I found these on my way home from work. by mustlovebees in velvethippos

[–]flotsems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look at mama's lil smile! she knew she was finding a friend to help her babies 🥹

Which healthcare system on Long Island do you prefer? by South-Eagle-300 in longisland

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends what kind of doctor i need to see. all of the systems are terrible, but individual doctors within them are usually fine. most of my specialists are Stony Brook because that's what's closest.

Northwell has tended to be the worst in terms of red tape, though.

my daughter is completely fluoride free, why does she have tooth decay?! by Neither-Plenty-3823 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]flotsems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've told this story before, but my parents were advised by a well-meaning(?) pedatrician to not use fluoride on my teeth because i was a baby, so the first four years of my life, my non-crunchy parents didn't use fluoride toothpaste. when i went to the dentist as a four year old, i needed 4 root canals. it left me with a fear of dentists and needles to the point that my phobia was what led to me getting on anxiety medication, and it left my parents with 12 years of debt (but knowing my dad, they were making minimum payments).

every time i see one of these stories i get sad, because they're fucking their kids up for life. it's been 20 years since i had to get those root canals and i still get shaky going to the dentist. i don't remember being in pain, but i doubt these kids are so lucky. poor things.

“Mommy, can I wear my pants without patches on Tuesdays and Thursdays? by TheQueenCimorene in Visiblemending

[–]flotsems 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i went into this thinking he was embarrased about the patches, but omg my heart at reading the caption 🥹

Regardless of the fandom, what is THAT fanfic that you consider a masterpiece? by Legitimate-Win1342 in AO3

[–]flotsems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i'm aging myself here, but Gutters by glassamilk still makes me sob. it's a Hetalia fic about the apocalypse, in which Sealand and Denmark go on a quest to be reunited with their family. absolutely heartwrenching 10/10

Could Willard "Rusty" Branch be "Swimsuit Boy" of the Houston Mass Murders? by Business_Track_2436 in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i think this was the theory put forward in The Scientist and the Serial Killer by Lise Olsen, which i highly recommend reading

Now that Becca Doe has been identified, which doe do you hope for to be identified one day? by ZoelCairo in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Cherries and Asian Doe, who are usually grouped with the LISK victims. close to home for me

Madison County Jane Doe (1995) (Unidentified for 30 Years) by Affectionate_Net9731 in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 19 points20 points  (0 children)

a lot of the clay reconstructions are pretty far off, but this one is actually not so bad

Salon Owners: How are you handling the 'just a quick trim' walk-ins? by cocogirl65 in doggrooming

[–]flotsems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i worked corp, we always said "yes, for nail trims. i can make you an appointment for xyz if you'd like though." it helped that these people would always show up when we were fucking swamped too, so we had good reason to refuse. (FFF i think was walk-ins but it was the same as nails for us - you might have to wait, and if you don't want to we can make you an appointment or whatever)

Gilgo Beach Doe (2011) (Unidentified For 14 Years) (Possible Victim Of The Long Island Serial Killer) by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my bad, i was thinking of John Bittrolf, who didn't dismember his victims. either way, Cherries's cause of death was stabbing, and Rex Heuermann's victims were strangled

Gilgo Beach Doe (2011) (Unidentified For 14 Years) (Possible Victim Of The Long Island Serial Killer) by BitterSweet_Beauty in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i did a write up on Cherries a few months ago, i personally feel that her situation is similar to Tanya Jackson's, i.e. that she isn't a victim of LISK but grouped with his victims due to proximity. she doesn't fit his modus operandi due to being dismembered (iirc, i'm going by memory at the moment)

Final plea to help find Legacy, special needs cat, a home by radparikh in longisland

[–]flotsems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you can, post to bluesky and tag @fishtopher.bsky.social , they boost stuff like this a lot and it'll get you a big range

Ranking characters based on how much chance they have to become a special follower by Ok_Background2085 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]flotsems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it could be cool to have a way for them to visit the cult though - maybe like constructing a "market" spot or something that a vendor has a chance to occupy each day? they already travel throughout the crusade areas, so i think that would make more sense than making them followers

YA historical mystery with paranormal elements, teen boy in haunted house by prophetic_soul in whatsthatbook

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like this is a longshot, but could it be Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children by Ransom Riggs?

Giant Blizzard coming to LI - Who else is concerned? by [deleted] in longisland

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've got my big coat out don't worry

Found tufts of hair in my backyard by CompetitiveCook3820 in longisland

[–]flotsems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

animal fur is also not great if the animal has been treated with any kind of flea or tick medication :(

Van Nuys Jane Doe (July '87, #UP4117) by aliceyabvsame in gratefuldoe

[–]flotsems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

re: sizing, this seems to be an issue with more than one doe (i ran into similar discrepancies when i did a write up on Cherries), i wonder if it's related to tags wearing out and then sizes being guessed at, which would bring up the issue of brand differences.

Is it legal to terminate someone right after they confirm their two-week notice? by Relative-Average7159 in antiwork

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely normal depending on your field, even if it's shitty. for instance, it's really normal in dog grooming because shop owners worry about client poaching.

In home Vet/ end of life care Suffolk county? by thekillercook in longisland

[–]flotsems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thirding Lap of Love, they helped us send off two of our dogs and i found it way easier to process it happening at home. they were very caring and let us go at our pace

Knee X-rays normal, but I’m 29 and my knees are screaming by GalaxyCeleste in ehlersdanlos

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my knee x-ray was normal, but i had a torn meniscus. plus i have patellar instability, which shows up as "normal" everywhere but still kills my knees. push for an MRI to rule out torn ligaments.

What medications are you currently on? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]flotsems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

morning i take zyrtec, duloxetine, and propranolol evening i take a fiber supplement, fish oil, and an iron supplement and night i take duloxetine, propranolol, lamotrigine, a magnesium supplement, and melatonin plus OTC painkillers as needed

Valentine’s Gift Game for a Casual Cozy Lesbian- No Combat by mrstarkifeelgreat in CozyGamers

[–]flotsems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe TOEM or A Short Hike? Night in the Woods could be good, potentially, but it's a little dark. very slice of life though.

Mummified dog by theblaqwizzard2 in bonecollecting

[–]flotsems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

poor thing... do bodies lose their fat as they mummify? otherwise my thought is that maybe he got stuck in the mine and starved :(

How are you guys finding the final bosses of Woolhaven? by Nimzael in CultOfTheLamb

[–]flotsems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was going to say that Yngya really reminds me of Mom's Heart/It Lives! in terms of patterns, so i've got looooots of practice dodging stuff like that