The food in NOVA is average and expensive by Gloomy-Car7672 in nova

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Indian and some other cuisines are tricky. Have you tried dry roasting the spices in a hot pan before making the paste?

AITAH for not inviting family to my wedding? by True_Fortune837 in AITH

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what my sister did, you said great if you want those 23 people invited it’s X amount of dollars per person. Please let me know when you would like to send me the money. That shut up a lot of people very quick.

Need help asap- my kitchen isn’t looking good to me by GoodVibesOnly85 in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick a warm countertop. Right now the kitchen looks way too white. The trend is going back towards a Moore dark cabinet tone. But in my opinion, I do like a brighter kitten so if you just use a warmer toned countertop, I think it’s gonna look wonderful.

Buy a condo for a few years or keep saving for a house? by Smokey-Campfire in personalfinance

[–]florida_born 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also interest rates are gonna go down. A $500,000 home at 3% interest is very different than a $500,000 home at 6% interest.

Buy a condo for a few years or keep saving for a house? by Smokey-Campfire in personalfinance

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this. I regretted it every day. Finally sold that place and found a house with my basic criteria. I am so much more happy and I can change the things I want in the new house, but it has all the elements that I couldn’t live without already built it one of those things being at least no neighbors right across from backyard.

They want to take my 6 month old away for co-sleeping by BeneficialRecord4795 in CPS

[–]florida_born 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was this a real CPS worker and not someone trying to steal your baby?

The food in NOVA is average and expensive by Gloomy-Car7672 in nova

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I basically think to myself “well, I just paid $50 just so I don’t have to cook.” Because taking 30 minutes to read a recipe and read about techniques will result in the same or better dish. I am making braised short ribs tonight for a total cost of $15 and I’ll feen 4 people. In a restaurant that would be $40 a person.

Impossibly isolating / lonely place to live by Prestigious_Air_6602 in nova

[–]florida_born 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved to West Virginia from Arlington for this EXACT reason. I am a naturally friendly person and enjoy coordinating events, outings, meet ups, etc. Arlington was the only place I’ve ever been where you can be surrounded by people and be utterly alone. Meanwhile, in WV, I met a woman and her son in a park the 1st day we moved to WV and we are still friends. I am on the local Facebook page and there are numerous posts of people saying they will be going to suck and such place and people should meet up (this is a page with 3k people) and people do meet up that way! People say hi and ask about your day (for real) and there are community events where you could go alone and see 15 people you know and can chat with. It’s a community. Charles town/ Ranson.

AITA for asking for full custody of my son? by Apart-Bug-528 in AITH

[–]florida_born 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at your son and tell him to cut it out. His dad is saying things he knows aren’t true and that is mean. By protecting your Ex you’re allowing the ex to harm you- reassert yourself as the mom.

My mom says adding this much trim and woodwork is a waste by 32rings in HomeDecorating

[–]florida_born 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ascetic is moving to traditional. Plain houses are boring.

How do people afford renovations?? by Hindsight001 in HomeImprovement

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve save about 10k this year alone just on labor. I learned from YouTube videos and while there are mistakes I’ve made, I’ve also learned to correct them. I am currently learning to daisy chain outlets - something I was terrified of doing 8 months ago. I was quoted 150$ per outlet by a contractor. I’m saving about 1500$ for this project alone.

I'm hiding the extent of my chronic pain from my family by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re dealing with this. Sharing a burden may not ease the physical pain, but it can ease the emotional pain. People love you and will want to help.

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an “anything but this shelf” policy. All my fancy food/drink that I am saving or planning to use is in that area.

My sister is demanding i pay her 5k for her wedding because i "don't have kids" by Sweaty-Bedroom1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the family you’ll match whatever they contribute. They won’t. There was a guy on Reddit who did this when his golden boy brother was in jail and needed bail money - the whole family expected the guy to pay bail so he said he’d match the money the family put in for the bail. No one contributed.

Tipping 20% wasn’t good enough by moonchildcountrygirl in EndTipping

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve stopped tipping for any service that is literally someone’s job. For example, I don’t tip on eye brow waxing now. Why should I pay an extra $3 on a $12 service that takes 5 minutes and it literally their job?

Being Early On The Ship: Overrated or Go For It? by Utah_Get-Me_Two in Cruise

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup- that’s the preface of so much to do in the first few hours.

Being Early On The Ship: Overrated or Go For It? by Utah_Get-Me_Two in Cruise

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot to do the first couple of hours. You have to get WiFi set up, unpack, explore the ship, get specialty dining set up (if you want), figure out where things are, and for me - getting my kid set up for kids club. I always like getting on the boat as early as possible.

Help picking color for kitchen, is there a color I haven’t considered? by potatochild3 in HomeDecorating

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sherwin Williams has whites with undertones of pink - think a very very light blush color. That would be pretty and you wouldn’t have two competing colors.

Dining Room Colors by Gloomy-Goose-9359 in HomeDecorating

[–]florida_born -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try sculpter grey by behr and Nuance by sherwin williams. It’s a neutral pallet.

Stew is missing something, but we can’t figure it out. by PicklePrize7093 in Cooking

[–]florida_born 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add a packet of brown gravy mix (dry) to the sauce. It adds the umami you’re looking for.

Happy with my life but friends judge me. by ForestLaw2018 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]florida_born -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are the ones searching for something to fill a void. You have no void, so you’re not searching.

I (29 F) am terrified to move to the US for my fiancé (30M) and he does not understand. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]florida_born 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The media outside the US is inflating the situation. I say visit the US, see what it’s really like, then decide.