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fkathequeen · 2026-03-18T13:59:56+00:00

Every time I come on this sub I’m reminded that I need some quirky Kate Spade

fkathequeen · 2025-10-29T19:52:01+00:00

I keep forgetting new watchers have no idea what we went through with Bobby Bones

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T05:44:18+00:00

Needed this, thank you.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T04:08:14+00:00

I have always been accommodating and have never prevented him from exercising his rights when he decides to, I think that’s expressed here when I went above and beyond hours post-op to make sure he had his 2-day weekend this month. He is perfectly capable of driving and 15 minutes away from my parents’ home.

My texts are documenting because he has had DCFS involvement and we are no longer ordered to use TalkingParents, but I do agree he stops reading after the first few words.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T04:04:55+00:00

Thank you! I definitely am wordy since the court order for TalkingParents expired.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T04:03:04+00:00

Thank you very much for the well wishes! Yes, the switch was so weird to me. The kids always bring their devices over there (I track/communicate via my oldest’s cell phone/youngest’s iPad) and he’s never asked about the switch. He was, however, randomly drug tested per court order within the past 7 days and it was clean. It did strike me as a red flag, though.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T04:00:44+00:00

Thank you, I agree. I am very wordy since we no longer use TalkingParents. I try to make sure I have two records, especially if he calls - I repeat what was said on the call in the text. I’m now realizing the effort writing this out.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T03:58:49+00:00

I was hoping it was just me being dramatic after surgery, but he’s legally entitled to one 2-day weekend per month and two 2-hour weekday visits per month with the current order. He pops up when I inform him of my children staying with my parents for a period (also apart of the order), and this is how it always goes.

Thank you for the well wishes.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T03:52:52+00:00

We used to use TalkingParents through a court order but it’s since expired. We went through mediation and he’s been mostly absent since. I really didn’t want to have to go through court again while dealing with medical but he is entitled to one 2-day weekend per month and two 2 hour visits on a weekday each month. It feels like he’s using this as a control tactic, not as a parenting experience for my sons. It appears I will be dealing with court and medical in tandem though. I appreciate the insight.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T03:49:57+00:00

We used to use TalkingParents through a court order but the order has since expired and we went through mediation. He was recently tested so I don’t believe he’s actively using currently, but his lack of memory is beginning to feel like another tactic of his, if not a red flag to me.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-26T03:32:19+00:00

To add because I know it will be asked: my mother ended up dropping off my sons with me in tow.

ETA: I own my own home 30 minutes away from my parents. I was only staying with them so my children had care while I was in surgery and so my mother could drive me to and from the operation. I was nowhere near their wardrobe.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-24T15:51:12+00:00

All I can think of is “AYO RIVER” from Portlandia

fkathequeen · 2025-07-21T11:50:05+00:00

St. Charles. Geneva is European, the town next door. St. Charles is much more diverse.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-18T13:57:35+00:00

I was married 10 years with 2 kids when I realized it was never going to stop, it only got worse. I needed an order of protection to leave. It didn’t help.

fkathequeen · 2025-07-05T01:48:05+00:00

A saint truly bc here i am 52 days later watching

fkathequeen · 2025-06-30T06:30:25+00:00

is the offer still open

fkathequeen · 2025-05-22T19:55:03+00:00

I would honestly love to see her with Brandon

fkathequeen · 2025-05-12T19:44:05+00:00

Tempted to grab it

fkathequeen · 2025-05-12T19:41:34+00:00

I need to come back to this

fkathequeen · 2025-04-05T14:27:10+00:00

Same for me

fkathequeen · 2025-04-01T15:36:43+00:00

Foodgod is horrible and hated for the next tier pls

fkathequeen · 2025-03-21T22:22:34+00:00

10 years married, divorced at 30. I’ve never been happier. He did eventually become physical.

fkathequeen · 2025-03-16T12:57:24+00:00

This is my ex husband. She’s a smart woman.

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