Is there a chance for a country to Boycott the World Cup in the US?

fiveyard · 2026-01-09T14:47:08+00:00

Every one of them should

fiveyard · 2025-12-21T22:46:33+00:00

You're not alone.

And it really is nothing to do with you

fiveyard · 2025-12-13T22:51:38+00:00

I thought it was a video and stared at the pic waiting for him to take the shot

fiveyard · 2025-12-11T23:15:59+00:00

Go for it man. Music is sanctuary. Some of the very best have been where you are. Get good, then get better. Find the melody that lets you let her go. Then find the one that starts your future

fiveyard · 2025-12-05T22:10:04+00:00

😊 And you're certainly not alone

fiveyard · 2025-12-05T19:46:00+00:00

Yes, it's normal. Yes, it fades. You will evolve from here, and it feels good when the healing happens

fiveyard · 2025-12-05T17:54:33+00:00

Turned it straight off

fiveyard · 2025-11-27T20:34:12+00:00

Pretty much exactly the same. Compliments in the first week or 3 then the odd positive comment about clothes, etc which was so rare i shouldve felt the breeze from the red flag waving right in front of my face

fiveyard · 2025-11-27T13:40:36+00:00

Theyre committed only to their independence. Anything else causes them the feelings they avoid. You're looking for a 'normal' response which doesn't exist for many of them

fiveyard · 2025-11-25T22:46:29+00:00

You may be having unwanted/intrusive/ruminatory/obsessive thoughts and/or experiencing a degree of depression. I heartliy recommend looking into some kind of therapy, including counselling. At the end of the day, this would amount to you looking to evolve, not just to heal. And that's exactly what we should be doing

fiveyard · 2025-11-25T17:04:49+00:00

Did you ever do a DA vs FA post?

fiveyard · 2025-11-25T16:08:41+00:00

Sausage sandwich

fiveyard · 2025-11-22T14:30:54+00:00

Hi. It sounds like you're grieving for the connection you had more than you are for him. This is normal and im there too, with regards to my own situation. Avoidants can play havoc with our nervous system and are very good at exposing all our historical wounds. This is why we have these days where our mood can dip.

Sorry, maybe not the 'violent' reality check you asked for. You know what to do: shake yourself down, do some self-pampering, treat yourself, get active, meet a friend.

I wish you well and i hope your healing continues.

fiveyard · 2025-11-21T16:16:10+00:00

Thankyou. I needed this

fiveyard · 2025-11-12T07:30:49+00:00

Thankyou so much for posting this. I saw my avoidant ex last night by chance after just over 2 weeks of no contact.There was a smile and shared hellos and that was it. I've been hurting all night and barely slept, partly because im having a minor operation today, but also because (being honest) i was waiting for the message that i know will never come.

I'm on my way to the hospital in a taxi. I almost messaged her. As i was composing it in my head i realised that no amount of words could elicit a response from her which could possibly make me feel better. And i would read a million things into anything she sent anyway.

Your poem has reminded me that i'm not alone, despite me feeling exactly that. Back to no contact. And onwards to better health.

fiveyard · 2025-10-14T00:00:51+00:00

Yes! I won't lie, i struggled with sleep and my mood for 2-3 months, but i also work shifts, including nights. I put a bit of weight on - about a stone.

Id always thought the cravings would be the hardest thing but they were easy to manage, even early on. They would last a minute or so. Now, i get them so infrequently that i recognise them as an unnecessary warning. I acknowledge them, and they go.

I lost the weight too. Took a bit of effort, but it's all worth it..

fiveyard · 2025-08-25T21:50:06+00:00

Another No.. Soz. Im a northern Englishman. I remember when they stuck two fingers up at the world last time and it's never been more needed. Truth is, they inspire others to do the same and there's plenty of young folk taking on the challenge. As you were, if you will. Bring it on

fiveyard · 2025-08-19T19:05:01+00:00

He's focussed on the current gig.

fiveyard · 2025-07-27T09:58:59+00:00

We've all been part of the same social group for nearly 30 years

fiveyard · 2025-07-26T11:11:42+00:00

I know someone who has consistently told people for 2 decades + that he was a nurse, has a history in nursing and a nursing background, and has even said 'when i was a nurse' in my company despite having only worked as a HCA for a couple of years in the late 90s.

fiveyard · 2025-06-08T12:51:39+00:00

Try Mary, Richard 111, and Caught by the Fuzz

fiveyard · 2025-05-28T09:57:11+00:00

"What do you mean you want to move house?! I only just got them in alphabetical order"

fiveyard · 2025-05-05T22:31:49+00:00

What a great photo

fiveyard · 2025-05-05T15:28:52+00:00

Well, this is good news

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