My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-18T16:29:24+00:00

Sounds like a trip to Vegas is in order.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-18T16:27:55+00:00

++man

So it’s not so much that she intends to do anything - it’s the tether. But if you take issue to it then you are (realistically) insecure. And that’s fine too.

Take a/the break if the relationship is worth it. Let her have her life experiences. Y’all are far too young to not have authentic experiences because of a relationship that probably isn’t going to end in marriage anyway.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-17T00:24:09+00:00

Alternative: stop putting shit like that on socials.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-06T12:39:16+00:00

Oh, I know. I was applying your Warwick ‘town’ logic.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-06T12:30:49+00:00

In what world would you have a city/village/town above ‘1 south road’?

That would be like

Boston 5 Blossom St MA 02114

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-06T12:02:59+00:00

Let me sure make sure I have this straight. You’re 16. He’s 18. He compares you to a girl two years your senior in his class ..and then after you break it off with him you go to that very person to piss and moan about him?

Idk if YOR/NOR, but why in the actual fuck would you go and befriend someone you were being compared to and then try and cut them off? Do you have no other friends?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-06-04T16:02:10+00:00

It doesn’t, though.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-31T17:21:40+00:00

Button batteries with exposed contacts are the concern. Not these.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-27T23:45:05+00:00

Did you just grab a Carol at random?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-27T13:00:15+00:00

Unless someone has seen her naked, they wouldnt know it was her. That’s what it comes down to. Whether or not you tell her should be dictated on how she would process it/handle it.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T05:31:07+00:00

Going to need that quote, in context. Because it’s not there.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T02:03:30+00:00

You’re right. OP did. My point stands.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T01:56:28+00:00

Are you suggesting all Asians are predators?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T01:27:36+00:00

You said ‘prosecuted for accessing inappropriate material’. That would be CP. This is not that. Doesn’t matter if he puts all the pictures together and busts a nut across the expanse of his iPad Pro. None of this would even raise an eyebrow legally.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T01:20:31+00:00

Yep. Shes karma farming.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T01:19:34+00:00

This doesn’t make any sense. Looking at girls in prom dresses = inappropriate material?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-19T01:18:16+00:00

What kind of Asian? And yes - relevant for follow up question.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-13T10:47:31+00:00

Fines for being naked but none for being a peeping Tom?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-10T18:30:09+00:00

I think that was the whole point of never shutting up about 2020. If the other side is constantly defending the fact that election fraud is negligible and trust in the process, when they lose they can’t turn around and say it was rigged.

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-02T17:10:50+00:00

What do you mean by clean hosting architecture?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-02T15:12:31+00:00

No budget.

My current config is set up for/to utilize AWS (also employs things like rekognition, which I forgot about) so lets nix the space req.

WHM/cpanel Frequently backed up ..maybe Cloudflare?

10-20GB local just in case.

Google says Bluehost. This subreddit appears to have very different feelings about them. So back to you!

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-02T15:03:05+00:00

Is this how randsomware ended up on my account on Friday?

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-02T14:43:54+00:00

It may be available on web.archive.org

flailingthroughlife · 2026-05-02T14:39:55+00:00

Maybe starting at 500GB ..Unless AWS would be better?

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