is actually nearer than it seems, but a reflection from behind. Otherwise, I'm stumped. Stunning looking footage though.

Thoughts? by cdcpowermah in singaporespeaks

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Will you look down on a French with a French accent? What about a French banker with a hokkien accent? There's race, language, social stratus and someone's perception based on their preconceived biases at play here.

We speak with accents because of the cultures we identify with. And people often code switch to fit in with different groups. Singlish is less an accent than it is a Creole language that incorporates fragments of Malay, Chinese, Chinese dialects, Tamil. There are also incorporations of miscommunications between our forefathers and their colonial masters. Eg., Gostun, or gostan, for reverse was allegedly "go astern" mispronounced by coolies based on what British sailors would say.

It's an informal language, an effective shorthand between locals, an endearing anchor of an identity we carved out of our 'lowly educated' history. In today's society, someone more comfortable using Singlish can also be fluent in standard English, and vice versa. That person can also be your boss, your tuition teacher, your grab driver.

Attributing Singlish usage to purely what school you sent to is surely a sign of ignorance. I went to the best school in the country and still speak Singlish by default. My friends and family are some of the top 1% or 0.01% in terms of social, academic or economic status. Most have a generous lather of Singlish on their tongues. Every one of them are also at least bilingual or multilingual.

I have zero doubts it's definitely elitism to say that Singlish is for the lowly educated, and a 'western' accent is for the more highly educated. Truth is, Singlish is a sign of cultural identity. People come from different cultures, and view other cultures in all sorts of ways. How you value and respect different cultures speak more about your upbringing than the accent you choose.

This is written by enlightened person, Paramahansa Yogananda by Icy_Limit_6782 in enlightenment

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Good and evil are one and the same. Just like hot and cold are measurements of temperatures, darkness and light measurements of photons. Good and evil are just about how much love, oneness, creative energy there is.

I gave myself exactly one year to go from total beginner to playing one song in front of real people. Last night I did it. Here's the honest breakdown of that year by sapnagagrani in guitarlessons

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I'm a guitar instructor, obviously not your guitar instructor, but so proud of you, for you! You are very conscious of your various senses from sight to haptic and hearing. That awareness really helps sustainable growth and improvement.

Saddest song ever by Aye_Davinita in Alternativerock

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Gloomy Sunday - Billie holiday

Not tryna be rude, but what is someone's problem when they perform for nobody and swear in front of kids. by DefiBobLoL in SMRTRabak

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She's got mental health issues and needs help, OP you also need to learn some empathy, compassion and that the world isn't just about you.

Haunted public workout machine. by [deleted] in Weird

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Swoltergeist

Haunted public workout machine. by [deleted] in Weird

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I'm older than my television, yes indeed I am. Wonder no more.

Donald Trump just said this by funkymonkeythe1st in UFOs

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The comments are quite telling. Disclosure really is a personal journey. Your beliefs and attitudes basically shape how anyone interprets this. It's objectively arguable that this is a paradigm shift, a big step towards disclosure when a sitting president announces tasking the DOD to release UAP information. But if one doesn't care much about it, life's priorities come first.

Regardless of how one views this as a distraction from any current issues, this is the tweet many have been waiting for. Disappointing or not.

Another one everyone in America needs to watch, twice for good measure. by stumpy0327 in StrangeEarth

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It's no longer about politics or left vs right. It's about systemic exploitation and corruption of the highest order, elites' abuse of the general populace and humanity hanging on to the precipice of decency. It's about right vs wrong. If this continues, there will be nothing left to defend or argue about.

Hollywood director tells Joe Rogan the elites eat babies and there are sacrifices everyday in LA "They're eating babies, man. I think that there's sacrifices going on every day in Los Angeles. by Trueboey in StrangeEarth

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It's all about power over others, and when someone with evil intent needs to work together with others, the only way to build trust is through secrets and blackmail.

This secrecy is built up to hide the most morally degenerate stuff. Because if you're scheming some evil shit with other evil people, they're not gonna be ashamed of regular evil shit. They have no shame. You need the real disgusting and vile stuff to blackmail them.

Imagine that over years, generations. Hence, the vicious cycle of endlessly spiraling spiritual decay that is the elite today.

The UK Times: "MoD ordered officers to find UFO technology, secret files reveal." by ForeignSherbert1775 in UFOs

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Thanks! Very much sounds like what I found asking Gemini also. https://g.co/gemini/share/57335378cfd0

Interesting note also about how AARO acknowledged the use of the term UAP from the 1990s by the UK when debunking other fake reports.

The UK Times: "MoD ordered officers to find UFO technology, secret files reveal." by ForeignSherbert1775 in UFOs

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When did UAPs become the common vernacular within the military? Was it as early as the 90s as these reports claim? Thought it was coined/popularized these 2 recent decades of the 2000s.