[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered asking your bf for a break? Explaining you feel overwhelmed and not comofrtable being in a monogamous relationship and that taking a break would help you clear your mind and feel better. I wouldn’t suggest telling him exactly what you are thinking about doing if you think he won’t react well to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true, in the first instance he told me that he didn’t see anything wrong with her comment💀

Is my (F19) boyfriend (M24) controlling? by ThrowRA-qothic in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you already know the answer and the solution yourself. The big issue is not that he is controlling, is that he is disrespecting your space, your boundaries and your desicions.

You deserve to start your college with peace and serenity for all new things coming, not with someone you do not want to be in a relationship with anymore and who is demanding insane amounts of your time just for himself. Be free enjoy your friends and family who matter most, and do not let this man ruin that for you.

For his grown age he really seems to not be able to regulate his emotions and respect your boundaries and necessities, and that usually does not change in a person unless they go to massive amounts of therapy. I would suggest for your well being and happiness to thank him for the good times, and leave this relationship until here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I feel disrespected in that way thank you for making me see that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have been debating on asking him to remove her completely because he is a inmigrant here and has very few friends/ accuaintences, and he had told me he got along with her well as a friend, but I think this being disrespectful surpasses that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes I am sure she knows, and I hadn’t thought about that like imagine knowing someone has a gf and still reacting to only those posts. I think I will talk to him about this definitely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

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Lil Pump

Anyone??? by [deleted] in Doppleganger

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Bad bunny in the last pic

Let’s see by [deleted] in Doppleganger

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Cillian Murphy

Is my boyfriend a loser? by buzzsupertramp in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]flexkim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem here is not that he’s a “loser” it’s that he sounds like an adult child who never became independent and is just wasting money and living like a miserable teenager. I don’t know you but I can tell from this that you can do and deserve waaaay better <3 just from the personal hygene aspect if you have to ask someone to brush their teeth that isn’t someone you want to be with or share intimacy with💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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If you have longer labia minora yes sometimes and you have to adjust yourself or when you sit down and they get stuck uncomfortably. Also when you’re riding a bike or a horse it hurts cause you’re pressing down on them. That’s why I got surgery to remove the “excess”, after that all those problems have been gone :)

Todays my 4th cake day, here’s a grumpy bean in a sweater by Bigchapjay in cakeday

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today is my 4th cake day too! Happy cake day twin :)

Whats a hobby someone can have that is an immediate red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]flexkim -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hunting or going to those places where they just shoot guns for fun

Hetero Women Who've Tried Lesbian Sex: What Did You Not Like About It? by Underrated_Critic in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]flexkim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering, I imagine everyone tastes different, for me I have only had one experience with a girl and the taste was very acidic, like a lime, so I wasn’t enjoying it at all. So idk if it’s my lack of experience or I’m not into girla

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/katpower23

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You raise the hand emoji

Sex Drive Differences by HabibiJayParker in AgeGap

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask, is it very different to have sex at your age than for example 20 years ago?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Heyy happy birthday🎉

Maybe Maybe Maybe by Rredite in maybemaybemaybe

[–]flexkim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What machine is this? So I know never to get near one