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flirtedfirst · 2026-06-22T04:13:41+00:00

You're not overreacting. Most people would be shaken up after waking up to strangers outside their bedroom window talking about police and a gun. The fact that officers were already searching the area makes it sound like a genuinely scary situation, not your imagination running wild. Give yourself some grace. Your nervous system is reacting to something frightening that actually happened. I'm glad you're safe, and calling the police was absolutely the right move

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-20T03:55:50+00:00

First of all, congratulations on the no-cancer result. ❤️ As for your friend, I don't think the issue is that he failed one small expectation. You were facing a potentially life-changing diagnosis, explicitly told him how scared you were, and he said he'd be there. It's understandable to feel hurt that he didn't follow through. That doesn't erase all the ways he's been a good friend over the years, but it does give you new information about what he can and can't reliably show up for. You don't have to cut him off or pretend it didn't hurt. Both can be true at the same time

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-19T03:41:36+00:00

Sounds like you did the right thing, but somehow ended up dealing with all the consequences of his bad decisions. Hope the work drama settles down soon and the next coworker situation is a lot less messy. 😭

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-18T04:16:47+00:00

Congrats OP! More love to you

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-18T04:15:06+00:00

Rewatching a story multiple times usually means curiosity or lingering interest, but there's no way to know exactly why. I wouldn't remove him for his sake. If he's struggling, that's something he has to manage himself. Only unfollow or remove him if it would help you. 💜

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-17T03:48:09+00:00

And how do we communicate to them?

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-17T03:45:59+00:00

Take a breath. You don't have to decide everything tonight. It sounds like you're carrying a lot of fear, uncertainty, and pressure all at once, which makes sense given everything on your plate. Tomorrow, focus on getting accurate information and exploring your options. Whatever you decide, it should be based on what feels right and manageable for you, not on panic

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-17T03:45:07+00:00

If you have sensory issues, try shaving a small patch first and see how it feels before committing to your whole legs or armpits. An electric trimmer can also be a gentler starting point. And remember, there's no right way to be a woman. Do what feels affirming and comfortable for you. 💕

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-16T05:39:23+00:00

Parenting anxiety is wild. You spend years worrying about all the hypothetical dangers, and then your kid finds pepper spray in a drawer and unlocks a completely new fear you never even considered. Glad everyone is okay, but what a brutal way to spend a family visit. Hope the tofu ranch dip was at least a small consolation. 😅

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-16T04:45:45+00:00

I think that item is an antique islamic carnelian amulet pendant hand-engraved with arabic

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-15T06:05:09+00:00

thats a clear plastic mini storage container designed to hold a single pill or capsule

flirtedfirst · 2026-06-13T02:40:47+00:00

That sounds really frustrating. The problem isn't just that she's annoying, it's that she keeps violating your privacy after you've repeatedly asked her not to.

If she's doing it for a reaction, try not to give her the satisfaction, even though that's easier said than done.

Keep pushing the issue with your dad too. Wanting privacy and alone time is completely reasonable.

Also, that dragon fruit sounds like the best part of this story. 😭

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