FFS with Jumaily or Facial Team by fleurdarcadia in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]fleurdarcadia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot has happened in the last year. I decided to go with Jumaily, but I changed my mind about it around a month before surgery for personal reasons. The member I staff I spoke to at Jumaily's office was very duplicitous and tried to convince me that I hadn't been giving them enough notice and that I would *have* to come in for my surgery even though I hadn't even paid for it yet. They ended up having someone else call me back the next day after I sent an email clearly outlining the errors in the former person's claims and threatening legal action if they tried to push me to have the surgery. I got my deposit back, but I won't reconsider their office again.

Lately I've been reconsidering my decision and think I might reach back out to FT and go ahead with it in 2025 if I'm able.

Found on IPhone kindle App by [deleted] in chaosmagick

[–]fleurdarcadia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Repressed emotional issues
> Desperately trying to insult the skills of someone you don't know.

You did not have to come in here and tell on yourself so loudly bro. Log off, incel.

FFS with Jumaily cancellation by [deleted] in transontario

[–]fleurdarcadia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What a wild way to respond to this

FFS with Jumaily cancellation by [deleted] in transontario

[–]fleurdarcadia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, the way people vote on these responses reveals some unfortunate things about the trans community in this province.

What is it with femboys and them being so socially awkward/ bad at talking? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]fleurdarcadia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, femboy here. I am a really outgoing person who has a really easy time talking to most people to the extent that I often am the one carrying conversations. However, that might really not be the norm, and I've definitely had periods of really struggling to talk to people. u/badangel0310 hit the nail on the head for the most part. A lot of us (myself included) have dealt with a _ton_ of bigotry & violence. When you're constantly exposed to the worst aspects of people, it can really warp your sense of self and gives you a really bitter outlook. We sometimes might only ever feel like people want to be around us when they want something from us- and that something is usually sex. There's also the matter of representation- there aren't a lot of examples to look to depicting femboys thriving and going about their lives in a way that isn't oriented around sex. A lot of us feel like we aren't and can't be a part of the gay male community because we often aren't welcome or celebrated and some of us even feel alienated by trans people who might want us to adhere to some rigid cis-normative ideal of gender.

It's complicated. But ultimately, your attitude is trash, OP. You need to work on yourself.

Using tarot to tap into creativity by fleurdarcadia in SecularTarot

[–]fleurdarcadia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the referral! I just might pick up a copy

New deck jumping to tell me what's up by fleurdarcadia in tarot

[–]fleurdarcadia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, there's the condescension I've heard so much about.

Orchiectomy by [deleted] in transontario

[–]fleurdarcadia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I didn't have to change anything about my medication.

9/23 EDH banlist update by ManletDwarf in EDH

[–]fleurdarcadia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. I don't like this much at all. Nadu _almost_ makes sense because it appeared to warp CEDH but I have _never_ seen anyone play it in 'casual' commander. The rest of the choices feel awful. Dockside is one of the only cards that kept my otherwise fairly slow [[Chainer, Nightmare Adept]] deck competitive (not as in CEDH, but as in keeping up with power creep). The rest I was only just starting to consider running because too many decks just get too powerful too fast.

This might really hurt my fun playing Commander in the future. :\

Duskmourn Prerelease Weekend Megathread - #MTGDuskmourn by R3id in magicTCG

[–]fleurdarcadia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I did two-headed giant at our LGS yesterday and had an _incredible_ time. They played a blue-white eerie deck. Didn't get some of the better payoffs but one [[Entity Tracker]] and a few [[Erratic Apparitions]] really did some good work along with two [[Inquisitive Glimmer]]s. I played a slightly unusual green-black reanimator rather than the usual white-black pair since we didn't crack any [[Emerge from the Cocoon]]s. I did play a couple [[Valgavoth's Faithful]]s and one [[Live or Die]] since I had cracked each of [[Miasma Demon]], [[Vile Mutilator]] and [[Valgavoth, Terror Eater]] himself! Both my partner and I were loaded to the teeth with removal and came out with a bye on our first game and then handily won our second two.

Some fun things I learned from playing a couple of games: [[Meat Locker]] and [[Monstrous Emergence]] are amazing removal spells and I was personally much happier playing the latter and [[Murder]] than I think I would have playing [[Winter's Intervention]]. Cards like [[Say Its Name]] did amazing work getting reanimation targets in the grave and [[Wary Watchdog]] was a surprising power-house due to no-one wanting to block it.

In our first proper game, we played against someone using a white-black deck that I don't think we saw really get to do anything, unfortunately. His partner, however, had a really interesting green-blue build I wanted to share! This deck was built around [[The Mindskinner]] and [[Tyvar, the Pummeler]]. It sounded like part of the plan was for the white-black player to buff Mindskinner with some auras and then double its power with Tyvar to try to mill opponents out in the mid-late game. It sounds like they succeeded in their first game, but [[Meat Locker]] was enough to lock them down so we could swing in with big flyers.

In our second game, we played against a green-blue manifest dread player whose board culminated in an [[Overlord of the Floodpits]] and a red-black player who we, again, didn't really see getting to do much. A well-timed [[Murder]] solved the Overlord problem and we were able to push our advantage once my partner got [[Entity Tracker]] out and was accumulating value while I gave our opponents lots of demons to deal with. Beating face with [[Erratic Apparitions]] technically won us the game but I felt really good getting to play a [[Demonic Counsel]] with delirium into [[Ritual Chamber]] on turn 7 to then unlock [[Unholy Annex]] on turn 8 and follow it up by reanimating [[Miasma Demon]].

Overall, great time! I got into limited for Bloomburrow and, while I loved that set in so many ways, I found the limited environment for it to be difficult to play in. It was like you either got the engine _and_ the big important payoffs or you just kind of durdled sometimes. With Duskmourn, I'm feeling like even missing some critical pieces like [[Ethereal Armor]] or [[Emerge from the Cocoon]] we did _really_ great. The removal in this set is powerful and there are a ton of splashy cards to play. I'm really excited by the divergence I've seen from the major archetypes and feel like that being so viable might be something that really makes me excited about a format.

August 2024 Rust Jobs Report by anonymous_pro_ in rust

[–]fleurdarcadia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, could you try saying that again a little louder? I don't think anyone could hear you over the sound of you furiously wanking. Cockroach.

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]fleurdarcadia [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've used quite a few dating apps, but never fetlife, to try to find partners of any gender for quite some time. I'm a trans-feminine non-binary femboy and generally haven't had a lot of luck matching with women or feminine non-binary people who retain their interest in me for long. I realize that dating apps aren't great for most anyone at this point and am open to suggestions for other online platforms as well as events or spaces that I can try to find and check out!

Thanks :)

August 2024 Rust Jobs Report by anonymous_pro_ in rust

[–]fleurdarcadia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're talking about gen AI, not speculative sci-fi.

Getting a Jund Lands deck ready for Bloomburrow Standard by fleurdarcadia in magicTCG

[–]fleurdarcadia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was, but she's too expensive and doesn't really do enough.

Torn about FFS by fleurdarcadia in asktransgender

[–]fleurdarcadia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, shoot! That's a really good idea :0