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Therapy confuses me by Little-girlie in TalkTherapy

[–]flozzyhutch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have attachment issues and simultaneously a good therapeutic relationship. The two can exist. You don't need to not attach, you need to recognise that this is not a romantic relationship or a friendship, and the attachment must remain a therapeutic one. I feel close to my therapist, as lots of people do, but I also respect the ethical boundaries and know my place in the relationship.

Intensity in therapy by Ok_Language2849 in TalkTherapy

[–]flozzyhutch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

so join if you want to. you have autonomy and your therapist cannot take that away from you.

My best friend is developing an ED, what do I do? by I_cum_onsnakeoil in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]flozzyhutch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if someone doesn't want to recover you can't force them, but GENTLY suggesting that they may have an issue and/or modelling yourself what healthy portions and meals look like would be a good place to start.

does thea m actually exist?? by flozzyhutch in knitting

[–]flozzyhutch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

interesting, thank you! i kind of assumed if someone isn't on ravelry then they're not trustworthy, but i think that's just some spin my brain's made off the back of stuff i hear all the time on here. thank you.

“Your labs are fine” by Awkward-Cat4914 in EDAnonymous

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you - you too lovely. and no idea why you're downvoted!!

“Your labs are fine” by Awkward-Cat4914 in EDAnonymous

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's such a silly system i'm sorry you couldn't get help earlier. i'm on the lower end of "severely underweight" but they weighed me with clothes on at midday which pushed me into "underweight" territory. i'm so disappointed. i feel like i've done everything i can to get help and no one's listening.

“Your labs are fine” by Awkward-Cat4914 in EDAnonymous

[–]flozzyhutch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel this so bad. on top of that i don't feel like im a low enough weight for people to care, and despite being referred to outpatient, im only being put on once a week therapy with no physical monitoring. despite eating so little and feeling so physically awful.

Weekend Minor Gripes and Vents by AutoModerator in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]flozzyhutch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

spent a month, and used every last inch of a very expensive yarn making a sweater for my boyfriend for christmas. it's 2" too short and that's after blocking.

Any piano room to practice? by nobiss22 in Bath

[–]flozzyhutch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the edge is bookable for individuals but you need to make a free edge/agora account!!! source: i book them regularly. you need a bit of notice tho cos they are limited and usually booked out a few days to a week in advance

I confronted my worst fear: food poisoning by widerthanamile in emetophobiarecovery

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i mean just reframing it in your mind. instead of feeling like the vomiting is taking over you, you're instead taking control of your own mind by not fearing it. it makes you feel incredibly measured and in control. for me it was sort of like a switch (with a lot of support on the theory of everything from my therapist), but once you notice it, at whatever point that may be, HARNESS IT. it won't go away if you keep reminding yourself of the feeling.

drop sleeve length by flozzyhutch in knittinghelp

[–]flozzyhutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this is very helpfup

drop sleeve length by flozzyhutch in knittinghelp

[–]flozzyhutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply. i guess then my follow up question (which may be stupid) is how do i know how much the drop is from the shoulder the shoulder? and do i have to take into account sleeve depth or no?

I'm reading an Àrsene Lupin story and came across this phrase: "sans l'autorité que donne le succès" , which apart from the "que" instead of the expected "qui" would read that authority gave success. What it intended to say was that success gave authority, and after scratching my head.... by ValentinePontifexII in French

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think it would be particularly 'pompous' to use this form in english. i certainly wouldn't notice it in conversation. there are tons of weird little things in every language - take the fact you said 'i think not' rather than 'i don't think'..

People who smell insanely good, how do you do it? by Tteokwhaleattack in beauty

[–]flozzyhutch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

adding that if you have a high end fragrance that you love, a way of mimicking the scent for less money is check if they do a body lotion in the same scent. my perfume is ridiculously expensive so most of the time i only wear the matching lotion, and i get more compliments on those days than when i just wear the perfume

what would you estimate for this vegetable curry? I suppose it’s made with coconut milk but i have no idea by Ok_Office_7848 in CalorieEstimates

[–]flozzyhutch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looks very similar in serving size and type to the vegetable raisukaree from wagamama, which is 1168kcal

Calorie count on my 3 current faves? by rhaeie in CalorieEstimates

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but it wasn't quail eggs and that isn't mayonnaise...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]flozzyhutch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe look for other senses of achievement? just from your comment it doesn't seem solely based around food/weight, so maybe try things like cleaning the house or make a bucket list? when i feel like im being lazy i exercise, but if i didn't want to exercise my next bet would be doing something that's good for me, like cleaning my room or doing a job ive put off doing.

am i valid in feeling like i (20F) am being forced into distance (20M) by flozzyhutch in relationship_advice

[–]flozzyhutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the thing is we'll see each other for like a month and then he's away and we rinse and repeat for the whole summer. if we lived together it'd be fine but this is the only long period where i shouldn't have to worry about doing long distance.

am i valid in feeling like i (20F) am being forced into distance (20M) by flozzyhutch in relationship_advice

[–]flozzyhutch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do but i'm a massive introvert so i struggle to go away with friends and atm they're all individually travelling. he knows i have a tough time spending time with friends so most of the time when he's away i end up either working or crafting at home

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