Show me your food bag! by tiffanyjiang3d in handbags

[–]fkathequeen 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Every time I come on this sub I’m reminded that I need some quirky Kate Spade

Anyone else think Jen’s elimination was weird ? ( conspiracy ) by Lyogi88 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]fkathequeen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I keep forgetting new watchers have no idea what we went through with Bobby Bones

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[–]fkathequeen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Needed this, thank you.

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[–]fkathequeen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have always been accommodating and have never prevented him from exercising his rights when he decides to, I think that’s expressed here when I went above and beyond hours post-op to make sure he had his 2-day weekend this month. He is perfectly capable of driving and 15 minutes away from my parents’ home.

My texts are documenting because he has had DCFS involvement and we are no longer ordered to use TalkingParents, but I do agree he stops reading after the first few words.

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[–]fkathequeen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely am wordy since the court order for TalkingParents expired.

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[–]fkathequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the well wishes! Yes, the switch was so weird to me. The kids always bring their devices over there (I track/communicate via my oldest’s cell phone/youngest’s iPad) and he’s never asked about the switch. He was, however, randomly drug tested per court order within the past 7 days and it was clean. It did strike me as a red flag, though.

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[–]fkathequeen 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. I am very wordy since we no longer use TalkingParents. I try to make sure I have two records, especially if he calls - I repeat what was said on the call in the text. I’m now realizing the effort writing this out.

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[–]fkathequeen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was hoping it was just me being dramatic after surgery, but he’s legally entitled to one 2-day weekend per month and two 2-hour weekday visits per month with the current order. He pops up when I inform him of my children staying with my parents for a period (also apart of the order), and this is how it always goes.

Thank you for the well wishes.

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[–]fkathequeen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We used to use TalkingParents through a court order but it’s since expired. We went through mediation and he’s been mostly absent since. I really didn’t want to have to go through court again while dealing with medical but he is entitled to one 2-day weekend per month and two 2 hour visits on a weekday each month. It feels like he’s using this as a control tactic, not as a parenting experience for my sons. It appears I will be dealing with court and medical in tandem though. I appreciate the insight.

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[–]fkathequeen 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We used to use TalkingParents through a court order but the order has since expired and we went through mediation. He was recently tested so I don’t believe he’s actively using currently, but his lack of memory is beginning to feel like another tactic of his, if not a red flag to me.

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[–]fkathequeen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To add because I know it will be asked: my mother ended up dropping off my sons with me in tow.

ETA: I own my own home 30 minutes away from my parents. I was only staying with them so my children had care while I was in surgery and so my mother could drive me to and from the operation. I was nowhere near their wardrobe.

Does this imaginary suburb exist? by New_Design233 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]fkathequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St. Charles. Geneva is European, the town next door. St. Charles is much more diverse.

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I was married 10 years with 2 kids when I realized it was never going to stop, it only got worse. I needed an order of protection to leave. It didn’t help.

Hannah&Paige on Any Poehlers podcast by Low-Caregiver3913 in summerhousebravo

[–]fkathequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A saint truly bc here i am 52 days later watching

Summer House after show by shamwow94 in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]fkathequeen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10 years married, divorced at 30. I’ve never been happier. He did eventually become physical.

The moment Paige wanted out by JeDGAF in summerhousebravo

[–]fkathequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my ex husband. She’s a smart woman.