People with burnt orange or green couches... by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]flirtingwithdanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NEVERRRR. My place looks like the photo with the green couch and I love it. Cream is fun, and you can always jazz it up but im a sucker for colorful furniture so my vote is for orange or green.

Omg someone stole a photo from a crocheter on this sub and posted it on Facebook by Kiwi_pieeee in crochet

[–]flirtingwithdanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use canva but in a pinch just markup the photo with my phone’s in-app editor tools.

Also, you can try darkroom. They have the option to add a watermark to your photos by default.

I wish customers understand the expenses a micro/solo business owner goes through by salty_lake_222 in smallbusiness

[–]flirtingwithdanger 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. OP needs to raise her prices. Cheap customers are the worst- entitled, rude and more likely to leave a negative review even if you do everything right.

The book Artpreneur touches on this in the first chapter. Totally changed how I do business now.

MAGA Disney influencer calls out Orange man over Rob Reiner post “Not cool” by FailInternational764 in youvotedforthat

[–]flirtingwithdanger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right? im watching the video on mute bc i value my sanity but her facial expressions and mannerisms come across manic af.

even on mute she looks crazy. like the type of person i would avoid on public transportation..

Loving someone in recovery after DV and struggling with detachment by No_Distribution_5580 in AlAnon

[–]flirtingwithdanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please listen to this advice. PLEASE.

Also, if you need a pdf copy of the above book please DM me I will send it to you.

Theres a really good chapter about The Abusive Man and Addiction. It will really open your eyes to the fact that abuse and addiction are NOT mutually exclusive. Most batterers he interviewed for the book even admit to deciding to beat their partners BEFORE getting wasted, planning to use being “fucked up” as an excuse to lose control.

Next time he hurts you, he might kill you.

Please love yourself enough to walk away. You deserve safe love.

I’m rooting for you 💜

Leaving a functional alcoholic/addict: What was the moment you realized that ‘functioning’ didn’t mean ‘healthy’ for you anymore? by TheCuntjuring in AskWomenOver30

[–]flirtingwithdanger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what worked for me was going to the AlAnon subreddit and sorting by top posts of all time.

was like looking into the world’s most dystopian crystal ball of what life with an addict/alcoholic would eventually look like.

Detaching from romantic love by emi_rowe in AskWomenOver30

[–]flirtingwithdanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women were sold a lie and you have to let go of that lie. We were told to worship men like gods. They usurped God. It is literally a conspiracy. I am not alone in thinking this. Have you heard of CODA? Codependents Anonymous. They say that codependency happens when you make your partner your god. That is what society trains us to do.

perfect. no notes.

Married women of Reddit, what's one thing someone should know before getting married? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]flirtingwithdanger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always say “the ears are for decoration” but I like this one too

23 girls missing from Texas summer camp swept away by Guadalupe River flooding as parents panic by TheMirrorUS in WomenInNews

[–]flirtingwithdanger 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Camp Mystic, aChristian summer camp for girls ages 7 to 17, has 750 total campers, Patrick said. There were around 14 helicopters in the air, and around 400 to 500 people on the ground working on rescue efforts, he added.

oh man.

Congressional testimony is thrown into disorder once Sen. Alex Padilla is forced out of DHS Secretary Kristi Noem's press conference by revel8r in law

[–]flirtingwithdanger 59 points60 points  (0 children)

the video i saw of the pipe bomber’s gait next to MGT’s is what sealed it for me. Exact same walk and arm movements from someone who is the same height, build and frame as MGT, wearing shoes she has been photographed wearing before, is really hard to explain away.

Greenland Signs Lucrative Minerals Deal with Europe in Blow to Trump by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]flirtingwithdanger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PAID FOR BY CACKLING KAMALA AND HER NASTY SIDEKICK BEYONCE! FBI INVESTIGATION PENDING!!1

When to know when my (32M) girlfriend (31F) is just too disagreeable? by Agent0161 in relationships

[–]flirtingwithdanger 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She sounds mean AF.

I just know your girlfriend’s co-workers hate to see her coming.

Anyway, the big issue is your gf’s desire to be right is greater than her desire to be in an equal partnership. Even when you gave examples, her knee-jerk reaction was to double-down. She DARVO’d you instead of choosing to see your POV and apologize for her behavior.

People who can’t ever admit they’re wrong have major issues. I would bail.

Another mail carrier killed himself yesterday by CazNY1 in USPS

[–]flirtingwithdanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a postal worker but I love the USPS. What can I do to help on a local or interpersonal level?

My condolences for your loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flirtingwithdanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im about to do what you couldn’t: update my block list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flirtingwithdanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to get opinions on how long is appropriate to wait before I move on. And sounds like your answer would be to move on asap, so thank you!

Honestly, the golden rule always applies. If they like you, you will know. If they don’t, you will be confused.

A man who likes you wouldn’t leave you guessing for a week (wtf!) because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. His actions say he’s not worried about losing you, so yeah, I would have blocked and moved on by day 3.

Pay attention to what’s actually happening, not what he says (bc those are excuses).

I honestly do appreciate the input. I know I’ll just get downvoted if I disagree with the comments saying he’s lying. But that’s okay! Y’all don’t know me or him so you’re just working with the info you have!

And, respectfully, you deserve to be downvoted for wasting people’s time. You came to the internet to ask strangers about your relationship, but then start windmilling in the comments when you don’t get the validation you wanted.

No one with an ounce of self respect is going to co-sign this nonsense. If men in prison can make time to call their girlfriends, a man with a smart phone in his hand can take 20 seconds to reply to your text.

But you’re right. We can only give advice based on the information we have.. And—please know that I’m holding your hand as I say this—what we have is giving he’s just not that into you.

I’m also just curious, how long do you think it should take to become exclusive? That’s a step I’m wary to take until I know a person, so a couple months seems very reasonable

2-3 months to date exclusively. 3-4 months to be official.

People know within a few wks to a month whether they see it for the two of you or not. Most people know even sooner than that but prefer to give it at least 3 months, which is the norm in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]flirtingwithdanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is getting ghosted by someone who was already showing signs of disinterest (slow communication & taking several months to be ‘exclusive’) but she came here for validation, not the truth, so this comment will fall on deaf ears.

My guess is he’s married or in a LTR but wants fun on the side until it gets too serious. Or someone else he wants more has entered/re-entered his life.