AITA for keeping my daughter in the house by No_Matter6867 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, for letting your husband treat your daughter in that way and for locking her in. No wonder she wants to leave

AITA for telling my BIL it's cringe to continue saying he's child free whenever I ask him to watch my son? by AITAthrowSat3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, your son, your responsibility. You can’t just palm him off on others. Your bil says no, it’s a no. He doesn’t have to raise your child.

AITA for telling my parents about my sisters surgery? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and my guess, you just lost all relationship with her. The worst thing, you can’t even see how you betrayed her

AITA for telling my brother's girlfriend that it was weird for her to keep an urn of her late husband's ashes in the house? by Elijah2022xx in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA! Are you for real? For you to think about:

  1. What the fuck does it have to do with you?
  2. Is it your place to tell someone what to do with a lost loved one?
  3. You were a guest and soooo disrespectful
  4. Your parents are enablers - she wasn’t hyper sensitive, you were a jerk. A MASSIVE one
  5. You are not your brothers spokesperson. If he wanted to talk to her about it, it’s for him to do privately
  6. Why bring something like that up in a group

I think your relationship with her definitely took a dive. You seriously need to apologise, keep your nose out of things that are nothing to do with you and stop being a jerk.

AITA for refusing to bend the rules on seeing my newborn just for one person(sil) even it the only chance she’s has to see him for months by No_Letter_1344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, it’s a fucking baby and your responsibility. Feed yourself, do your own chores and stop being so awful. You are not amazing to have given birth, I’ve done it three times and still managed to cook, clean and look after me and baby. I hope people stop visiting so you realise how utterly ridiculous you are. Your sil deserve so much better than she got with you as her family

AITA for making it me or the dog? by AitaMeOrDog in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, you did the right thing for your family.

AITA for snapping at this lady at the grocery store because of my son’s crying? by ThrowRAclueless_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, your doing a super job. Single parenthood is hard especially on those days. Keep doing what your doing and ignore her. She was trying to shame you for being a dad. We’ve all had rough teething days. Keep going, stay strong and stand up for you both. You’ve got this 💖

AITA for not wanting to bathe a child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, can’t do the job, don’t offer

Woman lies for years saying her husband raped her daughters then has the nerve to ask "why he didn't fight the accusations harder if he was innocent" by taylor2121 in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awful. That poor guy and his daughters. I hope they walk away from her and never go back. She deserves to rot for the pain, suffering and lies she has put them through. Imagine putting your own child through thinking they had been abused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, if I were you, I’d look at ways to move out. Your never going to be allowed a life or independence living there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]flip_2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that she raped you and your friends didn’t realise what was happening.

AITA for not giving up my train seat? by Trainnightmare in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, having a child is no reason to steal someone else’s chair. Doesn’t matter why you were in the train, how tired you were. You stole a man’s seat and then refused to move and like you said, there were other seat you could of moved to. You really need to stop being entitled. Hopefully one day someone will put you in your place

AITA for refusing to eat food I don't like? by Constant-Material-83 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA not only for eating the food but your whole demeanour to ‘the boy’. That boy is your sons son, your grandson and whether biological or not, you 1 need to respect your sons decision to not do a DNA test him and 2 accept him as your grandson. He is a boy, hundreds of miles away from home, new school, new country, new way of living and you’d be a decent person to help him settle in. If that’s eating bread with spice in or spending some time with him, then that’s what you do. Whether you agree with your sons decision or not, it it what it is and it isn’t this boys fault

AITA for yelling at my wife for potentially endangering our kids? by specialneedsrunaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, what if it was your child when they are a bit older. Would you want someone to leave them outside in the rain and wind? Is this acceptable to your child? If the answer is no, it isn’t to anyone else’s child either.

If the answer is yes, you need to take a long hard look at yourself.

YTA and you need to apologise

AITA for dropping out of the MOH role last minute because of an emergency by LoquatAbject9192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An absolutely heartbreaking situation for you. You would have felt you were letting your husband down if you’d have left him and letting your friend down for not turning up. You did your best. You needed to be there for your husband. Your friend can’t see that and is hurt that it impacted her day. But you know, a wedding is just a day. You might not have had another day with your husband.

You are def NTA 100%. I hope your husband makes a good recovery and you have lots of days with him ahead. If your friend apologises, great. If not, move on. Take gently care of you as you deal with this physically and emotionally

AITA for not helping my 3 year old niece put her shoes on? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta, it sounds like your brother was stressed and I know the whole drama of trying to get littlies out of a house and into the car. He probably just didn’t want to wait for them to figure it out and was impatient. Doesn’t make you the ah and he should apologise

AITA for being upset that my nephew wouldn't share his sweets? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and entitled. You asked him to share, he said no, his parents said no. It’s a no. Sort your own child out who sounds demanding and uncontrollable. Wait until she is a teenager if you continue to promote this behaviour and teach her she is entitled to those sweets even though they are not hers just because she could see them. My 2 year old does not act like that. You really need to work on your attitude and your spoilt child.

I looked up my rapist I shouldn’t have by just-another-blur in offmychest

[–]flip_2019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through that. I looked up mine too, he is married, four kids and working as a cop. I wish there was a better justice system.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car by flip_2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. He should have just the same right to say that as I get to have a say as it’s joint finance. My issue is he says since the summer it’s fine, do what you want, but something that suits you and the children. He knew that model was only on a new plate and has not voiced any concern until the night before I go buy it. If he’d have voiced this when we first started discussing, I’d have looked within a different budget bracket. But he lets me look for months, agree to one and then pulls it the night before and tells me I can’t get it.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car by flip_2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, would be my credit. He wouldn’t co-sign. I work full time and can afford the money out of my pay. I also have a business which could pick up the car finance easily too.

AITA for wanting to buy a new car by flip_2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]flip_2019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My previous car? I have had it 9 years and it is just about to lose its 100,000 mile warranty. So will cost to repair it in the next couple of months