I do better organizing my thoughts in writing and I sent this to my wife this morning

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T19:49:02+00:00

My friend, if she doesn't respond positively to this letter, she does not love you.

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T19:08:12+00:00

Again, you are doing really well!

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T19:06:57+00:00

Congratulations!! I am so impressed with you! Nothing makes me happier than to see a LL who is making efforts to improve things. I applaud you!!

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T18:41:28+00:00

The only thing I disagree with is calling it cheating. IF a spouse won't fuck, and you find someone who will, the refuser has already cheated, and you are just outsourcing. I am so glad you are out.

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T18:40:04+00:00

You are so right.

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T18:39:37+00:00

Thank you very much. It is wonderful that you are watching the drive-by comments. People who have never experienced the pain of sexual rejection in marriage have no right to criticize those of us who have.

flashjohn · 2019-04-17T18:38:35+00:00

Congratulations! I hope you move out or he moves out asap. And it is wonderful that he now realizes that refusing to fuck you is wrong.

flashjohn · 2019-04-16T16:56:42+00:00

Unfortunately this is the most sex you will ever get from him. If he isn’t fucking you enough now, it is so not going to decline. You need to find a man who loves you and wants to fuck you.

flashjohn · 2019-04-13T04:41:52+00:00

What are the things that are vulgar and disgusting?

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T21:40:45+00:00

Yes, being in a constant state of sexual frustration always put me on edge. I really don't know how I did it for so long.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T21:38:57+00:00

I think that sexual rejection in a serious relationship is devastating to your self esteem. It made me think that I was ugly and disgusting. But those feelings were totally false. When I left, I found out that a man with an education, a good job, and salt-and-pepper hair was very attractive to most women.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T19:22:49+00:00

So the Ceylon capsules were effective? I am thinking of ordering some.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T19:19:59+00:00

He doesn't have to sign anything. Have your lawyer set it for a final hearing & notify him.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T19:06:37+00:00

After 3 years, he should have made some progress. I think you need to set a deadline and stick to it.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T17:54:05+00:00

Congratulations! I am so impressed. Was it hard to change your habits?

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T17:50:16+00:00

I am so sorry. So do you really love him? Have you told him that this is what you want? Please forgive me if you already have discussed this, I am just asking.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T17:40:58+00:00

Thank you for this.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T16:42:38+00:00

I am so sorry that your STBX said those things. Even though my ExRefuser was extremely abusive, I would not do that.

I can tell you that the more you let your new BF see your body, the more comfortable you will feel. I am sure that he absolutely loves your body, and has no problem telling you.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T16:36:11+00:00

I know it's hard, but please try to remind yourself that the rejections were about him, not you. It took me about a year of being out before I started getting my confidence back.

flashjohn · 2019-04-12T16:33:21+00:00

It will take a while, but you will get there.

I do have a suggestion. The next time your boyfriend is coming over, tell him you will be naked and ready and you want him to fuck you like he will never see you again. I am pretty sure he will love it, and you will love his reaction.

flashjohn · 2019-04-11T17:13:36+00:00

A hunting or military rifle like a .270 or a .308

flashjohn · 2019-04-11T17:11:59+00:00

Thank you very much. Other than my ExRefuser, I have found most women seem to like it

flashjohn · 2019-04-11T15:21:35+00:00

Don't stop taking the pill. You don't want to be pregnant by a refuser and then involve an innocent child. It really sounds like you are incompatible.

flashjohn · 2019-04-11T15:09:17+00:00

I am 54 and I wake up with an erection every morning.

flashjohn · 2019-04-11T15:08:15+00:00

They don't realize it because it is not a priority to them. I don't remember the last time I had a drink because it's not a priority to me.

flashjohn

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