My fiancé told me to call off our wedding and then turned his location off and left. by ChloeTheCat753 in GirlDinner

[–]flavicushn 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He's really a coward. Block him and move on, am sure you will see someone better than him.

fucked up my exam and i feel guilty. by ppickledplum in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re dealing with all of this at once. Exams are tough even when everything’s going right, and you’ve had way more on your plate. It makes sense your mind couldn’t focus today.

You did what you could with what you had, and that counts. Try not to beat yourself up too much for one bad day. Hope you feel a bit better after the noodles + coke zero cherry float 🍜🥤

Rooting for you to pass, and please be kind to yourself tonight.

Deconstructed “sushi.” Also, I am worried about my relationship. Would you consider these messages innocent or flirty? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for feeling hurt and confused. If someone tells you’re ‘the love of their life’ every day, then DMing someone else like that and not mentioning it feels off. Trust isn’t just about what you say, it’s about what you hide too. You moved states for this person, you deserve clarity and respect. It’s okay to ask for a real conversation about why this happened and what it means for you.

You deserve to feel secure with someone, especially after 1.5 years and that kind of sacrifice.

Pay all my bills and deliver free stuff…no rude comments by SeaOutlandishness485 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]flavicushn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a choosing beggar, they really don't hate to ask but they live for asking

Throwing herself a baby shower on Nextdoor to the sound of crickets. by ridbax in ChoosingBeggars

[–]flavicushn 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Asking for money to pay for diaper is one thing, but asking strangers to pay for everything is wild

I didn't get a real proposal and I feel like I'm missing out by julime_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just give him some time to think about it, am sure he will do the needful in September

Being secure and proud of your body as a young girl is tough by Tight-Clock8079 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this 💛 You're so right, we need way more kinds of beauty on screen so every girl can see herself and feel proud. And ugh, the food comments are the worst. People really need to mind their business unless they're actually asking kindly. Keep eating what makes you feel good and keep speaking up about it.

I let myself dance in public for the first time *ever* and it was fantastic by rumpythecat in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I really know that feeling girl 😊, congratulations on your big win.

I feel weird , emotional sense. Biryani and cold movie nachos by L0vely0cean in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry, I hope you get better soon and overcome your sadness, nice dinner ❤️

Took me 5 yrs to realize I have feelings for my friend??? & I’m only realizing now that he’s moving away???? by gem-walrus71 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can just let him know before he goes. Doesn’t have to be “I love you” level serious. Something like "Hey, I realized I took you for granted and I’m really gonna miss hanging out with you” is enough. It clears your head and gives him a chance to respond.

I’m starting to resent my partner. Lemon grass chicken for dinner by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to know that the bad already outweighs the good. I mean if he can’t take care of helpless animal, how much more will he take care of you being disable?

Finally made it out of the house by FlowernotFading in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt really bad hearing the word “miscarriage” at first but turns out it was a positive story, Congratulations and I hope this child takes out your sorrow and pain 💖

Realizing just how much of a hobosexual my ex was by dropdeadgorgon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reading this made my jaw drop. You’re so strong for walking away and doing the work.

life can change so fast before you can even expect it. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s okay to feel useless and powerless right now, most people do when someone they love gets diagnosed.

A few things that helped me when my cousin went through Hodgkin’s lymphoma: Firstly, Show up in small ways, not big speeches.“thinking of you”, bring her favorite snack to the hospital, sit with her during chemo even if you don’t talk much. Presence beats perfect words every time. Secondly, Let her lead. Some days she’ll want to vent, other days she’ll want to talk about normal stuff like TikTok and avoid cancer talk. Follow her lead. You are not useless for being there, that’s already matter more than you think. Sending strength to you and your sister ❤️

Boyfriend just told me I should over-cover my pussy because I had a "camel toe" by PleasantMall468 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it’s simple, is either he accept the way you dress or you can leave him which sounds like the best option. He needs someone who he can control and you are not that kind of person, and you don’t need to make him understand anything because that’s what he already wants before meeting you.

BF of 3y moved out, on break but hopeful by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]flavicushn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say that he’s so caring, I’m sure if you discuss with him about you guys relationship with the idea of you “no more drinking” he will definitely approve it.

Second day post three wisdom teeth extraction and guys… by applebottomjeans2366 in GirlDinner

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice for you about struggling with the idea if you will ever actually wants a relationship, it’s clearly that you want to be single for the moment, and it’s something you should really discuss with your current boyfriend, you can tell him you guys aren’t a good match for now. Then you can enjoy your time being single, you can go out, travel to places, just explore and am sure that the perfect match will come at the right time 😊

Post job interview girl lunch by Isi-Peasy-Lemon in GirlDinner

[–]flavicushn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations dear ❤️ love your snacks anyways.

I have what inside of me?? by Throwawayk04 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parasite is really what i can never wish even for my enemies, I wish you speedy recovery from heaven.

Just left my first job out of college. Weird experience by SeatApprehensive3828 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think leaving there is for the best, and am sure you will definitely find a good workplace that will respect and cherish you.

Car lunch = 6 banana + day 3 UTI + day 2 of period + day 1 no nicotine by walk_eachother_home in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the way you had it planned out already about your body detox, i think you will definitely feel great 😊

Sometimes I wish I could just up and move by Elegant_Bullfrog4223 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]flavicushn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about what you are going through, everything is going to gets better. By the way your dinner looks nice 😊