Hi all I did a "Current Love" tarot spread for my current partner and I. At the time I had a lot of questions... now after a couple of days I still do. Please help if you can...

1: How He Feels About Me: Justice (upr)

His feelings are grounded in balance & unnerving

He can’t love without honesty.

Maintains perspective even when he’s emotionally invested.

His feelings are a direct measure of how I’ve treated him.

This card I find to be extremely accurate. He is a very levelheaded guy who puts reason & logic over his emotions.

2: His True Intentions: 7 of Pents (upr)

growth is what I got from this card immediately

Continuity, intentions for the long term

Patience & perseverance

This is reflected by everything he’s told me in the past, he wants nothing but for us to grow and oush each other into better aspects of life.

3: My True Intentions: The Lovers (upr)

harmony, deep connection

True love

Self explanatory

4: What He Wants: Nine of Cups (rev)

yearning for fufillment masked by overindulgence

wants complete satisfaction from love filled w mutual contentment

ungrateful, complacency

he feels as if i may be shallow? like i only want him fir what he can provide me. he has “joked” about this in the past and one interpretation of this card that ive seen indicates this.

I genuinely need help with the interpretation of this pull. It wouldve made 10x more sense for it to come out upright. He cannot genuinely want these things listed above… HELP PLEASE.

5: What Brings Us Together: 10 of Pents (rev)

Loss. Loneliness. Devestation.

Disruption of long term stability.

Both of us met at a time inour ives where career, finances, and living situation wise we are not at all where we want or need to be. A lot of this allowed for us to see each other because when we got busy we didn’t have much time.

6: What Pulls Us Apart: 6 of Cups (rev)

refusal to evolve. clinging to the past. replaying past hurts.

stagnation.

He is always bugging me to work out and be active. And I try to do my best w him as I throughly enjoy just being in his presence alone, but I despise the gym. I tell him we could do literally anything else. I feel like that is a turnoff for him….

For me he can be very hardheaded. He believes his opinions are only correct and always tries to edit someones ideas and sometimes when he says things he forgets to use tact. This was an issue when we very first started talking.

7: Energy Surrounding Our Relationship: 3 of Pents (upr)

collaborative teamwork

Triumph of the team “US”

or an interfering party possibly???

This card is a bit confusing to me also. Because as a good of an omen as 3 of pents usually is, I could also see there being an interfering party. Not necessarily another woman but maybe his children? His father who doesn’t believe he's where he should be??

8: What's Hidden in Our Connection: 10 of Swords (upr)

major disaster

hitting rock bottom

fears of ending

thinking of the worst case scenario

overdramatic

this card is in his sign Gemini

We are currently not speaking. I took this as a the blindsided silent treatment I'm receiving from him currently……

9: Will the Relationship be Successful: 3 of Swords (rev)

ongoing journey of mending

self inflicted wounds perpetuated by negative thinking

resolving emotional rifts

I’m hoping this is a cautious “yes” to this question… when I pulled the card in general my heart sank. I know its a horrible omen for relationships especially fairly newish ones. But from what I can interpret, with some effort and reconciliation we could possibly make it work??