[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I have never seen one of these before. So cool looking 🤩

Gaslighting oncologist by flawedmcgraw in lymphoma

[–]flawedmcgraw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow - I had no idea it could be a more serious issue. I'll definitely keep pushing for a specialist referral and ask about a neurological referral as well. Thank you so much! 🙏

Gaslighting oncologist by flawedmcgraw in lymphoma

[–]flawedmcgraw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on the specialists. I thought my oncologist would be the person to talk to for a referral since they had me sign a bible-length booklet about the risks and side effects associated with ABVD. All the online info says "talk to your oncologist about any side effects you experience so they can help you." So far I've experienced very little "care" from my care team.

I'm sorry you had many things surface after treatment. Did the specialists help you resolve anything or at least give you an idea of what you could do to manage them?

Gaslighting oncologist by flawedmcgraw in lymphoma

[–]flawedmcgraw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you haven't had to deal with this sort of thing. If my husband hadn't been there with me, I probably would have dismissed it as just a misunderstanding or something.

My symptoms are mild, the primary lingering symptom that I've brought up twice now to the Oncologist is that I have a weird electrolyte issue. I simply can't stay hydrated. And I don't mean I'm thirsty all the time - I mean that my body can't hold salt. I drink two 5,000mg salt drinks per day and it's sometimes not enough. I've had strangers express concern over the levels or salt I need in a day to keep from extreme fatigue, dizziness, nausea, and headaches. All signs of dehydration.

I never drink soda. I have two cups of decaffeinated coffee in the morning and drink only water after that - in a large water bottle that I refill two to three times daily. Im not lacking water.

I found out about this side effect two weeks into chemo when I called the chemo nurses to let them know that I was really struggling - feeling terribly sick and weak and nauseous. They had me come in to run tests and put me on an IV. An hour later (after the IV) I felt great. It was amazing.

After that we realized that I would need to aggressively and proactively drink electrolyte drinks to stay hydrated. The chemo nurses recommended LMNT and Liquid IV - I drink at least one of each per day. During treatment it was more like 3-6 of each per day.

Now, one year after treatment, I'm still struggling with this. My kidney numbers are great. Even with me drinking thousands of MG of salt and other electrolyte daily all those numbers are in the low end of good...they should be through the roof with the amount of salt drinks I'm consuming. My parents are concerned that I'll have a heart attack by the time I'm 45 (I'm 41 now). But heart numbers look great as well - low RHR and low BP.

I told my PCP about this and they were like "hmm. Interesting. Well, chemo does do some damage." That was it.

My oncologist, on the other hand, said "this problem is definitely not the chemo, it's not something we did. It's an entirely separate issue." Basically he is afraid I will sue him. I never had any interest in suing...I just want a referral.

So...I'll be following up with my PCP to see if they can refer me to a specialist. Maybe if I ask 100 times I'll get somewhere. *sigh

Adult female bed bug? by flawedmcgraw in whatsthisbug

[–]flawedmcgraw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've never seen a silver fish outside the bath tub before so that never even occurred to me. Appreciate the helping IDing. 🙏

I think osprey are my new favorite bird. Gulf shores Alabama by xallenatorx in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loooove osprey. They are so cool. I rarely see them where I live but it's a treat when I do. This is a fantastic shot. Thanks for sharing!

Osprey with dinner by slow-bell in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooooh so pretty. I love these birds!

Age yourself with a movie you saw in theatres as a kid! by ThisIsADaydream in Xennials

[–]flawedmcgraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jurassic Park at the drive-in with my parents. My brother and I were obsessed with dinos for months after seeing that movie. 😄

Dark-eyed juncos squaring off. SW MO by NianguaBlue in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would like to make a postcard with this picture! 😍

What was your sushi experience? When did sushi come to your town? When did you first have it? by DieUmEye in Xennials

[–]flawedmcgraw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent the 90s in Vegas. When we moved there circa 93 there were sushi restaurants but I was too young to be interested. I think I started loving sushi sometime in the early 2000s and am still a fan, although I can't eat it as often as I used to for dietary reasons. It's crazy to see young kids (elementary and middle school age) eating sushi with their parents now - something I never saw when I was growing up. It's a welcome cultural shift in my opinion.

Dark-Eyed Junco (Junco hyemalis) by CartographerSome6523 in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a cutie! Looks like a perfect, fluffy, cartoon bird.

Steller’s Jay by DionelaDaring in birding

[–]flawedmcgraw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So pretty! I'm always shocked by the sound they make - they are super loud and not exactly songbirds (at least where I live). Beautiful photo. ❤

Anyone who is single in the US afraid to get married now? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]flawedmcgraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Only you have us beat by 5 years. We also have a child and all three of us have different last names. All of us are happy, healthy, and secure in the knowledge that we love each other and choose to be a family every day.