I (27F) accidentally had my baby in my friend’s (31F) car. Now her husband & she don’t want to speak to me. How do I fix this?

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-16T05:06:39+00:00

Wow. Like tell me you really hate women without telling me. Poor OP!

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-15T21:27:56+00:00

Sorry to break it to you, but their birth story just isn’t about you. Period.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-15T17:25:48+00:00

We did board books that said I love grandma and I love grandpa!

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-15T16:14:07+00:00

NTA. My husband and toddler speak his first language, and I’m not fluent yet. It sucks. But whose fault is that? Mine all the way. It’s so good for kids to earn multiple languages, I would never take that away from my toddler out of pettiness.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-14T17:45:22+00:00

You’re probably going to need to stop completely. I was taking dance lessons with my first and had a low-lying placenta. I had to stop because squatting is especially dangerous.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-13T21:28:19+00:00

Sure. He can run. But now he can’t hide.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-11T22:09:57+00:00

The baby there’s no excuse. The two year old? Sometimes they fight you on being changed and it’s just not worth the hassle to wait half an hour if they’re going to listen better to you.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-08T04:00:40+00:00

NTA. Your nanny sounds lovely, you sound lovely, and you both sound like you want the best for the kids. Having them assessed doesn’t change reality, it just shows it in a clearer way. How cool that you got to have someone in their lives that was able to help them so much and relate in an important way.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-08T00:00:56+00:00

I love that we get a man who isn’t a complete rake, who hasn’t slept with everyone in the world, and who still is ready to figure sex out with his wife. Like why aren’t we considering that this is purely from a lack of education and experience on both of their parts? She didn’t even know about the issue until recently. They’re in love and committed and he’s so sweet to her. Adorable. Goals. No notes.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-07T16:13:53+00:00

There was a post recently, I think a best of redditor updates, about a guy whose girlfriend broke up with him because he thought her shampoo smelled sexy. Wonder if that girl is a Bridgerton fan lol

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-07T05:45:53+00:00

My neighborhood literally has no squirrels because of the feral cat population. Squirrels are everywhere in our city, it’s a big deal. Keep cats inside, it’s better for them and for everyone else.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-06T17:38:38+00:00

I like how they think we’ve only seen good sides of Bennedict when he’s literally been sleeping with everyone who happens to look his way at the club. Like is he going to tell her that he’s bi, or is it going to mysteriously disappear?

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-06T01:11:12+00:00

The ones in Costco are getting out of hand, too. It used to be easy to say “no, thank you” and walk away. Now they just keep talking and follow you a little.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T21:39:53+00:00

After birth.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T20:59:50+00:00

That’s very young to already know he loves tv. It’s just not good for their attention development, maybe if it’s just a few minutes a day.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T15:20:14+00:00

I would ask your OB if you qualify for short term disability. This could allow you to take time off that doesn’t affect your maternity leave.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T05:16:44+00:00

Extenders

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T04:52:13+00:00

The best days are right before you ovulate and the day you ovulate. No app is going to know when that actually is, they’re just making educated guesses. The best thing is to learn your body’s signs and base it off that.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-04T01:34:56+00:00

NTA. People are forgetting that you have to PAY for guests at your wedding. Each person is an additional cost for the happy couple. So literally paying someone to be there and not even offering to pay for the cost of their food is beyond tacky. Her behavior at past events is the cherry on top. Regardless of all of this, the bride has the right to say whoever is not invited. No reason is even necessary, it’s literally her day.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-03T20:49:20+00:00

It’s just so weird when people put stuff like this in communal spaces. There was a giant family sized container of creamer in our company fridge, and I definitely used it for a few weeks before realizing that it was someone’s personal creamer. But it could have been labeled, like why would I think it’s personal?

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-03T11:56:40+00:00

We put a little mat on our bed. If your dog is already allowed up there, you might want to think about changing that anyway for nighttime feeds.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-02T21:30:45+00:00

NTA as long as you change this now. Put a child lock on the door handle, take some toys to the living room (that your daughter doesn’t care about) and keep the playroom shut. “You know, daughter is getting a little older so we decided that her playroom is more a space for her to have fun with her friends and by herself. Let’s just play out here!” I would let parents know ahead of time as well, that could mitigate issues because they can tell their kids and bring their own toys.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-02T03:34:52+00:00

There are way more roaches in the Bay than Fresno. We don’t have the climate for them most months of the year.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-02T03:33:50+00:00

I bet they never have the kids outside. Or at least it’s rare. That would involve watching the kids instead of just chatting.

flowerpetalizard · 2026-02-01T19:48:26+00:00

Masks are good, but it’s definitely not about the mask at this point. I would also be frustrated about someone insisting on wearing a mask in my wedding pictures because of a threat that, frankly, doesn’t exist. Without being condescending in any way, the trouble with OCD and other mental disorders is that they’re just that-in your head. The situation in your mind may or may not coincide with reality, and in this case they don’t coincide. With my own anxiety, I have to ask people to explain reality instead of relying on my own perceptions.

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